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A little story worth taking to heart, and something to remember: the High Road is less crowded (and you'll not be surrounded with people who pray for your demise) and the view is spectacular!
"My Mom once told me that she walked into a room where a couple of friends were discussing her, they didn’t know she was there. She shook her head, smiled and walked away. 🕊
My Mom also told me that she had a friend who talked bad about her, she never knew that Mom found out, Mom never mentioned it. She smiled and walked away from this friendship. 🕊
She told me she had family who chose to shift her out of their life because she stood up for herself for a change. And because she stopped crossing oceans for them when they would not even help her cross a bridge. She smiled, shook her head and walked away. 🕊
So I asked her how she could just walk away from people that betrayed her while pretending to be her friends or family? 🕊
She answered that every time she came to a crossroad like that, she had to decide who will be going forward on her journey with her. This showed her who she cannot take along with her. 🕊
So she explained to me that you should never get mad at a person who betrays you, even in the name of friendship or family. Just gracefully bow out and enjoy your journey with all the new people God puts in their place. 🕊
- Credits goes to the unknown Author"

It is the dark of the moon.
New moon is at 11:47pm locally.
Good time to do that final clearing of all that no longer serves, then set intensions for the coming cycle.
Gratitude is the attitude!

Today is New Moon in Libra. Here is a gift for your meditation, from Astro Butterfly:
"On October 21st, 2025, we have a New Moon at 28° Libra.

The New Moon is square Pluto and Jupiter, and opposite Chiron. This Grand Cross New Moon is bound to push all our buttons, prompting us to re-evaluate who we are, especially in the context of our close relationships (Libra).

This is a pressure test New Moon that raises a fundamental “identity” question: what’s truly me (Sun/Moon), what’s my wounds (Chiron), what’s other people’s narratives (Jupiter), and what’s being shaped by forces outside my control (Pluto)?

We are NOT other people’s narratives, the beliefs and cultural scripts we grow up with (Jupiter) - yet, we are shaped by them. We are the products of our times.

If we were born 20 years ago, we would have probably internalized different ideals of success and beauty. If we were born 100 years ago, we might have had different views on marriage, gender, or morality.

What’s important to us is shaped by the world we live in - yet it’s not who we are.

We are not our wounds (Chiron) - yet they live at the core of our being, drawing us back to their gravity in ways we can’t quite explain. We don’t want to go there, because we don’t want to be triggered. We don’t want to face the pain.

Yet this avoidance means we take some actions and not others; it means we might hold back from risks, stay in situations that feel safe, or repeat patterns just to avoid the sting of the primal wound.

Our life is shaped by our wound - yet that’s not who we are.

And there is Pluto. The unavoidable cycles of life and death. The raw, unnegotiable power of nature. And while we all play by Pluto’s rules, we are NOT Pluto."

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Everyone can find 3 things to be grateful for!
Gratitude is the attitude!

Some good tips. Of course as always, use your own discerment and if the tip doesn't resonate, it isn't for you.
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