The Strategy Chick

What’s sitting on your “someday” shelf?

She chose herself.�
And she bloomed.

It’s not too late.

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https://www.thestrategychick.com/post/she-waited-she-bloomed-she-took-the-stage

Sixteen years ago, I crossed the Bourne Bridge headed to Martha’s Vineyard for work.

I wasn’t looking for love.

I was building my life.
Raising my daughters.
Doing the work.

And that’s when Marvin walked into it.

Bloom! isn’t about chasing something new.

It’s about becoming ready for what’s meant for you.

When you bloom, alignment finds you.

Read the full story in my latest blog.



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Marvin

Who could be lucky enough to travel to the Vineyard for work while vacationing with their ex-husband and two young daughters in tow, and fall in love with the man of her dreams? Why me, of course!

Driving from Connecticut a few days before my family, I relished the solitude of a pre-dawn drive. The orange sun began rising as I crossed The Bourne Bridge. Those last moments to Woods Hole felt transformative, and stress relieving. Sitting on the ferry’s upper deck with my first vacation mimosa, the gentle August breeze brushed my skin, tingling with anticipation.

Upon reaching my friend’s home in Tashmoo Cove, I grabbed a cocktail and played bid-whist. In the midst of the game, I spotted him—Marvin. His smile gleamed against his warm brown skin, quietly intriguing. I noted the vibrant woman beside him—Linda, whom I assumed was his wife. We exchanged brief introductions before I returned to the game.

The next day, I attended the Summer Executive Workshop at The Mansion House, bustling with notable Black executives. During lunch, he appeared again. “Hi, I’m Marvin. We met last night,” he said, sending my mind racing. “Where’s his wife?” I wondered.

We conversed about the workshops and events. When Marvin asked if I would join the Island bus tour, we made plans to meet later. However, eager to see my daughters, I went for bike rides instead.

The weekend's final event was on Tashmoo Lake. Just as I entered the backyard, there was Marvin again, near the food stations.

“Hey, I looked for you on the bus tour,” he greeted.

“Oh, something came up and I couldn’t make it,” I replied, secretly thrilled he sought me out.

Our conversation flowed naturally over paella, but after drinking, I needed to briefly excuse myself. Reluctant to end our enchanting exchange, I whispered, “Don’t go anywhere, I’ll be right back.” When I returned, he was still there—same spot, same smile.

We had discussed everything except our personal lives. When he asked how I managed work and life, I seized the moment: “As a single mom, it isn’t always easy.” His smile widened as he replied, “I’m a single dad.” I was awash with excitement, reminiscent of the thrill I experienced driving to Woods Hole.

Shifting the topic to music. I exclaimed, “Everyone knows the best love song is ‘Love Ballad.’” With that, Marvin swept me into his arms, lifting me off the ground. It was his favorite too!

Later, enjoying a nightcap at Deon’s, he revealed he was a widower with three boys, and that it, was his late wife’s birthday. He had spent the day with best friend Linda and jokingly told her, “I’m going to find myself a girlfriend today!” It was kismet!

And sixteen years later, whenever I cross the Bourne Bridge, I feel that rush of excitement, the summer winds, and his smile, sending goosebumps across my skin as I head toward our home in Edgartown, our Serendipity on The Island.

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Bloom! is now available as an audiobook, and I’m so thankful for Mix House Recording Studios for making this a powerful and smooth experience. Thank you for helping me make this audiobook a reality.

Listen to BLOOM!
https://www.amazon.com/Bloom-Strategy-Chicks-Guide-Unlocking/dp/B0GH956N3V/

Happy birthday Chan! ❤️

Clients often come to me anxious about their next step, past hurts and missed opportunities. I love coaching because it is all about moving you forward. Shifting your energy to use it where it is needed most, in the present. I love this quote from the Dalai Lama reminding us there is no better time than now!

Bloom! is now available as an audiobook!

Recording this was a powerful experience—hearing these stories out loud gave them new meaning for me. I’m grateful to the team at Mix House Recording Studio for their care and partnership in bringing this project to life.

If audio fits your life right now, I hope you’ll listen. Growth happens on your terms.

Listen to Bloom!
https://www.amazon.com/Bloom-Strategy-Chicks-Guide-Unlocking/dp/B0GH956N3V/ref=tmm_aud_swatch_0

You asked. I listened.
Bloom! is coming to audio—so you can take this journey wherever you go.

Audiobook coming soon. Stay tuned for details!

Today’s Golden Egg: Set your intent, then set it HIGHER! Give yourself room to be great! Have an amazing Monday!