Your Best Life Community

Please join the fight on August 25. Together we can make a difference.

Please join us this Sunday at 10am as we launch Edison FAST. On behalf of those suffering, thank you.

Our boys are struggling with several challenges that often either
❎ cause them to make bad choices in school or out of school, or
❎ create doubts and confusion about who they are.

✅ Project Manhood prevents that ‼️

A bold statement, but proven over 30 years with thousands of boys in programs around the country. 💯 I'm pleased to be bringing this amazing program to the Edison, NJ area.

So if you have a son 10 - 14 years old, click the link below to get more information. ⤵️

BestLifeForYou.org/ProjectManhood

If your son is older, go ahead and register also because we will be opening up a second group for boys 15 - 18 down the road.

It takes a village to raise a man, and my men and I are ready to be part of your son's village!

Happening this Saturday at 11:00 am in Edison, NJ. Details at bestlifeforyou.org/rise

We can all get adept at overcoming roadblocks and obstacles and all kinds of setbacks and disappointments. Join me as we discuss 6 key strategies for a faster comeback.

Can't make it in person? Get my online training when you register.

Life can come at you fast and hard, and it's vital we are prepared to limit the damage and come back as fast as possible. This is just one of the resources I'll be giving out in my free workshop RISE: How to Come Back From a Setback on April 20th. Get the details at bestlifeforyou.org/rise

I'm soon going to share how I've learned this, but I just want to encourage anyone that failure and setbacks are not final. You CAN come back.

Gurus vs real mentors…

We all know the saying "Don't reinvent the wheel." But who do you turn to if you want real help?

There are SO many gurus who over-promise but under-deliver.

Here’s how to differentiate between gurus & real mentors:

Gurus offer quick, superficial fixes, (like "Just get my book" or "All you have to do is...")

Gurus speak from a stage or an online platform but don't get in the trenches with you

Gurus focus on short-term results (because they're not giving you but so much of their time)

But most importantly…

The real mentors have actually DONE what they say they can help you do. AND they get in the trenches with you until you've mastered it.

I've got these programs helping people rise from their setbacks and become their best self, and I’ve personally DONE this.

I’ve overcome limiting beliefs, transformed my mindset, and risen out of some real setbacks on the way to becoming my best self through the same strategies and techniques I teach in my programs.

AND I'm walking with people step-by-step to help them get it. I'm even in the midst of creating (with a great team) a residential program for people coming out of incarceration. Talk about helping people rise from setbacks!

So the next time you’re looking for some guidance…

Think about the claims they are making… and see if they’ve actually done it themselves and will walk beside you until you've done it also.

Just sayin'

In case you were wondering what I've been up to, I've created some online and in person programs to help people create the best life for themselves, with various kinds of help, obviously.

I find people try to reinvent the wheel too much when there are proven strategies, expert guides, and supportive people ready to help. No need to go it alone. Feel free to take advantage of these for yourself!

I've realized that one way I could summarize what I teach people in my various roles is how to handle what life throws at us better, faster, and with more of the internal and external resources we have at your disposal. Especially when we make some critical mindset shifts. 💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾

I'll be digging deeper into these hard-won strategies at my rescheduled RISE workshop. You can get the info and register here: https://bestlifeforyou.org/rise

When we face setbacks we are at a crossroads 🛣️ 🚦 We can...

Option #1: Drive Blind

Most people I know hit the road without a map or clear destination. Not being clear about what exactly needs to be different in your life is like driving with a blindfold. Sure, you’re moving, but where to? 🚗💨

Option #2: Emotional Overdrive

Letting your emotions take the wheel can lead to rash decisions, like speeding in the wrong direction. It’s important to acknowledge your emotions but not let them drive. 🏎️💔

Option 3: Chart the Right Path: 🤔

Before you rev the engine and speed off, take a moment to define your destination. What change do you want to see at the end of this journey? Visualize it clearly - this vision is your GPS. 🗺️✨

With your destination locked in, plot your course. This doesn’t mean ignoring detours or shortcuts; it means being strategic about the ones you take. ️

Easier said than done, I know!! But if you're ready to map out the shortest path from where you are now to your Best Life, register for my free RISE program. 🚗🌟
https://bestlifeforyou.org/rise