Adam Avitable

Too many men think that being a provider means bringing home a paycheck when it has very little to do with that and everything to do with providing an energy to your partner. This conversation from this couple about a tennis bracelet is an excellent example of how to be a good provider. Men could learn something.

So much whining about men who can’t find partners because of their self sabotage and unwillingness to put work in to be better people. Nobody is entitled to procreate or have a relationship, and making excuses for their terrible behavior is toxic.

Videos like this really illustrate how ingrained domestic labor inequality is in our society. Leveraging your wife’s suffering for cutesy laughs to get the Stranger Things cast to comment is toxic behavior. Men, if you don’t participate in the household maintenance equally, you are the problem.

If you’re still on the apps, here are some great ways to save time and energy by immediately eliminating men with these subtle red flags.

Savannah’s Law is a new law in Tennessee that creates a registry of abusive men. It’s a good law and will benefit society, but guys like this are scared of being held accountable so they’d rather blame women. If you can be provoked into abuse, you’re an abuser. It’s simple.

First, they’re “women” not “girls.” Secondly, this isn’t a question that anyone with any emotional maturity would ask. And finally, everyone who rates other people like this is an automatic one.

What better way to end 2025 than with a new episode of Dating Kinda Sucks? Sarah and I catch up on our lives and I tell the tale of an awful person named Paul. Listen on any podcast app or watch on YT!

It’s 2025, men. Time to start participating in your household activities and showing your wife that you actually like her. If you don’t get her gifts, help with the Christmas shopping and wrapping, and put something in her stocking, you’re a bad husband and person.

Happy holidays to all of my favorite hos. We’re celebrating Transmas and Cismas this year and only TERFs and MAGAts aren’t invited.