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Sometimes, we stay not because we're loved, but because we're hoping one day we will be. You deserve love that doesn't hurt. Take care of your heart , you're not alone. ☝🏻

My first 3 were: Believe, Surrender, Manifest

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When you marry a narcissistic man, you never get a chance to be a wife; instead, you take on the role of a mother because these adults behave like man-children.

They go to work Monday through Friday and then spend their weekends sitting in front of a laptop, downloading music, playing video games, or making messes for you to clean up.
You find yourself single and a father simultaneously, taking on the burden of responsibilities without the support of a partner.

Narcissists don't marry for love or partnership; they marry because they want a maid, cook, secretary, banker, and a nanny.

They crave control, not connection. Their selfish desires consume them, leaving you to run the household, raise the children, and satisfy their every whim.

Your dreams of a loving and equal relationship are shattered, replaced by the harsh reality of servitude.

As days turn into weeks, and weeks into years, you become a shadow of your old self.

Your identity is erased, replaced by the exhausting duties of handling a narcissist's life.
You are obliged to sacrifice your own desires, interests and friendships to accommodate their demands.
Emotional childbirth is suffocating, leaving you drained, resentful, and wondering how you ended up in this nightmare.

You're not alone in this fight.

Many women have fallen prey to the charming facade of a narcissist, only to find themselves trapped in a loveless and ungrateful role.
Remember, you deserve better.

You deserve a partner who loves, supports, and respects you.

Mother’s love🤍

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"Sometimes happiness and peace come when you lose something. Sometimes letting things go is better than holding on." 🍁😌

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We have no right to look down on anyone just because we earn more than they do.
At the end of the day, we’re all just trying to survive…
to provide…
to put food on the table.

Respect every kind of hustle.
Because dignity isn’t measured by income ,
it’s measured by effort, sacrifice, and heart.

Jennylyn Mercado: “Dahil ba buntis ako kaya ako papakasalan? Tinanong ko ‘yan sa kanya.”

Dennis Trillo: “Pero hindi naman ‘yun ang dahilan kung bakit, Tito Boy. Kasi noon pa lang, bago pa kami magpakasal, bago pa magpandemic, parang mag-asawa na rin ang turingan namin sa isa’t isa.”

Jen has been hurt before, so trust doesn’t come easy. She’s learned to guard her heart, to question intentions, and to expect people to leave. But deep down, she still hopes—hopes that someone will see beyond her walls and choose to stay anyway.

The right person won’t be scared of her past. He won’t just make promises—he’ll prove, through patience and consistency, that love isn’t about perfection but about staying, even through the hard days. No matter how broken she feels, he’ll remind her that she is worthy of love, trust, and something real.

Darating din ‘yung araw
na may makikilala ako
na marunong magpahalaga.

Yung hindi ko kailangang habulin,
At hindi ko kailangang ipaglaban
mag-isa.

Yung pipili sa’kin
araw-araw
at pakikitunguhan ako
nang tama.