Destiny Reality Mission

RAW ANSWERS FOR TOUGH QUESTIONS IN MARRIAGE [RATFQIN]

QUESTION 1
"I have been married for 4 years. My Husband makes some outrightly crazy demands in the other room. For God's sake I am not a pr******te or an acrobat. Is what I am going through normal or strange? Is that what there is to marriage? Thanks Sir"

RAW ANSWER:-
The only Perfect Marriage is the Wedding of the Lamb and His Church at Eternity. What this implies is that your marriage will never br perfect and both of you have to continously and consciously discuss and work on your marriage. Convince him, pray for him to do away with his s*x demand that is bad and equally convince yourself and pray for yourself to accept those things he genuinely need that are not sinful.
Jesus warned us to beware of the yeast of the pharisees. Yeast makes bread to swell inflating it. In marriage a yeast may be lust or po*******hy that can inflate the man's s*x urge to the level that the wife cannot fulfil. For instance if your spouse is asking for a**l s*x, there are some sicknesses and distortions of the a**s attributed to a**l penetractions among others. There maybe exceptions however spouses should do away with health-threatning demands.
But if he needs oral stimulations and other activities that are pleasurable, do not deprive him and yourself of such. The truth is that when a WEDDED husband and wife are alone in their room, most rules are ruled out and there is liberty.
Do not say that you are not acrobatic. Go and join gymn club and Jog round your estate. Don't give any small flexible girl the opportunity to take your place. Don't remain the Analogue wife while someone else becomes the Digital that is always internet-ready to send and receive signals and download at anytime. Give it to him in the kitchen and in the garden. Visit his office during break time and give him a "Quickie" what they call sharp sharp (if he is the CEO oooo)
As a husband reading this, do not for any reason demand or do what will cause injuries on your wife. It's only a mad man at a graveyard that injures his own body. Don't watch p**n and tell your wife to do that because p**no is 90% fake and those actors mostly take drugs to act the remaining 10%. Always make it pleasurable and prepare her mind long before the Act of Marriage.

●■○ By Father Abraham Ayegba Opaluwa
A COREN-Certified Civil/Structural Engineer by profession and a Marriage Counsellor by calling. A member of House On The Rock, he is married to the Sarah and they live in Lekki with their 3 children.
Reach him on WhatsApp or call 08070809889

MEN OF GOD ARE MEN!!!
Several months ago, I was in a bus on Lagos Mainland when a young intelligent Christian Brother held the whole passengers spell-bound condemning a prominent Man of God who separated from his wife. This young man explained to the keenly interested audience how for more than 10 years he had been a loyal disciple of that Man of God and he ended up disappointing him and God. Suddenly I interrupted him and asked him if for those years his life and his marriage was blessed by this Pastor. He said yes but added that "A Divorcee and Adulterer cannot preach anything to him again!" That was when I took time to explain to everyone in the bus how that young man lacked love and concern for someone who for several years have helped in shaping his life and marriage. Even the Bible says "He that watereth shall be Watered". When your own marriage passes through messy crisis and dirty conflicts, you open up to your pastor and he keeps your secrets and prays for you and settles you. Satan is vexed sorely for how he helps you and Several others in your shoes. But the second your Pastor's life or home experiences a small hitch that is magnified by Journalists and Jobless Bloggers, you of all people join Agents of Satan to crush him and nail him the more. It's not fair.

With reoccurring and recurrent torrents of accusations and counter-accusations against certain Men of God, it has become pertinent of me to put some records straight. Men of God are first of all MEN and they always remain men all through their lives. If God will wait for humans to become perfect before using them for his work, then God will have to wait till eternity. However in the Wisdom of the Only Wise God, He chooses the WEAK things of this world to shame the things that are strong. He uses the dishonourable things to surprise the honourable ones.
That is God. So don't be too shocked is a highly revered Man of God does an online chat with a supposed pr******te (whether true or not) after all in public a harlot used her tears and hair to wipe the feet of Christ and to break alabaster perfume on him. In public! Do not be shocked if a Man of God has serious Issues with his wife, pray for them to overcome do not become the CNN of Satan. Don't seek for the downfall or nakedness of anyone making efforts to depopulate Hell. Because the Gates of hell will not rest. But they will surely fail in Jesus name.

Engr Abraham Opaluwa is on a divine mission to restore Marriages and Families. An accomplished Structural Engineer, He is a member of House on The Rock, Lekki. Contact him via WhatsApp 08070809889

FAMILY FINANCIAL FREEDOM (FFF part 1)
ENJOYING PROSPERITY IN SCARCITY

Every family deserves to enjoy financial freedom during widespread scarcity. This post is about what you can do RIGHT NOW to enjoy financial freedom from now henceforth. Before I enter into it, I want to state that these truths contained herein, I learnt them by experience meaning I broke this laws and suffered the consequences before I leant them. So it is not a theory I read somewhere but practical!!!
To start, to understand what Financial Freedom means, you look at what Financial Bo***ge (it's opposite) is. Financial Bo***ge is the state whereby a person or family or community is in a prison called LACK to the point that you don't only lack money, you also lack any help or helper to give you money. At that state, you only borrow to feed. Borrowing to execute a sharp sharp business deal is fantastic but borrowing to feed is a clear sign of Financial Bo***ge. There are few symptoms of Financial Bo***ge:-
1. Borrowing to Feed:- Nothing takes sleep from your eyes as debts. Debt and Death are Twins. A borrower is a Slave to the lender so says the Bible.
2. Planlessness:- Your not being able to plan your feeding or your family's finances for next month, for next 6 to 12 months is a sign of Financial Bo***ge. If you eat what you see, there is Financial Bo***ge.
3. Control by money:- You can have a million in your account yet you cannot put just N500 into the offering basket and you are squeezing a dirty N50 into the envelope as if you stole the N50, that is sign of Financial Bo***ge. See any time I want to give a higher denomination and my body do me like as if it is my blood, then I must double it or empty my pocket. Money CANNOT BE allowed to control us! No it has suffered God's people enough!
4. When Husband and wife are at peace when there is no money and as soon as you get paid an amount you are owed then you people start fighting and quarrelling it is very clear BOTH of them are under Financial Bo***ge.
I can't dwell much on the Bo***ge. Now HOW DO YOU FREE yourself and your family from this bo***ge into Financial Freedom?
A. Do not depend on Prayer to get Money. One of the greatest errors Children of God make is to pray to get money. God did not say we should pray for money. I like looking at the lifestyle of Christ as my example. When he was asked to pay tax even though he wasn't supposed to pay, he did not pray. He used the Fishing Expertise/Skill of Peter to get cash. What do we do when we need money, we curse the employer or governor that owes us, we fast and pray, we go to borrow etc. Those are errors!! If you must pray for money, stop at our Lord's Prayer "Give us our daily bread" then get up so that God can provide the bread through you for your family.
B. Master atleast 3 Profitable Skills!!!!
It takes Skills to Kill Poverty. Please to get to circle of Financial Freedom, you Must master skills that bring money! Don't tell me you have only 1 skill that is only needed during Christmas..The hunger go tay. Or if you are skilled in Pushing truck, there too many garage boys that are inside that business and the sun is too hot. Please master skills that are scarce but in hot demand.
Please don't let God and His angels hear you say that you are a pastor and not learn any skill. Apostle Paul that wrote 2/3 of the new Testament was a Tent-maker (I.e House builder). He built house and got paid during morning and by afternoon he preached and did miracles. You don't do miracles neither do you write letters like him except fundraising letters. Master a skill today!
C. Convert your Assets to Wealth:- So many reading this post have many Talents and other great endowments from God that they overlook and commonize. If you know how to talk in public that can hold people spell-bound, then you don't have business being broke because you can convert it to money (inbox me to show you how). If you are a pretty Lady or charming guy that has divine favour, many companies are seeking for you as their models. All these free pictures you have been spreading on Facebook has only multiplied useless disturbers while u remain cold broke. I know many Ladies who are paid just to use makeups of some companies and they pay them per pix they post. Whatever is your gifting, convert it to CASH. Do u know pheonetics well, there are many rich guys seeking for you. If you have too much traffic on your Facebook you can get paid do posts. God's people perish not for hunger or Satan but for ignorance.
D. NEVER EVER SAY THERE IS NO MONEY. The day you say it Money flees from you. Okay please tell me whether Money melted into the ground. Did it everporate? No money yet many houses are rising daily. No money yet people are buying cars like mad. It is because you said no money that you brain didn't see that there is money. A long time ago I bought one lexus and started seeing it everywhere! My brain activated my eyes to see them. The day you wife becomes pregnant it's only pregnant women you will see. The day you convince your mind that there is money, you start seeing money-making opportunities everywhere!!!
-TO BE CONTINUED.

By Abraham Ayegba Opaluwa is a Public Speaker and Prolific Writer based in Lekki, Lagos-Nigeria. He is a member of House of The Rock Church, and the Founder of Destiny Reality Inc - a mission to take God to families to raise God-carriers who are gods on earth.

FAMILY FINANCIAL FREEDOM (FFF part 1)
ENJOYING PROSPERITY IN SCARCITY
Every family deserves to enjoy financial freedom during widespread scarcity. This post is about what you can DO RIGHT NOW to enjoy financial freedom from now henceforth. Before I enter into it, I want to state that these truths contained herein, I learnt them by experience meaning I broke this laws and suffered the consequences before I leant them. So it is not a theory I read somewhere but practical!!!
To start, to understand what Financial Freedom means, you look at what Financial Bo***ge (it's opposite) is. Financial Bo***ge is the state whereby a person or family or community is in a prison called LACK to the point that you don't only lack money, you also lack any help or helper to give you money. At that state, you only borrow to feed. Borrowing to execute a sharp sharp business deal is fantastic but borrowing to feed is a clear sign of Financial Bo***ge. There are few symptoms of Financial Bo***ge:-
1. Borrowing to Feed:- Nothing takes sleep from your eyes as debts. Debt and Death are Twins. A borrower is a Slave to the lender so says the Bible.
2. Planlessness:- Your not being able to plan your feeding or your family's finances for next month, for next 6 to 12 months is a sign of Financial Bo***ge. If you eat what you see, there is Financial Bo***ge.
3. Control by money:- You can have a million in your account yet you cannot put just N500 into the offering basket and you are squeezing a dirty N50 into the envelope as if you stole the N50, that is sign of Financial Bo***ge. See any time I want to give a higher denomination and my body do me like as if it is my blood, then I must double it or empty my pocket. Money CANNOT BE allowed to control us! No it has suffered God's people enough!
4. When Husband and wife are at peace when there is no money and as soon as you get paid an amount you are owed then you people start fighting and quarrelling it is very clear BOTH of them are under Financial Bo***ge.
I can't dwell much on the Bo***ge. Now HOW DO YOU FREE yourself and your family from this bo***ge into Financial Freedom?
A. Do not depend on Prayer to get Money. One of the greatest errors Children of God make is to pray to get money. God did not say we should pray for money. I like looking at the lifestyle of Christ as my example. When he was asked to pay tax even though he wasn't supposed to pay, he did not pray. He used the Fishing Expertise/Skill of Peter to get cash. What do we do when we need money, we curse the employer or governor that owes us, we fast and pray, we go to borrow etc. Those are errors!! If you must pray for money, stop at our Lord's Prayer "Give us our daily bread" then get up so that God can provide the bread through you for your family.
B. Master atleast 3 Profitable Skills!!!!
It takes Skills to Kill Poverty. Please to get to circle of Financial Freedom, you Must master skills that bring money! Don't tell me you have only 1 skill that is only needed during Christmas..The hunger go tay. Or if you are skilled in Pushing truck, there too many garage boys that are inside that business and the sun is too hot. Please master skills that are scarce but in hot demand.
Please don't let God and His angels hear you say that you are a pastor and not learn any skill. Apostle Paul that wrote 2/3 of the new Testament was a Tent-maker (I.e House builder). He built house and got paid during morning and by afternoon he preached and did miracles. You don't do miracles neither do you write letters like him except fundraising letters. Master a skill today!
C. Convert your Assets to Wealth:- So many reading this post have many Talents and other great endowments from God that they overlook and commonize. If you know how to talk in public that can hold people spell-bound, then you don't have business being broke because you can convert it to money (inbox me to show you how). If you are a pretty Lady or charming guy that has divine favour, many companies are seeking for you as their models. All these free pictures you have been spreading on Facebook has only multiplied useless disturbers while u remain cold broke. I know many Ladies who are paid just to use makeups of some companies and they pay them per pix they post. Whatever is your gifting, convert it to CASH. Do u know pheonetics well, there are many rich guys seeking for you. If you have too much traffic on your Facebook you can get paid do posts. God's people perish not for hunger or Satan but for ignorance.
D. NEVER EVER SAY THERE IS NO MONEY. The day you say it Money flees from you. Okay please tell me whether Money melted into the ground. Did it everporate? No money yet many houses are rising daily. No money yet people are buying cars like mad. It is because you said no money that you brain didn't see that there is money. A long time ago I bought one lexus and started seeing it everywhere! My brain activated my eyes to see them. The day you wife becomes pregnant it's only pregnant women you will see. The day you convince your mind that there is money, you start seeing money-making opportunities everywhere!!!
-TO BE CONTINUED.

By Abraham Ayegba Opaluwa is a Public Speaker and Prolific Writer based in Lekki, Lagos-Nigeria. He is a member of House of The Rock Church, and the Founder of Destiny Reality Inc - a mission to take God to families to raise God-carriers who are gods on earth.