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Why my kids are not the best thing that has ever happened to me — Media Personality Izzy Ogbeide

Media personality Izzy Ogbeide has stirred widespread reactions online after sharing her personal views on motherhood, marriage, and life priorities in a video posted on her TikTok page.

In the video, Ogbeide explained that while many people consider getting married and having children as life’s greatest achievements, she personally does not see it that way, saying her life has been shaped more by other defining experiences.

“If I am to count the best thing I have in my life and the best decision I have taken in my life, getting married and having kids isn’t the best thing that has happened to my life”

She went on to highlight other major life moments she considers more significant, including relocating from Italy, seeking asylum in the United States, and supporting her father through a serious health battle.

“Removing myself from Italy is in the list, claiming asylum in the US is in the list, saving my father from d+ing from cancer is in the list. But my kids are never the best thing that has ever happened to me”

Ogbeide further stated that she views herself as her greatest achievement and does not center her happiness on her children or husband.

“I am the best thing that has ever happened to my life. My children are not the center of my life, they are not my happiness, my husband is not my joy, instead they are work I used my hand to put on myself and even debt”

She also described children as a responsibility rather than a symbol of emotional fulfillment or success.

“Kids are responsibilities. They are not blessings, they are not roses, they are not fairies, they are even investment. I take full responsibility of my children so I even blame myself for anything they do”

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Lady invites people to her uncle's divorce party

"Men get into relationships because of consistent s3x.

That's the truth. It's like you can roll over at 2 a.m. right? If you're single, you have to go on dates, you have to talk this, talk that, but it's different when you're married. Because at 2 a.m. when bl00d is flowing, you could roll over.

The true thing as a woman: You should never be dating for love. What if love mèssès around? F@lling in love, even getting prègnant... Like that's actually really sc@ry, you know?

Women have way more to l0se being in a relationship than men do. So any girl that's out there that is dating for love, you are the reason why p0verty exists”

— A lady has generated reactions on social media after sharing her views on relationships, arguing that women should not enter r0m@ntic relationships primarily for love.

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Married Woman Who Faked Her N50million Kidn@p Arrested in Hotel With Lover in Delta State

A married woman, identified as Oluchi, has been found in a hotel in Delta State after allegedly staging her own abd¥ction and demanding a N50 million ransom from her family.

Her children, including a daughter based in Canada, had appealed to the public for help in raising funds after the supposed kidn@ppers reduced the ransom demand to N20 million. The family had reported to police that she was abd¥cted in the Ikpoba Hill area of Ikpoba-Okha LGA, Edo State.

However, police investigations traced the phone number of a suspected accomplice to a hotel in Ubiaroko, Delta State, where officers reportedly found Oluchi and her lover together.

A source said the woman’s husband was invited to the station and informed of the discovery, adding that Oluchi pleaded with him not to reveal the truth to their children.

Reacting in an online video, her daughter, Anita, expressed shock and disappointment, saying the incident had devastated the family.

She said no ransom was paid, the money raised remained intact, and the family would refund donations. Anita added that police investigations revealed the alleged kidn@pping was staged and linked to her mother’s relationship with the suspect.

Edo State Police spokesperson, CSP Moses Yamu, confirmed the incident, stating that four suspects have been arrested in connection with the case.

According to a post on X, a man accidentally came across a voice note from his fiancée while she was talking to her best friend. One statement hit him like a truck and changed everything:

"If the marriage doesn’t work out, at least I’ll still benefit financially."
At first, he tried to brush it off.
But as he listened further, the situation became even more painful.

His fiancée admitted she still had feelings for her ex and wasn't genuinely attracted to the man she was about to marry.

Now tell me, who wouldn't be devastated by that? Imagine discovering that the woman you plan to spend your life with values what you can provide more than who you are as a person.

Many people focused on the embarrassment of canceling a wedding just days before the ceremony. But how many stopped to consider the betrayal behind that decision?
One of the biggest mistakes people make when judging relationship choices is calculating the cost of leaving while completely ignoring the cost of staying.

Yes, calling off a wedding three days before the big day is painful.
But do you know what's even more painful?
Waking up beside someone ten years later and realizing they never truly chose you.

Look around. Many people are trapped in unhappy marriages today because they ignored information that should have made them walk away before saying "I do."

They saw the warning signs. They heard the disrespect. They felt something was wrong.
But after spending money on venues, invitations, decorations, and catering, they convinced themselves to continue.

Years later, they're paying a much heavier price.
The reality is simple: nobody wants to discover that they're being loved for convenience rather than for who they are.

A man can survive hardship with a woman who genuinely loves him. He can survive financial struggles. He can survive setbacks. He can survive public criticism.

But it's incredibly difficult to live with the knowledge that you're nothing more than a retirement plan, a provider,