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Hi Everyone

I hope you all have a good day.

I’ve decided to post a number of the short chapters from the autobiographical self-help book that I’m currently writing – and part of which can be read in the WordPress blog davidkellymystory.wordpress.com

In this instance, I’m posting the chapter I wrote on forgiveness, and I sincerely hope you like it.

Once again, I hope you’ve a good one and look forward to posting with you again, soon.

David

Forgiveness

"The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong." - Mahatma Gandhi

According to the book ‘A Course in Miracles’, by Helen Schucman, all disease comes from a state of un-forgiveness. Schucman also believes that whenever we are ill, we need to look around to see who it is that we need to forgive. Personally speaking, upon realising just how powerful the power of forgiveness actually is, I immediately began forgiving everyone in my life - myself included; for any suffering that I had experienced over the years. And incredibly, within a relatively short period of time, I quickly became aware of a very real improvement in my health; as well as overall, in just about every other area of my life.

Take Control of Your Life – Why NOT to Play the ‘Blame Game’

Hi Everyone

I hope you all had a good day.

This evening, I’d like to speak with you about why it’s so important that we do not play the ‘blame game’. Blame is one of the surest ways to stay in a problem and whenever we blame someone else we are not taking responsibility for our own lives. Because when we blame another we are giving away our spiritual power. Also, if we ever feel that our parents hurt us, it is vital for our spiritual freedom to understand that they were doing the best they could with the understanding, awareness and knowledge that they had when they were rearing us. Furthermore, the only things that they could possibly teach us are what they themselves had been taught.

How much do you know about your parents’ childhoods, especially before the age of ten? I now advise that if it’s still possible for you to find out, ask them. Additionally, if you’re able to find out about your parents’ childhoods and feel that they hurt you during yours, you will more easily understand why they did so. And you will then derive compassion from this same understanding.

However, if you don’t know or can’t find out, try to imagine what it must have been like for them by asking yourself questions like - what kind of childhood would have created an adult to behave in such a way as to hurt you like that? It’s important for you to realise that you need this knowledge for your own freedom and you can’t free yourself until you initially free them and this freedom starts with first forgiving them, because you can’t forgive yourself until you do so. Therefore start now by using the great power of forgiveness that lies within us all and by doing so you will open the doors to the unlimited spiritual power that lies within.

Once again, I hope you all had a great day and look forward to speaking with you later. In the meantime please feel free to comment on this evening’s post which was inspired by Louise Hay’s book ‘You Can Heal Your Life’.

Spiritual Love and best wishes,

David

Hi Everyone

Hope you’re enjoying the Easter weekend.

I’ve just added some more text to my blog, davidkellymystory.wordpress.com if you’d like to have a read of it.

Also, thanks for all the feedback to date, I appreciate it. Furthermore, I am sincerely glad to know that, for some, it has inspired you to make such positive changes in your lives.

Regards, as I hope you all continue to enjoy the Easter weekend.

David

Hi Everyone

I hope that you have a great 2016, and remember that it’s the thoughts you think that creates the world within which you live. Therefore, simply, be mindful of your thoughts.

Also, don’t blame or criticise yourself or others for anything that seemingly goes wrong in your life. Because, by doing so, you only diminish your spiritual power; including, where your positive feelings of self-confidence, self-worth, and wellbeing are concerned.

Furthermore, be quick to forgive others and also quick to forgive yourself. Being in a state of forgiveness is a very powerful and spiritually rewarding experience. Whereas, being in a state of non-forgiveness only leads to illness. Also, if initially, you’re finding it hard to forgive yourself or others, begin with being willing to do so; and, thereafter, you will be amazed, just how easy it actually is to do so.

Moreover, remember to live totally in the present moment where all of life’s infinite possibilities exist. Personally, I find meditation is a great way of achieving this state of being. And, while in this pure state, you will find yourself easily letting go of the past; while, also letting the future take care of itself.

Additionally, please be mindful of the importance of positive change in your life, and the need to regularly incorporate it into your life. “It’s not the strongest of the species that survive, nor the most intelligent, but the ones most responsive to change.” - Charles Darwin (1809-1882)

Wishing you all, a happy and a peaceful New Year,

David

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Hi Everyone

Hope you all had a good one.

Please remember, never blame anyone when negative things happen in your life. Because, by blaming others, you only give your power away. Instead, mind your thought-patterns, because it is these that are creating everything, both negative and positive, in your life.

Hope you all have a great day tomorrow.

David

Hi Everyone

Hope you all had a good day.

I myself am really grateful for the fact that I had a really good one today. Also, I’ve just said goodbye to my last client of the day. And I am now feeling so grateful for the fact that I do what I love and I love what I do.

As always, please remember to be mindful of your thoughts, because it’s your thoughts that are creating your future…

Slán agus beannacht ag an tam seo.

David

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Hi Everyone

Hope you all had a good weekend and are now enjoying today and living in mindfully in the present moment.

Now, I would like to share with you, a quote from the Dalai Lama XIV regarding his interpretation of blessing.

“Blessing must arise from within your own mind. It is not something that comes from outside. When the positive qualities of your mind increase and the negativities decrease, that is what blessing means. The Tibetan word for blessing …means transforming into magnificent potential. Therefore, blessing refers to the development of virtuous qualities you did not previously have and the improvement of those good qualities you have already developed” - Dalai Lama XIV

God bless and look forward to interacting with you all later.

David

Hi Everyone

Please remember to be mindful of your thoughts, because it’s your thoughts that are creating your future…

As always, I look forward to any comments or questions that you may have on clinical hypnotherapy and psychotherapy.

In the meantime you might like to check-out my website: http://personaltransformations.ie And on handheld-devices: www.personaltransformations.mobi

Also, for those of you who would like to read how and why I decided to become a therapist, you can do so by visiting my Blog: davidkellymystory.wordpress.com


Have a good one and look forward to chatting with you later!!

David

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Hi Everyone

I decided to publish to WordPress and would appreciate if you would please read what I have written. The address of the site is: davidkellymystory.wordpress.com

Also, if you do, I sincerely hope that you enjoy reading it. Additionally, as well as finding it interesting, I hope it will serve as an educational and inspirational experience for you.

In short, it outlines how happy my life was while living in Dublin. And then relates how my life got even better when I moved to Trim in County Meath. Next it tells how tragedy struck and continued to strike for approximately two years. Including, where several accidents, a house fire, unemployment, marital separation, near death experience, serious illness, deaths of loved ones and more are concerned.

Next, it relates how I managed to successfully rise above all of these tragic circumstances and very significantly tells how I died, experienced the presence of God and thereafter how, what we commonly describe as miracles, occurred in my life.

Furthermore, you will also learn how with prayer, hypnosis and meditation, along with developing a healthy lifestyle, setting proactive goals and having a positive attitude, I went on to achieve and thankfully continue to achieve what society normally perceives and describes as success, in my life.

However, infinitely more important, is the fact that today I am alive and have excellent health along with love, happiness and peace in my life.

Best regards,

David

Good morning everyone, and hope you all got off to a good start.

Also, hope that everything has been going well for you lately in most, if not in every area of your lives?

However, for those of you who have been experiencing sorrow, pain, suffering and or any other negative feelings recently, hopefully you will take comfort in the following words of the Lebanese poet Khalil Gibran “Out of suffering have emerged the strongest souls; the most massive characters are seared with scars”.

Hope you all have a good one and remember to be mindful of your thoughts…because it is your thoughts that are creating your futures.

God bless and look forward to interacting with you throughout the day.

David

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Hypnosis – FAQ

Hi everyone and hope you are all enjoying the weekend.

Unfortunately most people I speak with initially have a misconception regarding what hypnosis is. And, therefore I’d now like to clarify as concisely as I can what it really is and do so with the following page from my website htpp://personaltransformations.ie entitled ‘Hypnosis FAQ’ and hope that you find it interesting, informative and helpful for you.


What is hypnosis?
Unlike the TV or movie version, hypnosis is simply a state of deep relaxation. And, in this state, the critical factor is set aside and the desired change is then hopefully brought about.

Can anyone be hypnotised?
Yes. In fact most people experience hypnosis several times a day without even realising it. For example, we all experience hypnosis while day-dreaming, listening to relaxing music and reading books. Also, the state experienced directly on entering and leaving sleep is hypnosis.

What does hypnosis feel like?
Because hypnosis is merely an altered state of awareness, at no time will you be asleep or unaware of what is going on. However, you will feel more relaxed than you normally do. Also, feelings of peace, serenity and well-being generally accompany this feeling of deep relaxation.

Can I do something against my will?
No. In fact, if anything is ever innocently suggested to you in hypnosis that is against, for example, your morals or beliefs, you can simply ignore it.

What about stage-hypnosis?
Successful stage-hypnosis relies on willing volunteers. And, those people who do volunteer have a desire to perform in the show. Hypnosis merely helps them to release any inhibitions that they may ordinarily have while doing so. However, when a fully qualified hypnotherapist is using hypnosis to help you, he is using it to access your subconscious in order to bring about positive change in your life.

Will I remember everything during hypnosis?
Yes. Due to the fact that you are in a conscious state of awareness at all times during hypnosis, you will remember everything.

Am I giving up control during hypnosis?
No. You will be in complete control during the entire session. Furthermore, always remember, that the only one who thinks in your mind is you - therefore, the only one that can control your mind is you.

Are there any after effects?
After each session most people feel very relaxed, while at the same time being in complete control of all their faculties. Also, when their consultation is complete, they are able to perform any task that they normally perform on a daily basis, such as driving, working in their usual occupations, etcetera. Additionally, most people experience a very pleasant increase of positive energy after each session.

Why is hypnosis sometimes linked to magic, mysticism and mystery?

Once again, TV and movies are mostly responsible for this. However, there is nothing magical, mystical or mysterious about hypnosis. In fact, it is a normal, natural phenomenon that is freely available to everyone.

I hope that you enjoyed reading the above piece on hypnosis and also hope that you found it to be interesting, informative and helpful for you. Furthermore, if there are any questions you have for me on this topic or any other topic related to my work as a clinical hypnotherapist & psychotherapist, please feel free to ask me and if I can answer them I will. Hope you enjoy the rest of your weekend and best regards, David

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Take Control of Your Life – Why NOT to Play the ‘Blame Game’

Good morning everyone and how are you this morning?

This morning I’d like to speak with you about why it’s so important that we do not play the ‘blame game’. Blame is one of the surest ways to stay in a problem and whenever we blame someone else we are not taking responsibility for our own lives. Because when we blame another we are giving away our spiritual power. Also, if we ever feel that our parents hurt us, it is vital for our spiritual freedom to understand that they were doing the best they could with the understanding, awareness and knowledge that they had when they were rearing us. Furthermore, the only things that they could possibly teach us are what they themselves had been taught.

How much do you know about your parents’ childhoods, especially before the age of ten? I now advise that if it’s still possible for you to find out, ask them. Additionally, if you’re able to find out about your parents’ childhoods and feel that they hurt you during yours, you will more easily understand why they did so. And you will then derive compassion from this same understanding. However, if you don’t know or can’t find out, try to imagine what it must have been like for them by asking yourself questions like what kind of childhood would have created an adult to behave in such a way as to hurt you like that? It’s important for you to realise that you need this knowledge for your own freedom and you can’t free yourself until you initially free them and this freedom starts with first forgiving them, because you can’t forgive yourself until you do so. Therefore start now by using the great power of forgiveness that lies within us all and by doing so you will open the doors to the unlimited spiritual power that lies within you.

Hope you all have a great day and look forward to speaking with you later. In the meantime please feel free to comment on this morning’s post which was inspired by Louise Hay’s book ‘You Can Heal Your Life’.

Spiritual Love and best wishes,

David

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