Adam Simmonds

"7 ways my husband is a leader and yours is a loser."

This kind of content gives us the ick.

Because if your husband isn't doing those things, you're left wondering what's wrong with him, what's wrong with you, and what's wrong with your marriage.

Nothing is inherently wrong with either of you.

It's a pattern. He steps back, you step up. You take over, he stops trying. And round it goes.

In our 23 years together, we didn't change our marriage by shaming each other. We changed the pattern by changing the roles we were both playing.

Your partner isn't the problem. The pattern is.

❤️ Ready to recreate yours? Recreate Your Relationship Online. Link in bio.

You didn’t become roommates because life got busy.

You became roommates because somewhere between the kids, work, responsibilities and routines, you stopped intentionally creating your marriage.

Great marriages don’t just “work.”

They keep growing. They keep evolving. And they keep choosing connection. ❤️

Ready to start creating a different experience of your marriage?

Start with Recreate Your Relationship Online — $97 per couple. Link in BIO.

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These are the 5 common beliefs I see keeping good men stuck in marriages they say they want to change.

Because if you want your marriage to change, you can't keep doing what you've always done and wait for your wife to become easier to live with.

A lot of men aren't asking for too much from their marriage.

They're showing up too passively inside it and expecting too little from themselves.

Your marriage doesn't need you to have all the answers.

It needs a man willing to show up even on the hard days.

To have the conversations you've been avoiding.

To understand the woman you're married to now.

To take some initiative instead of waiting for her to tell you what's wrong.

And to keep growing alongside her.

The goal isn't just to stay married for another 20 years.

It's to create a marriage together that you'd both actually WANT to be part of for the next 20 years.

And if you're ready to be that man, take the initiative and lead the first step.

Join Recreate Your Relationship Online.

3 practical videos. No counselling. No therapy.
$97 for a couple.

Don't wait for your wife to fix the marriage.

Be the one who says, “Let's create something better together.”

This week we're in Thailand with 12 of our Save My Marriage School clients 🇹🇭

Three days. No kids. No work. No rushing to the next thing.

Just space for couples to focus on each other and reconnect.

Because you don't change a marriage by simply knowing or understanding more.

You change it by actually doing something "different", having new experiences together to create different results.

Our 3 Day Retreats are exclusively for couples inside Save My Marriage School.

The next one is in Perth 🇦🇺

Want to experience this with us?

Comment or DM BREAKTHROUGH and we'll show you the next step.

Stop trying to get back to the honeymoon stage. There could be something even better ahead of you ❤️

For a long time, we wanted to get back to how we used to be. Before kids. Before stress. Before resentment.

But we weren't those people anymore. Trying to recreate the past kept us stuck looking backwards.

So we stopped asking "How do we get the old us back?" and started asking "What kind of marriage do we want to create next?"

Your best years together don't have to be behind you.

Start with 10 days of choosing each other again. The 10 Day Reconnect Challenge. 15 minutes a day.

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