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Some seasons of life are simply too heavy to carry alone.

One of the gifts God gives us is people—friends who encourage us, challenge us, pray for us, and walk alongside us when life gets difficult.

This week, Pastor Kevin reminded us that David's story wasn't meant to be lived in isolation. God used Jonathan's friendship to strengthen and support him during some of his most challenging moments.

"God often uses the right people to help carry us through the hardest seasons of life."

Who has been that person for you?

Tag them below or share a word of gratitude in the comments. ❤️

What's the best advice your dad ever gave you?

Some lessons stick with us for a lifetime.

As we look ahead to Father's Day, share a piece of wisdom your dad passed on that still impacts your life today.

👇 Drop it in the comments below!

David’s mercy pointed forward to the ultimate unfairness: Christ crucified. Jesus absorbed the full cost of every injustice, refusing to retaliate against His persecutors. The cross transforms mercy from a burden we carry to a gift we receive. Here, we confront both the weight of our own need for grace and the limitless reservoir of mercy available to pour out. ( Here’s the link to the YouTube video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NVQy8bBauLA&t=2863s )

“And Jesus said, ‘Father, forgive them, for they know not what they do.’” (Luke 23:34, ESV)

Reflection: When you struggle to show mercy, how does fixing your eyes on the cross recalibrate your heart? What might it look like to let His forgiveness flow through you today?

After God's Own Heart | Week 2: His Mercy Welcome to Crossroads Church!This week we continue our summer ser...

Strong men aren't defined by power, success, or status.

God's Word calls men to something greater:

To stand firm in their faith.
To be courageous when life is difficult.
To remain strong when others depend on them.
And above all, to lead with love.

As we approach Father's Day, we're grateful for the fathers, grandfathers, mentors, coaches, and spiritual leaders who model these qualities every day.

"Be on your guard; stand firm in the faith; be courageous; be strong. Do everything in love." — 1 Corinthians 16:13-14

Tag a man who exemplifies these qualities and let him know you're thankful for his influence.

Abishai’s well-meaning advice to kill Saul tested David’s resolve more than Saul’s hatred did. Sometimes the loudest opposition to mercy comes from those closest to us, framing retaliation as loyalty. David’s rebuke—“Don’t destroy him”—challenges us to discern when human counsel conflicts with God’s character. True allies help us steward mercy, not sabotage it. ( Here’s the link to the video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NVQy8bBauLA&t=2383s )

“Whoever walks with the wise becomes wise, but the companion of fools will suffer harm.” (Proverbs 13:20, ESV)

Reflection: Are there relationships in your life that subtly pressure you to compromise mercy? How can you gently lead others toward trust in God’s justice instead?

After God's Own Heart | Week 2: His Mercy Welcome to Crossroads Church!This week we continue our summer ser...

Saul’s repeated betrayal made him a prime candidate for judgment, not mercy. Yet David’s choice to spare him twice reveals a startling truth: mercy flourishes where entitlement dies. It isn’t earned by the offender’s repentance but unleashed by the giver’s surrender to God’s heart. This mirrors Jesus’ forgiveness of His executioners—mercy born not from human merit but divine love. ( Here’s the link to the YouTube video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NVQy8bBauLA&t=1956s )

“But God shows his love for us in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us.” (Romans 5:8, ESV)

Reflection: Who feels “undeserving” of your mercy right now? How might extending grace anyway reflect the gospel’s scandalous beauty in your relationships?

After God's Own Heart | Week 2: His Mercy Welcome to Crossroads Church!This week we continue our summer ser...

Who is a man who has made a lasting impact on your life?

As Father's Day approaches, we're taking a moment to celebrate the men who have shaped us through their love, guidance, encouragement, and example.

Maybe it's your father, grandfather, husband, coach, mentor, teacher, pastor, or friend. Maybe it's someone who stepped into your life at just the right time and helped you become who you are today.

Take a moment to honor them in the comments. Share their name and, if you'd like, tell us how they made a difference in your life.

Your story may encourage someone else today. ❤️