The Cosmic Craft

If your pet’s companionship was more than just a household comfort, this is for you — the people that felt their pet’s presence as a foundation, anchor, a constant.

For 15 years, Armin, my manecoon mix, was my foundation. He kept me grounded, and honestly, saved my life — and I’m not being dramatic.

If you’re struggling with losing your familiar, I know how you feel. No two griefs are the same, but when Armin departed this Earth, I felt untethered. Everything felt pointless, and I didn’t feel like myself — mentally, physically, spiritually.

Then this is what I want you to do instead of losing yourself.

On the days where you’re tearing up at the supermarket, crying on your way home from work, or even struggling to sleep — you need to remember that just because you feel lost doesn’t mean you are.

Grief is MEANT to unravel us.

When you allow other people to witness your grief, it’s not seen as a weakness; it’s actually incredibly powerful. How many people do you know who have grieved out loud, without fear of being perceived? Think about how strong you need to be to alchemize that kind of force.

Astrology gives my clients a path forward; it answers the question of “how do I get over this” with ease and grace. It makes room for the murky conversations and tills the energetic soil of our souls. I’m not just a trauma-informed astroherbalist; I’m also someone who has worked with animals over the last 10 years in vet med, pet rescue, and animal advocacy.

I see how this grief is gnawing at your heartstrings, because I’ve been there, my clients have been there, and I want you to know there’s space for you right here in this community. So follow along if you’re looking to feel less alone in your pet grief, and you’re curious about how to transform it.

As for “how do I get over my pet passing?”

Well, around here, I don’t encourage folks to just get over it. But instead, it’s more about getting to know your grief. Learning to visit it like an old friend.

Because let’s face it, if you’re lucky, you’ll experience grief again in your life — especially if you currently have other pets (but the same applies for human loss, too).

Compartmentalizing grief, especially disenfranchized grief like pet loss, harms you, your community, and younger generations that you influence.

Think about the difference you could make within your community by actively becoming the elder that you want within your life.

One that knows how to hold space for grief, instead of running from it.

Who knows how to show up for folks with support, aid, food, silence, and has a heart-led approach.

Especially one that knows how to walk the walk alongside herbs? Wow, now we’re talking.

So no, your grief isn’t an isolated experience, but instead, is seen within the stars.

When you experience major life changes like death, it’s written in your chart.

Time and time I see it expressed in clients’ charts, but it also shows a path on how to integrate this loss, and read the message that’s begging to be found now — instead of in 5 years when the download hits you one day on your commute to work.

That’s why my work — whether we’re speaking in a. 1:1 session or you download a digital workbook — is something sacred. I’m not changing you, YOU are doing the work and you’re interpreting something HUGE. I’m just a catalyst and a beam of support to help you put yourself back together intentionally. We integrate the loss of your pet instead of letting it haunt you.