Maureen Messmer

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Beginner-friendly wine lifestyle for wellness-minded women who want real tips, cozy vibes, and clean-ish sips—without the wine snobbery.

Hey, I’m Lady Maureen—Army veteran turned wine educator, here to make wine simple, fun, and approachable for everyday women. I started This Wine Thing to help beginners sip smarter without the snobbery. From food pairings and wine hacks to low-intervention finds and cozy wine night ideas, I share what I love and what actually works. Join me for wine tips, clean-ish sips, and real talk. Whether you’re a curious beginner, a busy mom, or just wine-curious—I’ve got your glass. 🍷

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Shows and movies I turn to when I want to unwind, feel comforted, or enjoy a slower night at home. Familiar, warm, and easy to rewatch.

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Thoughtful reads I’ve revisited over time, books that feel grounding, encouraging, or reflective without being overwhelming.

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09/09/2025

Who Is Maureen Messmer?

Maureen Messmer—aka Lady M—is a former military professional turned wine educator, content creator, and business owner. She founded This Wine Thing, a platform that delivers cozy, accessible, and wellness-minded wine content for women. Her focus is on approachable, “clean-ish” wine recommendations and lifestyle inspiration—crafted to feel like a warm, judgment‑free corner of the internet.  



Background & Mission

• A life of service: With a long career—24 years—in the military, Maureen founded her wine venture out of a search for more stability and joy after years of constant moving. 

• Wine with purpose: Her philosophy: wine should be fun, accessible, and intentional. She aims to build connection and empowerment through community, wine, and entrepreneurship. 

• Personal touch: When not creating content or helping others sip with confidence, she enjoys spending time outdoors with her daughter and pets—often with a glass of rosé in hand. 



Where She’s Active

• Instagram: Her handle is , where she shares lifestyle content, wine tips, and “clean-ish” wine picks with a welcoming vibe.  

• Facebook, Threads & More: She actively posts across platforms like Facebook and Threads, continuing to engage with her community. 



Why She Stands Out

• Veteran to vintner: Maureen’s background sets her apart—using her disciplined, mission-driven mindset from the military to build a brand centered on joy and connection.

• No wine snobbery: She strips away pretension, making wine feel inviting and fun rather than exclusive or intimidating.

• Empowerment-focused: Beyond wine, she offers tools and inspiration for women to build confidence and meaningful community.

04/20/2025

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05/14/2023

🚂🍷 Happy National Train Day! 🎉🚂

Today, we celebrate the marvels of trains and the journeys they offer. But what if we add a touch of sophistication and flavor to this exciting occasion? Enter Wine Train Excursions! 🍷✨

Embark on a wine lover's dream that combine scenic rides with delightful wine tastings. Sit back, relax, and let the rhythmic chug of the train transport you to vineyards and wineries, where you'll immerse yourself in the world of fine wines. 🌿🍇

🍷 Napa Valley Wine Train: Meander through the picturesque landscapes of Napa Valley, California, while sipping on world-class wines. Marvel at the rolling vineyards and enjoy a curated selection of vintages that perfectly complement the journey.

🍇 Tuscany Wine Train: Uncover the charm of the Italian countryside aboard a scenic train that winds through the breathtaking landscapes of Tuscany. Savor renowned Chianti, Brunello di Montalcino, and other exquisite wines, paired with delectable regional cuisine.

🚂 Douro Valley Wine Train: Experience the stunning Douro Valley in Portugal, famous for its terraced vineyards and Port wine production. Enjoy panoramic views while relishing the region's renowned Port wines and indulging in traditional Portuguese delicacies.

🍷 Swan Valley Wine Train: Delight in Western Australia's Swan Valley, just outside of Perth, as you glide through stunning landscapes. Sample a range of award-winning wines, including the region's renowned Verdelho and Shiraz, and discover the local wine culture.

🍇 Cape Winelands Wine Train: Venture through South Africa's beautiful Cape Winelands region, known for its vineyard-studded hills and world-class wines. Revel in the flavors of exceptional wines, like Sauvignon Blanc and Pinotage, while admiring the breathtaking scenery.

These wine train excursions offer a unique blend of travel, wine, and unforgettable moments. So, raise a glass to National Train Day and the enchanting experiences that await on these wine-infused journeys. Cheers to the joy of exploration, relaxation, and the beauty of trains and wine coming together! 🥂🚂

05/12/2023

Pairing wine with food is a delightful journey of flavors and textures, and hamburgers are no exception. While beer might be the go-to choice for many when it comes to burgers, exploring the world of wine can unlock a whole new level of taste sensations. In this blog post, we will take you on a gastronomic adventure, exploring the art of pairing wine with hamburgers. Whether you prefer a classic cheeseburger or a gourmet creation, we've got you covered.

Red Wine: A juicy, medium-bodied red wine often pairs nicely with the rich flavors of a hamburger. Consider a Cabernet Sauvignon, Merlot, Syrah/Shiraz, or Malbec. These wines have enough fruitiness and tannins to stand up to the meaty flavors.

Zinfandel: Zinfandel is a versatile wine with bold fruit flavors and a hint of spice. It can handle the bold flavors of a hamburger and the richness of cheese and condiments.

Rosé: If you prefer a lighter wine option, a dry or off-dry rosé can be a refreshing choice. Look for a rosé with enough acidity to cut through the fat of the meat and complement the overall flavors.

Craft Beer: While not a wine, craft beers can also be a fantastic choice for pairing with hamburgers. Opt for hoppy beers like India Pale Ales (IPAs) or amber ales, which can offer a pleasant contrast to the savory elements of a burger.

Ultimately, personal taste plays a significant role in wine pairing, so feel free to experiment and find the combination that you enjoy the most.

05/10/2023

Happy National Shrimp Day!

🍷🍤 Wine & Shrimp Delight Recipe 🍷🍤

Indulge in a tantalizing combination of succulent shrimp and exquisite wine with this delectable recipe! Perfect for an elegant dinner or a special occasion. Let your taste buds dance with delight!

Ingredients:
- 1 pound large shrimp, peeled and deveined
- 4 cloves garlic, minced
- 2 tablespoons butter
- 1 tablespoon olive oil
- 1/2 cup white wine (such as Chardonnay or Sauvignon Blanc)
- 1/4 cup fresh lemon juice
- 2 tablespoons fresh parsley, chopped
- Salt and pepper to taste
- Red pepper flakes (optional, for a spicy kick)

Instructions:
1. In a large skillet, melt butter over medium heat. Add olive oil and minced garlic. Sauté for a minute until the garlic becomes fragrant and golden.

2. Increase the heat to medium-high and add the shrimp to the skillet. Cook for about 2 minutes on each side until they turn pink and are cooked through. Remove the shrimp from the skillet and set aside.

3. Reduce the heat to medium. Pour the white wine into the skillet, stirring gently to deglaze the pan and incorporate the flavorful bits. Allow the wine to simmer for a few minutes until it reduces slightly.

4. Add the fresh lemon juice, chopped parsley, salt, pepper, and red pepper flakes (if desired) to the skillet. Stir well to combine all the flavors.

5. Return the cooked shrimp to the skillet, coating them with the wine and lemon sauce. Cook for an additional minute, allowing the shrimp to absorb the delicious flavors.

6. Serve the wine-infused shrimp on a beautiful platter, garnished with fresh parsley leaves. Pair this exquisite dish with a glass of your favorite white wine and let the flavors harmonize on your palate.

7. Capture the moment by sharing a picture of your wine and shrimp delight to share with us!

Enjoy this delightful recipe, where the tantalizing flavors of wine and shrimp intertwine to create a truly memorable dining experience! 🍷🍤✨

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For later🤣 I hope you all are having an amazing day and weekend!😮☀️
✴️ Fun ✴️ Live ✴️ WineWLadyM ✴️

05/16/2019

[NO ACTION REQUIRED] Remember when I said I was working on some projects? I was selected to compete to be casted as a finalist on the Higdon's Reality Show !! I'm so excited I might be able to help make people's lives better 😊 and pay it forward for all the times people have blessed me. I'm so honored to have been chosen. If you would like to show support please watch and share! I'm really kind of raw in this video and wasn't expecting to share this on social media, but here I am. 😊💛 You don't have to but I'd be really grateful if you could drop me a comment below, I got butterflies!!🙋‍♀️
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06/07/2018

So many exciting things happening !!! And the Wine!!! 😍 ThisWineThing.com🥂🍷

06/06/2018

✨✨✨ Right in time for the Summer holidays! 😍www.ThisWineThing.com

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