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Wow! These amazing sensory spaces are the best!

This!!

Now accepting ESA and working on contracts with BCBS and Tricare.... stay tuned!

Exactly why we do what we do! Children learn more quickly using play based strategies. 🧸 🍵 🥄

Wow! This PSA from say.org on stuttering for children and young adults is going to be amazing for helping support children and young adults with fluency difficulties spread the word about stuttering and to create more understanding about stuttering and how it affects day to day communication!

https://www.say.org/say-psa/

SAY Premieres NEW PSA on TODAY Show | SAY SAY: The Stuttering Association for the Young is a national 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization that provides support, advocacy, and life-changing programs for young people who stutter, ages 3-18. For over 20 years, SAY has provided comprehensive and innovative programs that address the physical, socia...

Today, your child was diagnosed with autism.
Maybe it came out of the blue.
Maybe you already knew.
Maybe you fought for a diagnosis.
But today was the day it became official. It may have come with a "level", or maybe the doctor didn't feel it was necessary to share that with you today, so you'll wait a month for the official report. But today, the news is sinking in and you are shaken. Autism has entered your life, and it's here to stay.

What does this mean for your child? For you? For your family? For your finances? What do you need to do? How do you help support your child? Who can guide you? Why isn't there a flowchart (or is that just me)?

Your mind is racing and you just need someone - anyone - to tell you what to do. The only response to alleviate the anxiety is action.

I have been here three times. I've experienced the gamut of emotions.

Here's what to do:

Breathe.
Enjoy your child exactly as they are. Your child is still exactly the same adorable, brilliant, lovable child that they were before diagnosis. Never lose sight of that.
As a parent, you've always done everything you can to protect your child, and that doesn't end with an autism diagnosis. Protect your child's privacy and bodily autonomy. Learn how to speak about support needs in a way that will not be hurtful to your child, should they overhear you.
Get comfortable with being uncomfortable.
Learn about autism from a variety of perspectives, including professional, parent, and especially perspectives.
Read blogs, watch vlogs, sign up for Google alerts, borrow every book about autism in the library (I did), join Facebook groups (there are some fantastic groups out there that are led by autistic people).
Ask questions. Make sure you ask autistic people, not just doctors or other parents.
If you want to understand your child, learn about how they experience and perceive the world.
Learn about how your child learns (bottom up vs. top down).
Before committing to any therapy or treatment, read about the history and perspectives of the practitioner and autistic people.
Soak in all of the information you can find.
Examine what seems accurate or inaccurate for your child.
Mull it over, sit with it, place yourself in your child's shoes.
Maybe even get an autism eval yourself if you find yourself in what you're learning (it is incredibly common for adults to learn that they are autistic after their child is identified).
Dedicate the first year after diagnosis to learning, without committing to anything other than improving your child's quality of life.
This is your learning time.
You've heard of honeymoons and babymoons? I propose an .

You can't support an autistic person if you don't know anything about autism. Well, you can, but you'll flub it up, and it'll stress everyone out.

Autism is a neurological classification. It's not a disease or an illness. There is no expiration date on the diagnosis. Your child is not going to be more or less autistic based on whether or not they started a specific therapy at a certain age. Don't allow a profitable industry push you into an action that you have not researched thoroughly. If the autistic community says something is harmful, listen and research. If the autistic community says something is helpful, listen and research.

Your child is going to be okay, and it will be because of your love and willingness to advocate for their best interests.

So take another big breath. You are not alone. Your child is not alone. There's a community waiting to welcome you both.

Thank you Nicole Burt, Ph.D. Neurodevelopmental & Psychological Assessment for sharing this important information!
Early Diagnosis and Intervention is so critical. As a parent with a child who received a differential diagnosis first and then had limited access to services until an ASD diagnosis was made at 6, I know first hand the frustrations. If you're feeling like this is your current situation, ask for a second opinion.

Why Autism Diagnoses Are Often Delayed It’s very common for kids to be diagnosed with autism after several years of treatment for something else. This robs kids of important early services.

Do you have a child with limited expressive language? A child who is non verbal? AAC can help. AAC is either low tech (pictures) or high tech like a whole electronic system or an app that your child can access and find the words they can't yet say in order to tell you what they want. It can bridge the gap between receptive language and expressive language delay and can allow your child to finally have a voice. Right now, many AAC apps and equipment are on sale for 50% off from now until April 7th!

Click the link below for details.

***For more information on how to help your child find their voice using AAC, contact Smiles Therapy using the message button and we can set up a free consultation session to discuss your child's specific needs.***

Autism Acceptance Month Discount 2021 - AssistiveWare March 30th – April 6th 2021 AssistiveWare apps are 50% off in honor of Autism Acceptance Month

This is beautiful. As a parent with a child who is considered "different " I cried watching this cartoon boy be stifled, shut down, broken. As a Therapist, I want to share as it is my hope that we all learn to accept and love our children who society sees as different and show them that different is not less, it is a gift, we have something to learn from these babies! Patients, love, understanding. Hug them tight, build their strengths , let them be them, they will make you proud!

“Float” Full SparkShort | Pixar Pixar Animation Studios and the SparkShorts filmmakers of FLOAT are in solidarity with the Asian and Asian American communities against Anti-Asian hate in al...