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Are you tired of yelling across the room just to be ignored? Marty Appelbaum drops a game-changing discipline hack: Legs Furst, Mouth Second.

Instead of shouting from a distance (mouth first), walk over to the Child, get on their level, and speak quietly legs first).

Watch how fast their behavior changes when you stop competing with the noise.

Try it today and see the difference.

The number one tantrum mistake!
You see a child exploding and your instinct is to say: “Calm down.”🛑

But according to Child Behavior Expert, Maryln Appelbaum, that is like shaking a can of Coke and popping the top. It doesn’t soothe the chaos. It forces an immediate” messy explosion.

When a child is mid-tantrum, their brain is fully flooded. Telling them to calm down only spikes they’re frustration. It makes them meltdown last longer.

What to do instead: Stay steady. Drop your voice to a whisper, and be the calm anchor they need and not the force the pops the top.

If it works in Preschool and it works in rush-hour traffic, you know this is a great calming chant.

This is adorable calming chant by Marty Appelbaum will work with preschoolers like you’re seeing in the video. It also is so short and catchy that parents and teachers are reporting using it when they are stressed even in rush-hour traffic.🤗.

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🛑STOP yelling. Try this 3-step.Power Pause method instead.

Tired of repeating yourself 50 times? Your voice isn’t the problem your strategy is.

In this video, Maryln Appelbaum demonstrates the exact 3-step shift to get kids to listen immediately without raising your voice.

1️⃣Get calm first. (Coregulate)
2️⃣ Get close on their Eye level.
3️⃣ speak low and deep using intentional “power pauses.”

Want the full system to end power struggles for good? Maryln is launching a brand new parenting course soon.

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When a child misbehaves the number one thing many people do is punish. Marty Appelbaum, child behavior expert turns that all around and tells you exactly what you need to do instead.