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No one should endure child loss alone. 𝙒𝙚’𝙫𝙚 𝙗𝙚𝙚𝙣 𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙧𝙚, and we’re here for 𝙔𝙊𝙐. 🧡 Let us be your shoulder to lean on, every step of the way.
Something we don’t talk about enough? How grief looks different for dads.
After losing a child, many fathers feel pressure to stay strong for their families and carry their grief privately.
Even two parents grieving the same child can experience loss very differently. This is one of the most common sources of tension in relationships after child loss.
Many men are conditioned to solve problems and keep moving forward. But when a child dies, there’s nothing to fix, as painful as this is. That reality leaves many fathers feeling powerless.
Part of healing is giving yourself permission to grieve in ways that feel natural to you, whether that’s through hands-on activities, routines, spending time alone, or connecting with other bereaved dads.
Looking for support? Explore our page dedicated to fathers navigating child loss: https://justenduring.org/grief-support-for-fathers-who-have-lost-a-child/
06/15/2026
We’re honored to be part of the Missouri Funeral Directors & Embalmers Association Convention today!
We’re excited to spend time with so many compassionate people in the funeral profession who support families through the hardest moments of their lives.
We’re also excited to share Just Enduring’s free grief resources with the community and continue these important conversations around child loss and bereavement support.
06/10/2026
Damian
May 14, 2008 – June 10, 2023
Today we celebrate the life of Damian—full of energy, heart, and endless love. From fishing trips with his brothers to leading with kindness and strength, Damian made his own path and left an unforgettable mark on everyone who knew him.
Though he left this world too soon, his spirit lives on in every memory, every laugh, and every moment we hold dear. We love you. We miss you. We will never stop honoring you. 🧡
06/06/2026
Wondering what to say to someone whose child died? Here are some common responses, and what to say instead.
When someone loses a child, it’s natural to want to ease their pain. Many people offer platitudes or avoid the subject altogether because they’re afraid of making things worse.
But talking about a child who died doesn’t increase the pain. Bereaved parents love opportunities to remember and honor their children. We want their lives to be acknowledged, and we want to feel heard.
It may feel uncomfortable at first to say a child’s name or bring them up in conversation. That’s okay. Sometimes we have to move through discomfort to have the conversations that matter most.
Parents—are there any we missed? Let us know in the comments.
Grief changes everything, especially small talk.
Questions that once felt “normal” like “how many kids do you have?” can suddenly feel impossible to answer. This is exactly how our friend Becca felt when her daughter Sammi died.
Read her powerful words here: https://justenduring.org/living-and-loving-after-child-loss-blog/my-numbers-dont-add-up/
If you tell the truth, people might shut down or apologize. You may even feel responsible for comforting them.
But remember: this is your grief journey, not theirs. It’s not your job to make others feel comfortable with your loss.
Your time and energy are precious. You only have so much emotional capacity. Prioritizing yourself isn’t selfish, it’s what allows you to show up for the things and people that matter most.
When a child dies, their siblings' lives are changed forever, too. We're grateful to Blessings for Barrett for sharing this thoughtful perspective on sibling grief and support.
Families looking for additional support can also find sibling grief resources at justenduring.org/sibling-support
05/28/2026
Lindsey Hand
May 12, 1995 – May 28, 2020
Today we honor sweet Lindsey. We thought of you with love today, but that was nothing new. We thought about you yesterday, and the days before that too. We think of you in silence, we often speak your name. Now all we have are memories, and your picture in a frame. Your memory is our keepsake, with which we will never part. God has you in His keeping, we have you in our hearts.
Read Lindsey’s story here: https://justenduring.org/our-childrens-stories/lindseys-story/
05/25/2026
This Memorial Day during Mental Health Awareness Month, we honor the soldiers who lost their lives while serving our country and hold space for their families—every soldier is someone’s child, grandchild, friend; many are also siblings, cousins, aunts, and uncles.
Grief after losing a loved one can bring profound mental health challenges. Prolonged grief disorder (PGD), especially among bereaved parents, may include depression, cognitive changes, and familial discord (World Journal of Psychiatry). Studies suggest that nearly half of older bereaved parents in the U.S. may experience PGD.
Evidence-based approaches like cognitive behavioral therapy can help families navigate reminders of loss and rebuild a sense of hope for the future.
To help grieving families access therapeutic resources like these, we’re creating a Grief Resource Directory. This will be a national, searchable platform for connecting families to local therapists, support groups, and other trusted resources.
Until then, our website offers free guides, media recommendations, and events for families, friends, and caregivers: https://justenduring.org/
We’re holding in our hearts everyone who’s lost a family member, and we extend our deepest gratitude to those who’ve bravely served our country.
05/20/2026
Henrik Aubrey
May 1–20, 2018
We honor the memory of Henrik Aubrey—loved beyond words from the moment he arrived. Though his life was brief, his impact is everlasting. He will forever be in our hearts. 🤍
05/15/2026
Ella Marie Mertens
April 4, 2016 – May 15, 2017
Today we honor sweet Ella. She was such a bright spot to everyone she met! With her contagious smile and big blue eyes, she always made fast friends. If she wanted something, she would just point at it and ask, "What's that?" Ella loved playing peek-a-boo, dancing, eating ice cream, reading, and snuggling. She also loved being outside, and one of her all-time favorite activities was sitting in front of our house and waving at all the cars as they passed.
Read Ella’s story here: https://justenduring.org/our-childrens-stories/better-because-of-ella/
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