Boys to Men Mentoring Network

Every week, Boys to Men shows up for boys who need connection, guidance, and support. Recently, Bonsall High School Principal Angela James shared this with our team:

“You have provided our students with something many of them desperately need: trusted adults who listen without judgment, challenge them to be their best selves, and remind them that they matter.”

For the past five years, Boys to Men has supported students at Sullivan Middle School and Bonsall High School — and today we serve young men at 34 schools across San Diego County.

As more schools continue reaching out for support, we’re excited to soon launch our Sponsor a School Program — giving our community the opportunity to help bring Boys to Men mentoring to even more boys who need it most. 💙

Bonsall High School

This month, Boys to Men Mentoring hosted another Adventure Mountain Weekend — a transformative experience with 16 initiates and nearly 60 participants focused on growth, healing, accountability, and connection. ⛰️🔥

During this rite of passage, boys step into Journeymen — a powerful transition where they begin becoming the good men they want to be.

In the final circle, each young man shares what he’s learned and the commitments he’s making at home, from difficult conversations with parents to addressing substance use and beginning to heal from trauma and past experiences.

We close with a symbolic burning of regrets and fears, allowing them to leave the weekend unburdened, energized, and ready to move forward with purpose. 💙

The boys in the B2M program at Roosevelt Middle School recently visited the Chula Vista Elite Athlete Training Center — a world-class facility where Team USA athletes train for Olympic and Paralympic competition. 🇺🇸

The trip gave the boys a firsthand look at the discipline, dedication, and hard work it takes to compete at the highest level, while inspiring them to pursue greatness in their own lives. Thank you to the staff for an awesome afternoon. 💙

Mentor Spotlight: John Kenny 👏

For the second year, John Kenny has served as a co-facilitator for the boys at Avela Oaks and Diegueño Middle Schools through Boys to Men Mentoring, showing up consistently to support and guide young men in our community.

To celebrate the boys’ hard work and growth this year, John treated the group to a fun day at K1 Speed 🏁 — recognizing them for stepping up and becoming the men they are capable of being.

Thank you, John, for your leadership and commitment to the next generation. 💙

🤝 Community Partner Spotlight: Just in Time for Foster Youth 🫶

Boys to Men Mentoring was proud to attend the Igniting Hope Building Community Fair, hosted by Just in Time for Foster Youth, and connect with organizations committed to supporting youth, families, and transition-age foster youth throughout San Diego County.

The fair brought together community partners, resources, and services designed to help young people build stable, successful futures. As an organization dedicated to helping boys and young men navigate life’s challenges through mentoring and community, Boys to Men was honored to be part of an event focused on connection, opportunity, and hope.

Thank you to Just in Time for Foster Youth for creating a space where community members and organizations can come together to support the next generation and strengthen pathways to success.

💚 Mental Health Awareness Month starts now—and we're launching a message that matters:
Mentorship IS Mental Health Support

At a time when young men are facing rising rates of anxiety, isolation, and disconnection, we believe something simple—but powerful:

When a boy is seen, heard, and supported, everything can change.

Through mentoring circles, leadership programs, and now expanded clinical support, we’re creating spaces where young men can build resilience, process emotions, and find belonging.

This month, we’re shining a light on the impact of mentorship—and why it matters now more than ever.

👉 Join us. Support the mission. Be part of the solution. Boystomen.org

Spring Break is more than just time off—it’s an opportunity to keep our boys connected, active, and supported outside the school circle.

Our recent trip to Boomers was a huge success! With 19 boys, 5 mentors, and 3 staff members, the day was filled with fun, laughter, and meaningful connection.

You can help support events like these. Find out how at boystomen.org!

🎉 Boys to Men Mentoring’s 4th annual Rooted in Resiliency Gala brought together an incredible community to celebrate 30 years of impact—and the result was nothing short of inspiring.

Together, we raised an amazing $564,000, making this our most successful gala to date. Because of this generosity, we’re able to expand our reach, strengthen our programs, and launch new opportunities like the Journeymen Academy—all in support of our mission: to empower boys to follow their dreams.

The night was filled with connection, purpose, and joy—and it wouldn’t have been possible without so many people behind the scenes and in the room:

💛 Our sponsors and in-kind supporters - A special thank you to our presenting sponsor, Molly's Angels and Dene Oliver for your passion and commitment.
💛 Our dedicated volunteers
💛 Our Community Hero Award Recipient: The Bronner Family
💛 Our incredible gala committee, Catamaran team, and vendor partners
💛 Emcee Allie Wagner for leading the evening with heart
💛 Our entertainment for bringing the energy
💛 And auctioneer Anna for keeping the room engaged and inspired

This is what community looks like.

We are so grateful to everyone who showed up, gave generously, and continues to believe in this work. The impact of this night will be felt for years to come.