Whirling Pearls

Marriage isn’t the have all end all, some people choose this path, and others choose other paths. For those whom this as part of their journey, this is for your heart.

You do have a choice, and it begins when you realize it! 🙏

Reminds me of an old song (1968, Diana Ross):

"I'm gonna make you love me, yes I will My love is strong, you see
I know you'll never get tired of me
Oh, baby
And I'm gonna use every trick in the book
I'll try my best to get you hooked
Hey, baby

And every night, every day
I'm gonna say
I'm gonna get ya, I'm gonna get ya
Look out, boy, 'cause I'm gonna get ya”

This song reads differently now.

“I once asked a very successful woman to share her secret with me. She smiled and said to me…
“I started succeeding when I started leaving small fights for small fighters.
I stopped fighting those who gossiped about me…
I stopped fighting with my in laws…
I stopped fighting for attention…
I stopped fighting to meet peoples expectation of me…
I stopped fighting for my rights with inconsiderate people..
I stopped fighting to please everyone…
I stopped fighting to prove they were wrong about me….
I left such fights for those who have nothing else to fight…
And I started fighting for my vision, my dreams, my ideas and my destiny.
The day I gave up on small fights is the day I started becoming successful & so much more content.”
Some fights are not worth your time….. Choose what you fight for wisely.”

-Author unknown

Don’t give up now! 🤣

That pesky irritation can actually be a little useful love note… from yourself

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