The Kindness Plan

Hot topic: kindness vs niceness.

Being nice avoids discomfort.
Being kind tells the truth with love.

Niceness keeps the peace.
Kindness keeps integrity.

If you’ve ever felt exhausted from people-pleasing, this is for you.

🎙 Conversations like this live on The Kindness Plan.

Pause. Speak truth with love. Act with integrity.

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Everyday all we can do is our best. Our best to understand, our best to be compassionate, our best to place ourselves in the shoes of those whom are hurting and suffering. Only then can we start to create change together as a society.

When your graded on kindness in elementary school what happens as we grow?

As a business owner with a passion of helping other entrepreneurs I know what it’s like to not have a lot when your starting out and spending money on things you later regret or doesn’t yield the return you expected. Though business consulting isn’t my main job I can’t wait until it is - in the future so I can save people time and money while avoiding having to take the long way to learn. (The try and fail methods)

I remember building our first website the time we spent but we actually worked with highschool students, then paid the teacher for edits later found a web person because it was a from scratch (coded) site we then transferred it to Wordpress. All these changes took SO much TIME and added up to over $10,000 spent. I did some research and found Shopify and I couldn’t be happier! I paid more and got the help I needed and realized if I would’ve spent a little more in the beginning i would have spent less in the long run and saved so much time.

As mayors and governors are trying to figure out how to ease back in to a new normal, please remember:

🛑 Some people don’t agree with the state opening.... that’s okay. Be kind.

🏡 Some people are still planning to stay home.... that’s okay. Be kind.

🦠 Some are still scared of getting the virus and a second wave happening....that’s okay. Be kind.

💰 Some are sighing with relief to go back to work knowing they may not lose their business or their homes....that’s okay. Be kind.

👩🏾‍⚕️Some are thankful they can finally have a surgery they have put off....that’s okay. Be kind.

📝 Some will be able to attend interviews after weeks without a job....that’s okay. Be kind.

😷 Some will wear masks for weeks....that’s okay. Be kind.

💅🏻 Some people will rush out to get the hair or nails done.... that’s okay. Be kind.

❤️ The point is, everyone has different viewpoints/feelings and that’s okay. Be kind.

We each have a different story. If you need to stay home, stay home. But be kind .

If you need to go out, just respect others when in public and be kind!

Don’t judge fellow humans because you’re not in their story. We all are in different mental states than we were months ago. So remember, be kind now and always.

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As a entrepreneur we are told to plan, plan, plan but what happens when things don’t go to plan? Are we happy? Considerate of others? Or lashing out at anyone and everyone? 🙋‍♀️ guilty one right here! Patience, flexibility and be free flowing water 💦 so as the situation does like a river you can flow through! Remember we don’t want to be cold as 🧊 ice. It doesn’t flow very well ay!? who wouldn’t want to do business with someone friendly generous and considerate!? Today let’s take 1 tough situation and handle it with and ! ⏬⏬ comment below on your thoughts!

All business owners need a mentor and mine has always been this guy ➡️➡️ who is the ⭐️⭐️ of ➡️➡️ the best part is he hasn’t even known it until now! I’ve been stalking him through the tv hoping all the knowledge can just soak up into my mind! Haha but for real we ALL need a spark of hope it’s funny because I’ve truly struggled with as I’ve grown my company there were times I was so laser focused or bullied so much I would allow the negative energy being thrown to change me. I started to take responsibility for my actions and to spread kindness in all that I do and look what it lead to! Success being able to speak to ! It’s always the right time to be kind and I truly believe it’s the back bone to all successful people and company’s! coming soon! 💕🔥🇺🇸 @ Lake Balboa, Los Angeles

There’s a lot of FEAR running around. The interesting thing about fear is it affects us all differently as people. Our reactions can range from quite, timid locked away to raging 😤 out there wanting to control the situation. One thing to remember is we will all experience fear at some point in our life on both sides of the spectrum. KINDNESS is being considerate of others and by KILL EM we mean show them a better way through being compassionate and kind through this hard time.

📸 credit : when you leave your house, when you come home, when you see a post you don’t like, when you see a tweet you don’t like, when someone was rude or unkind. Choose kindness