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If I ever was to start over again and try to fast-track myself into a place of feeling aligned and alive with the life I’ve been given, this is exactly what I would NOT do:
• I wouldn’t try and avoid the pain
• I wouldn’t try and numb it away
• I wouldn’t go and vent out all my complaints to the world around me and take no action
• I wouldn’t repeat the same cycle of trying to get validation, acceptance, or appreciation from others, especially women.
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Instead, what I would do is get clear on what’s actually keeping me stuck and what the next steps should be. By all that is sacred, I wish I would have had an opportunity like this years ago. I wish I would have had a man that’s walked my Path sit me down and give me both curiosity and coaching around what was going on for me. Have you ever worked with a and ? It’s a very rare opportunity as I know I’m a rare breed of man.
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That’s exactly why I am offering out my Discovery Calls. What would it be like to spend just 15-20 minutes with a man that knows what it is like to be in my position and what he did to get out of it? How much benefit would that bring you?
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I’m looking for 10 action-takers who are serious about improving their satisfaction with life and a feeling of alignment with their mission in this life.
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During this session we’ll:
• Clarify your authentic expression
• Shine the light on what’s holding you back
• Create the “Next Steps” you must take.
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If you’re the kind of man that’s tired of living by other people’s expectations and wants to live entirely authentic to who you were made to be? DM me “NOW” so we can start to create the life of your greatest design.
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If you call yourself a man? You need to have some around your body - you need to workout and move in some way!
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For your typical blue collar guy..? You probably already use your body enough. This one is for the men who often sit behind desks and live a life building someone else’s dream. That’s also another hard fact: if you aren’t building your dreams then it’s likely you are giving your life force energy to build someone else’s dream.
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How we treat our bodies is often a direct reflection of how we treat other areas of our lives. Men need to workout. The Stoics, Wisdom Seekers, and even your Modern Meathead agree: exercise, movement, and pushing the body a little bit into discomfort is a key to longevity and (one of my promises 😉)
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Do you have the discipline to go to the gym?
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I cannot over-emphasize the importance of asking the right questions, especially “Why?”
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Growing up in a Christian household, I was none too favored by theologians who didn’t like my questioning of their scripture. My brain couldn’t make sense of this idea that things were the way they said. The same thing happened in school! My desire to question authority and ask the question “Why?” always seemed to put me in the “dislike” column. However, it taught me a beautiful lesson.
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The value of questioning why things ended up like this for you is a profound opportunity to explore the self. Buddhism teaches me that my journey is uniquely mine to walk. No person can decide for me what is my destiny; my destination in this life; my fate that is determined by my choices. When I began to unpackage the systemic teachings that led me astray? I began to find that somewhere along the way, unbeknownst to them, people taught me things that got in the way of who I was destined to be.
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Authenticity is the core of a happy life for me. I got there by asking questions.
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What questions are you asking about yourself these days?
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Don’t forget to follow .Kingdom !
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The good news? I’m not for every man. There’s a kind of man I don’t think would qualify for my “Level Up Your Life” Program. If you’re satisfied with your life and have no desire to grow? This post is definitely not for you.
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Here are 5 reasons you definitely shouldn’t message me:
1️⃣ You’re not interested in improving your satisfaction in life
2️⃣ You are totally satisfied living into someone else’s version of you
3️⃣ You’re not at all curious at what could change
4️⃣ You’re not interested in feeling fulfillment in your life and choices
5️⃣ You’d rather keep wondering “what if” instead of exploring what’s possible.
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If there is even a part of you that is thinking that things could actually be different? DM me and let’s talk about what’s going on for you. You never know what one conversation might bring up!
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Don’t forget to follow .Kingdom !
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If you’re struggling with feeling sluggish or without your power, this is exactly what I’d tell you:
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First, I’d remind you that this lack of fulfillment doesn’t meant there is anything wrong with you. We men so often overlook our good qualities and behaviors in favor of seeing the “what still must be done” of life, especially as providers! Nothing is wrong. It’s just data telling you something isn’t fully aligned.
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In a recent call with a client, this is exactly what we explored. We explored how certain things he was thinking was just limiting his full expression. When he had more to think about, it really helped him to shift his perspective to find what feels much better.
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For any man? I’d encourage the following steps when we started to feel that existential dread:
• Pause - Ask - Is this constantly happening? Does this happen only when this happens? Is this just happening right now?
• Explore the Feeling - It’s always just information for us to look at.
• Journal without stopping on a prompt
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That prompt is always going to vary; which is where I come in to help out the men I work with to discover this. There aren’t really any magic fixes. There are always small steps towards becoming our best self. If this is the kind of man you are; growth-oriented and looking for more? DM me and let’s discover that that prompt for you just might be.
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Big win… huge reminder. I’m working in this week. What makes this so exciting isn’t just the result (and, no… I’m not boasting!) - it’s the fact I have persisted with the journey of truly finding the most self I can.
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This is exactly why I love helping men discover more of their passion and fulfillment.
Because moments like this prove that there are benefits to living authentic and aligned. Any man can find a life that brings them joy and satisfaction.
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Curious? Why not DM me!?
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Don’t forget to follow .Kingdom !
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Look… the is that sometimes the problem is you. Here’s what I mean by that: sometimes, I’m in the only reason something hasn’t started. Whether it be getting into my head, a small fear, or even just pre-jump jitters, sometimes I am my own worst enemy when it comes to getting things done.
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First, I’d remind you that avoidance doesn’t mean there’s something wrong with you. It usually just means there’s some underlying process that’s guiding the behavior.
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I’d encourage any man to start with a few simple things:
• Pause when you see it (it’s always the first step!!)
• Ask if it’s an avoidance due to a misalignment; behavior; or, just burnout / overwhelm.
• Discover what this -THING- is trying to teach you.
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There is no magic fix. Sometimes the most direct step to growth is to lean into what is uncomfortable and discover what it is meant to teach you! Support also helps men to grow!
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What’s the things you do to sometimes face the harsh reality?
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Don’t forget to follow .Kingdom !
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There’s a side of growing and becoming that most people don’t see.
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It came out recently for me as the “must be nice” energy towards a friend. I’d heard another Men’s Coach talk about how he had no time for that; and, then I further understood why. Someone that’s saying “must be nice” is really saying “I don’t see the hard work it took for you to get to where I want to be.”
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READ THAT AGAIN!
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A lot of what we share online is the success, the ratios, the illustrations… fluff. A lot of what isn’t seen is the dark and murk that it took to get here; they don’t see the sediment that a seed had to push through just to grow and become itself. I’ve been to the bottom of the bottle, the edge of the razor, and the last rip on the b**g. I have felt so lost and upset at the circumstances that I continue to unpackaged as my life.
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What has always kept me going is just the internal desire to grow and ask the “What if?”
* What if tomorrow is the day?
* What if my idea works?
* What if I’m meant for something more?
* What if I finally meet her?
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That’s a big part of what started my journey to level up: asking what if I could truly be the change I wanted to see. Trust me, I’ve seen a lot. At the end of the day, I’d think what matters most is living my life authentically to how I feel and what I know is best. It’s something I’ve learned we don’t have to do alone.
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Social media may look perfect. Though, it isn’t. I’m not. Far from it! KING OF SINNERS, I am!
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If you’re someone who’s currently navigating a journey of becoming a better man, just
know you’re not alone.
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Don’t forget to follow .Kingdom !
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