Conscious Choices

You always have a choice for Love ❤️ -

You always have a choice for Love ❤️ During conflict, there are choices to be made. Can you recognize those moments of awareness when you know you have choice?

Discomfort won't kill you. 😢 -

Discomfort won't kill you. 😢 If I choose to spend time with people who trigger me is it because I love them, and I am growing and learning how create boundaries?

It's OK. -

It's OK. 😇 If so, I promise you, there is nothing wrong with you. It’s just that the human mind is designed to look for flaws in order to give us reasons for why things aren’t the way we want them to be.

Enjoy the Adventure 🤠 -

Enjoy the Adventure 🤠 Vacations are wonderful…and I don’t know about you, but coming home again is almost as delicious as venturing out into the world!

Let go ❤️ -

Let go ❤️ If you have been having any doubts while reading the previous two posts that there is a way to upgrade the quality of your life even in the face of so much you can’t control, read this one.

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reminder to be kind 😇 -

While I'm away 😇 Since I don’t want to lose the momentum we’ve been grooving with, I have scheduled a couple of oldies but still goodies to be sent your way while I am gone.

be kind 😇 -

be kind 😇 And even if you don’t get exactly what you want, if you really pay attention, your body will tell you that being kind will keep you healthier and happier in the long run.

Your AC can't drive 😛 -

Your AC can't drive 😛 It’s your partner, your friend, your mother, your kid. Whatever it is they are doing or saying is causing so much pain, you can’t find relief from the discomfort.

Ok, so you find yourself on the other side of an argument that has left you feeling confused, hurt, angry, and very much alone.

All you want is to feel better.

You want to feel understood, loved, and connected again.

But you said so many things that, in hindsight you regret, yet, they felt SO justified and accurate at the time.

You hesitate to make a move toward your partner...

An hour, a day, or a week later, you catch a glimpse of your partner's vulnerability.

Maybe they have a bo**er in their nose.

Maybe you mistakenly walk in on them sitting on the toilet.

Maybe they pass gas while napping on the sofa.

It's so obvious!

You remember, they are a Human, also just doing the best they can to deal with their own discomfort...

Like you, they too, can forget that they are also a Being connected to a higher consciousness, a True Self, an awareness that they can choose, at any moment, to turn toward connection and love.

This is your chance to change the trajectory you are on.

Breathe (deep belly breath in; extended exhale through the mouth);
Ground and center yourself with kindness;
Remember your goal is connection;
Look for your partner's heart (you know where it is);
Invite them to see yours, with compassion.

I promise you, the energy of conflict will dissolve as you bring yourselves into the resonance of connection once again.

Clarity will come, and then, you will have availability to the inner resources you need to sort through anything that may still need to be addressed.*

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