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Singles are constantly frustrated at the thought of dating and are basically avoiding it all together. Especially single moms! So many moms feel that it’s just not the “right time” for them to date!

“How will my kids feel about me having a boyfriend?”
“Will anyone be attracted to me with now that I come with kids?”
“I’ve been out of the game for so long I don’t even know how to flirt.”

These are very common thoughts that drive single moms to stay home on the weekends. But there are many sides to a mom, and one is being a desired, s*xy woman!

If you are a single mom and struggling with the idea of dating, .sue.elias wrote an inspiring article to boost your confidence and get you back to feeling like yourself. Check out this article in

Everything in your world affects your libido. Most things either “turn you on” or “turn you off” and modern life gives women a lot of “off” switches.
I spoke with .sue.elias at about the new release of Two Women. It portrays two suburban women who’ve lost touch with their s*xual selves. One is trying to find herself while breast feeding her newborn, and the other is navigating mental health challenges. The way they go after “getting their s*xy back” isn’t always ethical… but their journey’s are pretty relatable!


I love speaking and collaborating with the amazing writer and dating expert .sue.elias. Thanks for asking me to sit beside you on this panel!

P***s size has been a popular topic lately for journalists. Thank you for including my experience in your article

For most women, arousal doesn’t just show up on command…they have to create the environment for it. Key factors in getting turned on are feeling confident, s*xy, and relaxed yet for so many women those feelings seem impossible to achieve with the stress and mental load of real life.

Last night, and I hosted a women’s evening in Miami dedicated to helping women feel more empowered in their pleasure and more emotionally connected in their relationships.

We talked about what helps desire build, how to ask for what you want, and how to bring more romance (and ease) back into partnership.

One of the most powerful parts: everyone responded to prompt anonymously. That anonymity gave women permission to be real, raw, honest, and surprisingly brave. And the conversation that followed? Deep. Bonding. And so validating.

Swipe to see the garden night + a few of the prompts we explored. Want to come to a future women’s event? DM me and I’ll send you the upcoming dates.

As a s*x therapist, I’m very pro kegel balls. They can support your pelvic floor in ways that impact your body, your pleasure, and your confidence. Psychology Today just shared my newest article on the Top 5 Benefits of Kegel Balls - here’s the quick version:

1. Stronger core + better posture
Your pelvic floor is part of your core. Training it can help you feel more stable and “stand taller.”

2. More s*xual pleasure
More tone + control can mean stronger sensations, better blood flow, and more confident or***ms.

3. Better bladder control (not just postpartum)
If you avoid jumping jacks “just in case,” pelvic floor training can be a game-changer at any stage of life.

4. Better sleep
Less pelvic floor tension + more “rest and digest” nervous system activation can make it easier to wind down.

5. More confidence, period
Feeling stronger and more connected to your body tends to ripple into everything—self-esteem, intimacy, and daily life.

Want the full breakdown? Read it on Psychology Today .

D*ck pics don’t have to be unattractive! Rachel Varina paves the way on how to take a s*xy welcomed d*ck pic in her Cosmopolitan article. I loved being one of your experts on this journey. Let’s hope these tips can change the culture of d*ck pics all together. You’re welcome receivers! 💋💋

I spent the evening with Fascinations - Shop in store!! As shoppers partied in the store they each had the opportunity to sit down with me and ask all their “s*xy” questions. The Dr Mindy specialty drinks flowed all night! Mine favorite was the Minty Mindy! Thanks to Xgen Products The Rabbit Company and The Bodywand for making this party happen!