Dr Alduan Tartt

How To Get More Men To Flirt With You Naturally:

This one is simple…

Just smile, be open and ask a brother a question about whatever comes to mind that makes sense.

Men have been conditioned to not speak first due to the majority of women who have stopped smiling, signaling that they want to be approached and/or not knowing if you are single and open to date.

I know you don’t want to look like you are looking but if you do it too well, you will look disinterested and fail to accomplish the main goal of dating- getting in conversation with the men you like so they can pursue you.

Ladies, have you lost the art of the subtle flirt or do you work it like magic?

Men, would you speak more if given the right body language to go for it?

Ladies, I teach this skill but make it much deeper (how to charm him from date one to get the man you want into YOU) on my YouTube. Link is in bio.

Single Women Who Eventually Marry All Know This One Thing About “How To Find A Man.”

If you have yourself together (love yourself and know that your value), you must be in close PROXIMITY of the best men in order for them to date you. Items that simple. Be easily found.

Yes, you are smart, fine, loving, etc. but are you around the men who desire enough so they can see you, experience your vibe and flirt with you so you can begin to date.

Ladies, you must be social in order to be “found”and do it often since great men are not a dime a dozen. However, it is important to remember that you only need ONE great man to be interested in you for marriage to occur.

That is not that hard when you reframe it like that.

Check the link in bio for my latest YouTube video where I give you an actual blueprint for how to find the great men your city.

Ladies, are you social (outside) enough to truly have the attention from the kind of men you desire?

Answer honestly…

Men, don’t believe there is a shortage of good women because you don’t see enough when you are outside (being social)?

Let me know your opinion…

Would You Use AI To Prescreen Dates For You?

is rolling out a new AI feature to prescreen daters in hopes that it reduces swiping fatigue, fake profiles and leads to better genuine connection.

I know your initial reaction might be, “What!” until you think about how good only getting highly compatible matches might feel to your dating life.

I just hope that old school flirting and connection will happen organically as well. We’ll see if it works.

Listen to the interview and tell me why you think.

Would you try this? Why or why not?

P.S.- I was almost in hot water here lol. Boris CNN had jokes 😂

Men Who Want Marriage Desire…

- Connection over chemistry

- Emotional safety vs having to pretend to have no emotions

-A woman with purposeful identity versus someone who defines herself based on him

Why? Chemistry can fade and be misleading. I can have chemistry with someone who is not a God follower…won’t work for me (no judgment though)

Mental health is the TOP stressor in the world right now. What good does it do my brothers if they can’t have safe emotional conversations that will NOT be used against them later at home?

Men want friends and a really interesting woman who ambition, goals and a life outside of us is an absolute turn on and provides great modeling fo future children.

What are your thoughts? Btw, I already gave you visual chemistry, perceived challenge & perceived value in part one. Check out the whole list in my YouTube in bio.

Most Men Get Married Because They Want A Better Life.

I explain why and three virtues men desire in a wife that would make them pursue commitment and marriage.

Let me know your thought and experiences.

What if you NEVER had to guess what the BEST men who desire to be great husbands are looking for in a wife. I tell you here exactly how to attract THAT TYPE OF MAN TO YOU here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z0fRCLxyUqo

It is truly a blessing to marry a woman who loves family and cares for all who experience her. I am blessed to honor , my mom and mom-in-love on Mother’s Day.

It is an honor to enjoy life with you, Mecca, but also be privileged to enjoy life you birthed out of her womb. You are kind, compassionate, beautiful, loving, patient and a true giver especially to our family. You are loved, seen, honored and the MVP of our family. Thank you for sharing your love with us. 🙏🏾

Also, blessed to enjoy the lifelong love of my mom who has created so many legacies from her heart, mind and devotion to God. You have led by example in managing legacy and love. You taught me how to read, think, lead and treat people the right way. I am honored to be your son.

I am also blessed to enjoy the love of a mother in love who never misses an opportunity to celebrate others, host and support all who know her. You are always the life of the party, deep in your Word for guidance and ready to advise. Thank you for creating a beautiful set of daughters and being a great mom in love.

Happy Mother’s Day to all of the mothers and I am blessed to have time spent with my entire family, as God provides. I heard Michelle Obama say that she takes the words, “Life goes fast,” to heart and that is what I was able to do this weekend with phenomenal women and family.

God Bless.

She is also an amazing daughter and woman of God and it was very fulfilling weekend to give her time to herself and celebrate her at the same time. Happy Mother’s Day

Comment “Leave” and I’ll send you the full video where I break down why it is so hard to leave a relationship or marriage even when it is bad…

1) Trauma Bonding- causes the same inner conflict as breaking up with alcohol, s*x addiction, drugs, working too much, etc. (the same thing that stresses you is also the very thing you feel attached to or controlled by)

2) False Hope Is Emotionally Logical- you are more invested in the idea of them being better than their actual ability to change. In short, it is better to believe the pretty lie than the ugly truth of you want to keep the relationship

3) Leaving Is A Grief Process- YES, you leave all of the bad but you also need time to properly grieve the good (memories, the house, financial security, the ring, the idea that you have a happy marriage, etc.). When you leave without grieving first, you increase your chance of going back because it is truly too much to handle.

Thoughts. Full video is my YouTube link.