BAM with Star

We hear it a lot …
“Stay in your lane.”
“Do what you love.”
“Stick to what you’re good at.”
“Find your strength and stay in your zone of Genius.”
Yes/and
If that’s all we do- we stay comfortable. Safe.
To manifest takes slight discomfort. There is discomfort in the unknown, discomfort found at the edge of growth as we push beyond what has felt safe.
And now … what’s behind the image - because there is always more behind the image.
A wife.
A first time mowing the lawn in almost 20 years of marriage.
It isn’t that I wasn’t willing - it was that he just did it (he enjoys tending to the lawn- and yet I’m sure he feels burdened by it at times).
He’s never asked me. I’ve never offered.
Until we found ourselves here - in recovery after his heart attack and quadruple bypass surgery.
As I mowed yesterday it made me appreciate all of the times he did it without much mention of it. All of the years he’s just done it.
As I pushed that mower I wondered what else there was that he tends to that I perhaps could offer to experience.
As I went up and down the lawn, I felt that connection to my own inner bad ass - the excitement and sense of accomplishment of doing something new (even if imperfectly and with learning curves).
As the blades cut the grass it made wonder for you, Dear Loves … it made me wonder what you do on autopilot and what fresh perspective you’d have for yourself and others by simply offering “Would you be willing to show me how you do that and could I take this over for you for the month?”
Or
“Can I share this task with you this week?”
In a world of a LOT of “I wish THEY/THOSE people would change, do better….”
We get to ask ourselves … “How can I do better - what can I do differently? What am I responsible for shifting for MYSELF?”

If you feel so brave - I’d sure love what comes to mind as you read this … what tasks you defer to others, what you take on automatically, what you’d be willing to do to create a shift in perspective.

Because THAT shift is a shift in energy and THAT is a key to manifestation.

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One small thing…

My Loves

“Star, I feel stuck. I am sitting alone. Isolated and growing angry.”

Ready to shift that energy?
Please know that as you shift this energy - you unconsciously shift it for others.

Choose …. One small thing. In this moment.
What is one small thing you can do for yourself?
A walk?
Stepping outside to sit in the grass?
Feeling the sunshine?
A deep breath?
A glass of water?
A phone call to celebrate someone good in your life?
A moment of capturing 3 things you can feel grateful for …

Let’s keep this list growing… what is one small thing that you choose that helps you to slowly pull yourself out of the space you find yourself in?

There is no better medicine for the Soul than to be IN the work and get to be present to it in real time.

Day One- Beyond the Vision Board kicked off today and with any event I host - there is excitement, nerves and a sense of curiosity of the unfolding.

As I launched this online community (outside of this platform and ya’ll that alone makes me giddy) ... I got to see the BEST LAID plans pivot as life happend, reminding me of the work I get to do both for myself and for my clients. It is by no accident that this is where I found myself for this launch. In the dance - of life - in the work all while holding a bigger vision for myself and for others.

To celebrate this launch, I’m hosting a complimentary three day event (thank you for the patience as the date changed - which was much needed).

You can still register and share!
Badassmanifestation.com/event to join us

I was in college. Taking 19 credit hours, volunteering for the local mentoring scheme (I still keep in touch with my sweet “lil sister”, working as a teaching assistant and working as many hours as possible to pay my way through college.
You guessed it -
It was enough of a burnout and a total crash that I took the a break the following semester. I chose two classes a psychology class and a children’s literature class (which later served me well as a mom).
I called this semester break - “Project Star.”
I was shamed for it “You’ll become a dropout loser.”
Those words still sting a bit
It was the first time I truly trusted myself. It wasn’t all sunshine and rainbows. It was work. Inner work. And a shedding of the narratives and opinions of those I thought I could count on.
It was the start of me honoring my own needs. That time out later took me to Australia (we’ll save that story for another time).

My Friend. I still return to stages of project Star - returning to my own inner guidance, self care and self preservation.

Are there times when you could use a time out? A time for personal care and an exhale?

Know that you’re not alone.

I am here. Holding you. Holding office hours for you, holding space for your return to the badass I know you to be.

I am hosting a three day event next week and if you’ve ever found yourself feeling stuck, lacking trust in yourself and your goals, feeling yourself reaching for the fresh start … this is for you and it is for me.

In fact - I’m in it with you. I almost didn’t launch this (if you’ve been following along you know that the date has changed and been pushed back).

And yet - I’m here. For you. For me. For the badass you’ve always been. This isn’t about goal setting so much as it about a remembering.

From that young Star to you and to me - with Love.

I have a warm community to welcome you for these three days of complimentary presence. February 24,25 & 27. 1:30-2:30pm each day. Each session will be recorded.
Your link to register and join us (outside of social media platforms)

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