Holy Cross Orthodox Monastery

riends and supporters of our monastery, but people from many other traditions are our friends and supporters as well. Our Story

Holy Cross Monastery began with our founding Abbot, Archimandrite Theodor. He always dreamed of founding a monastery one day for the greater glory of God. In 1965, while he was very young and after he had been ordained as a priest for just one year, his devout mother suddenly and unexpectedly fell asleep in the Lord. He was an only son, so his mother left her inheritance to him; since she knew of his holy intention to build a monastery one day. This legacy from his mother was the seed from which Holy Cross Monastery would one day take root, but it was not enough to acquire property suitable for a monastery. So he labored in the Lord’s vineyard as a parish priest until he met his first disciple (Father Stephen, the monastery’s current abbot) in 1970. When he heard this young man talk about his interest in pursuing the monastic life, he asked him if he would be interested in helping him build a monastery. “The days when emperors, tsars, or kings will build monasteries for us are past,” he said. “If we want a monastery, we shall have to build one ourselves.” It was then, in 1970, that they made their holy vow that one day, by the grace of God, they would build a monastery together dedicated to the Holy Cross. It took those monks nine additional years to save enough money to buy property suitable for a monastery, and then, in 1979, with the blessing of their diocesan bishop, they purchased a rural estate that would become Holy Cross Monastery. For over 22 years, that original parcel with its residence and chapel comprised the monastery. The monks themselves performed most of the labor that transfigured that rustic property into a frontier of Paradise. They also stacked every stone in its retaining walls and during their first year (in 1980), planted the majestic Redwood trees that tower behind the cross shrine in the eastern corner of the original parcel. In 2000, a young graduate from the Ukrainian Orthodox Seminary, who also had many mechanical and construction skills, entered our monastery. A native of a village near Lviv, Ukraine, Father Peter Didun was ordained to the diaconate at our monastery in 2009 by Metropolitan Jonah of the Orthodox Church in America ("OCA") and to the priesthood in 2010 by Archbishop Melchisedek of Pittsburgh and Western Pennsylvania (also of the OCA). Father Peter contributed much to the development and expansion of our monastery during his 20 years of dedicated monastic service here before he tragically fell asleep in the Lord in 2020. We often called him our monastery's "wonderworker" because of the many projects he completed in the development of our monastery. Holy Cross Monastery has existed and thrived by the grace of God and through the hard work of its monks. Although friends and supporters have always given and continue to give donations to help us, the monastery was essentially self-supporting from its founding in 1978 through 2013. During those first 35 years, the monks of our monastery never sent out appeals for donations or even passed a collection plate in their monastery chapel. Whatever friends, supporters, and visitors ever gave of their own free will was gratefully and humbly accepted, however, and used for the glory of God by the monks. For 20 years, a stipend our founding abbot received from a small parish he served was the monastery’s principal support. Then, after our founding abbot, Father Theodor, retired from serving as a parish priest, our current abbot, Father Stephen, worked in secular employment at one of Silicon Valley’s largest law firms for fifteen years. Beginning his employment there at the height of the “Dot Com Boom”, Father Stephen rose “like Joseph in Egypt”, receiving promotions and advancements to the point that he eventually became the Manager of New Business Development for the law firm’s litigation department, receiving a salary comparable to that of some of its attorneys. This unexpected income over a fifteen-year period (until 2013) enabled our monastery to thrive and develop in a number of ways. Primarily, it enabled us to acquire two adjacent parcels from our neighbors, when they put their homes on the market before retiring. The monastery comprised only 1.7 acres originally, but with the acquisition of a neighbor’s property in 2002, the monastery doubled in size to 3.5 acres. With this acquisition the monastery acquired an additional residence and gained a private entry that is not shared with neighbors. In 2012, the monastery acquired a third parcel with 5.6 acres, which has brought the total size of the monastery property to over 9 acres. This third property included an additional residence. It is our hope that our monastery's monastic brotherhood will grow and it will be filled with monastics. In 2013, Father Stephen’s position at the law firm was eliminated and since that time, the monastery’s support comes from his monthly social security check and the generous donations of the faithful. Our founding Abbot, Archimandrite Theodor, fell asleep in the Lord in June of 2014 after a long battle with cancer. Although our monastery can easily accommodate up to 12 monks spread across its three parcels, our brotherhood currently consists of only a few monastics: Hegumen Stephen (Abbot), who co-founded the monastery with Archimandrite Theodor in 1970, and monk Kliment (Clement), who first entered the monastery in 2012 and in July 2021 received the monastic tonsure as a rassophore monk. Although a number of others have aspired to become novices here over the years, “many are called, but few are chosen.”

Holy Cross Monastery serves Orthodox Christians of all ethnic backgrounds and all cultural traditions. Prayers are mostly conducted in English, but are also sometimes heard in Romanian, Church Slavonic, Bulgarian, Serbian, or Greek, when needed. The Fathers do their utmost to make every visitor feel that their monastic dwelling is a spiritual home to anyone who comes to them for spiritual nourishment. Our monastery exists as a haven of spiritual tranquility, tolerance and kindness, not only for the local owls, deer, foxes, and raccoon, but for all who come to partake of the Monastery’s peace and befriend the Fathers. The beauty and harmony of the Monastery and its environs speak for themselves and speak to the soul and heart of anyone who loves God, humankind, and nature. Our Lord said: “Foxes have dens and birds of the air have nests, but the Son of Man has nowhere to lay His head” (Matthew 8:20). In this tumultuous and tempestuous world, the Lord has few places in which to lay His holy head. Monasteries provide the Lord with sanctuaries of calm and quietude, where He can rest His holy head and where those who seek Him and love Him can embrace Him. God resides and dwells among us here at Holy Cross Monastery, where the monks strive and spiritually struggle in their imperfect way to serve His every need.