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never been more grateful for friends & found family. thank you to the people that made this past month in MA so special. and thank you to the people (in MA, IL & beyond) who helped carry me through this absolutely audacious year.

more dramatic reflections forthcoming.

happy pride to all my fellow LGBTQIA+ friends n fam… whether you’re out or not, and proud or not… i’m proud of you & love that you’re you.

cheers to being q***r aka quee-ah 🏳️‍🌈 

***r

this past weekend was so full of magic + love. had to share the highlight reel w y'all. .creative & I spent less 36 hours in NYC & took full advantage…

1 - we saw our friends sarah & matthew get MARRIED. (dude, I just love love. CONGRATULATIONS to one of my oldest friends 💗)

2 - we saw the SOL while on the NYC ferry. (which, btw, is such an economical/underrated way to get on the water).

3 - I got to take a class with one of my fav teachers, . (I’m so grateful for this form of movement, for their digital studio & for the opportunity to be in the room with other humans this past weekend… sweating/yelling/shaking s**t up together).

4 - we walked across the williamsburg bridge (with delicious drinks in hand, talking about the magnitude & magic of nyc).

5 - had such a sweet anniversary meal out at an entirely gluten-free restaurant (happy 4 years, .creative ❤️).

6 - 😭 if you are a celine dion fan, a musical fan, and/or are even just a little bit gay, you simply must see this show. the writing & improv were so brilliant & the joy in the room was unparalleled. i went to see this as a way to lean into celebrating life atm… it’s been a really weird/hard 2024, but this show was/is such a bright spot & I couldn’t be more thankful I got to experience it — and during pride month, no less ! 🌈

anyway, enough about me… how have you been?? have you seen titanique?

me in my one cool shirt.

📷 .creative

saturday was such a dream 🥰 i am extending the sincerest thank you to each sweet soul that said yes to moving & brunching together this past weekend. your presence & participation meant more to me than i can say. 🤍

(if you zoom in, you'll notice the giant smile on my face in each of these, which is an accurate representation of the joy i felt)

i appreciate each of you & am looking forward to the next iteration of this fun & quirky creation. 🌱

more to come ✨

'i love you.'
- trader joe's fake succulent

completely forgot about this song til i danced my a** off to it during the super bowl on sunday.

little dump 4 u...

my heart is heavy & happy all at once today. feeling 'grief & gratitude'... as my therapy always says.

wherever you are today, i hope you are okay 🤍

last one is my favorite. 😈  save these for a rainy day.

thank you to all the creators who put this work out into the world first. original artists have been tagged, to the best of my ability.

these photos are to compensate for the new podcast episode that’s out today, which is, how shall i say it:

raw
real
unfiltered
unflattering
(you get it).

taking my goal of using the pod to ‘share the more challenging parts of my life’ seriously. ✌️

watch/listen wherever. 

📷 .creative

let’s just go for it this year, okay?

first episode of season 3 of my podcast starts this week. it’s a totally different format than the first two seasons & i’m feeling v vulni* and v excited about it.

i hope you like it. i hope you’re well. i love u.

stay tuned…

* vulni = vulnerable

📷 : .creative

~feeling~ this evening.

grieving with those who grieve.

asking questions with those who are confused.

hurting with the broken-hearted.

breathing. learning. & holding every human being close in my heart tonight.

we’re here, we’re q***r… get used to it 🏳️‍🌈
(we = me)

happy pride to each and every LGBTQIA+ being out there. i love you.

i have more to say on this topic, but not today.

today I just want to openly express love to and solidarity with the q***r community & especially the trans community… i long for the day where safety and celebration are inevitable for everyone. until then… we persist.

thank you to the people that love me so profoundly.

p.s. any pronouns will do. 🦦

***r