Michele Locke

At 14, I stood up to the biggest bully I had ever known to protect my mom and my brother.
That moment shaped everything that came after.

Today, I do the same thing for my clients. I’ll walk into the fight so they don’t have to face it alone. If this resonated with you, comment with a ❤️

Are they stalking you through your airpods? I’ve seen it in court cases, and I’ve experienced it myself. Stay vigilant and stay safe

Fake it till you make it, you got this!

*𝘛𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘵𝘦𝘯𝘵 𝘪𝘴 𝘧𝘰𝘳 𝘪𝘯𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘮𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘢𝘭 𝘱𝘶𝘳𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘦𝘴 𝘰𝘯𝘭𝘺 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘥𝘰𝘦𝘴 𝘯𝘰𝘵 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘴𝘵𝘪𝘵𝘶𝘵𝘦 𝘭𝘦𝘨𝘢𝘭 𝘢𝘥𝘷𝘪𝘤𝘦.

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Your children are learning what love looks like by watching you. The question is: would you want them repeating your relationship patterns? This conversation gets very real. You can watch the full episode of lovelustlaw now! Comment 🔥 for the link!

The fifth and final phase of narcissistic grooming: normalizing abuse & devaluation. If you are experiencing any of these phases, please get out now. It will be hard, but you are stronger than you think. 

*𝘛𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘵𝘦𝘯𝘵 𝘪𝘴 𝘧𝘰𝘳 𝘪𝘯𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘮𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘢𝘭 𝘱𝘶𝘳𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘦𝘴 𝘰𝘯𝘭𝘺 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘥𝘰𝘦𝘴 𝘯𝘰𝘵 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘴𝘵𝘪𝘵𝘶𝘵𝘦 𝘭𝘦𝘨𝘢𝘭 𝘢𝘥𝘷𝘪𝘤𝘦.

Maybe the problem isn’t masculinity or femininity. Maybe it’s the loss of partnership. Real relationships require two people willing to work together, not compete over roles. Full conversation dropped TODAY!🎙️

Phase 4 of Narcissistic Grooming is Isolation & Dependence! I’m drawing from personal experience on this one…watch out for phase 5, the final phase of this series on Narcissistic Grooming!

*𝘛𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘵𝘦𝘯𝘵 𝘪𝘴 𝘧𝘰𝘳 𝘪𝘯𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘮𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘢𝘭 𝘱𝘶𝘳𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘦𝘴 𝘰𝘯𝘭𝘺 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘥𝘰𝘦𝘴 𝘯𝘰𝘵 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘴𝘵𝘪𝘵𝘶𝘵𝘦 𝘭𝘦𝘨𝘢𝘭 𝘢𝘥𝘷𝘪𝘤𝘦.

We are attempting to define masculinity when we really need to be living out masculinity…Steve gives us 4 principles that left us speechless:

When a man understands his identity
When a man is willing to engage in community
When a man is willing to give himself to accountability
When a man is willing to take responsibility

Watch the full episode when it drops this Monday!

The third phase of narcissistic grooming is what I’m calling “boundary erosion.” I am pulling examples from my own experience because I know that these examples will hit home for many of you who have experienced (or are in) a narcissistic relationship. I’m thankful to be where I am today, the journey I was on for 24 years brought me here. I am removed from the person I used to be, who held these words too close to the chest, and I am hoping this series and my sharing this sets you free too.  

Don’t forget: May is mental health awareness month! In honor of this, a whole new episode of lovelustlaw dropped on Monday with feature guest Liz Gabriel, who shares her wisdom on the sacrifices and resilience it takes to live a joyful life in spite of the pain of debilitating mental illness. 

Now streaming on YouTube, Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and more! 

*𝘛𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘵𝘦𝘯𝘵 𝘪𝘴 𝘧𝘰𝘳 𝘪𝘯𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘮𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘢𝘭 𝘱𝘶𝘳𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘦𝘴 𝘰𝘯𝘭𝘺 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘥𝘰𝘦𝘴 𝘯𝘰𝘵 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘴𝘵𝘪𝘵𝘶𝘵𝘦 𝘭𝘦𝘨𝘢𝘭 𝘢𝘥𝘷𝘪𝘤𝘦.

Safety is a two-way street. If he doesn’t feel secure, you’ll only ever see a caricature, not the man. Real masculinity is deeper than external variables…are you ready for that depth?

Watch the full episode when it drops this Monday!