Stacy Preece Intuitive

Jodi, 23, is dating Mark. 5 months in to their relationship, they spend most of their time together. Jodi is crazy about mark but she does notice his insecurity.

It starts when she mentions a co-worker and Mark asks if she ever had feelings for him. When she says no, he presses her harder not taking her word for it.

At a friend’s wedding, Mark notices her talking to someone and accuses her of flirting. “You would never know you have a boyfriend.” Mark says.

One day she’s late to meet him. “Where have you been?” He asks. His voice has changed. She can feel his anger. “I’ve been in traffic.” Jodi says. “Are you SURE you were in traffic?” Jodi is confused and caught off guard. “Let me see your phone” Mark says.

When Jodi hesitates, he is more upset. “Now I know you’re lying to me.” Her heart beats faster as she realizes he’s accusing her of something she didn’t do. She starts to defend herself telling him she was by herself in traffic on the way home from work. She starts to reassure him and promise him she’s honest. That she loves him.

What Jodi doesn’t understand is Marks accusations are a confession.

He assumes she is just like him. He assumes anyone he dates is like him: dishonest and disloyal.

Jodi and Mark date for almost a year before she ends the relationship. One day she’s making dinner and Mark was in the shower. As she puts dinner in the oven, she walks over to the couch where his phone’s sitting. It lights up with “I need to see you again. I miss you.” Her stomach hits the floor.

It’s Mark who lies and Mark who hides.

Pay attention to projections, that’s where you’ll find the deepest truths most people don’t want to admit

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