Tara McCallam

If you are looking for a beautiful space of support while also bringing in more financial abundance with ease....this is your time to come, be curious and ask questions.

It's so easy. That's why I share about it all the time. And the connections are top level!

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Emotional regulation. It's all the hype.
Here's the thing, so many are regulating themselves into invisibility.

What's that look like?
You show up for everyone else.
No one sees your needs.
When you are struggling, your needs don't matter.
You feel alone when you really need to feel supported.
You feel invisible.

This. Always.

When feelings are welcomed, they don't need to be flung or buried.

We have a process in The Art of Being Certification called Get Alongside - this is a great illustration

When conflict shows up, remember to 'get alongside' the other person, that alone will change the way that conflict shows up for your relationship.

“You’re not broken—you’ve just been carrying too much alone.”

Some of the questions my clients come to me with - Which ones do you relate to?

1.“Why is my teen so distant all of a sudden?”
2.“How do I talk to my kid without starting a fight?”
3.“I feel like I’m losing my child—what do I do?”
4.“How do I raise a confident teen when I’m still healing myself?”
5.“Why do I feel so alone in my family?”
6.“I’m so tired of holding everything together”
7.“How do I stop over giving and still be a good mom/wife?”
8.“How to not lose yourself as a mom?”
9. “Is it normal to resent being the default parent?”
10.“What if I don’t even know what I want anymore?”
11. “How do I stop being so hard on myself?”
12. all of them

but I was a fraud

I said one thing to my clients and children and hid in safety - I was a living lie

I knew I had to jump before I was ready
before I felt calm, brave or responsible

I had tried it the 'right way' and it wasn't working and this life was

hurting my kids
making me struggle to breathe
it was suffocating my dreams, my purpose and my belief in ....everything, myself included

how could I think my kids would believe in me for much longer if I didn't believe in myself
enough to take a bet on me

divorced
I could lose everything
I thought
what if I lose everything
my money
my home
and then my kids

this is stupid
why would you risk everything
there is no security net
no plan b

what happens if you lose
what happens if I lose

I felt like a failure

so when a friend said to me I would never walk away into my calling, it felt like a gut punch, one that really was a smack that woke me up

I realized she was right.

I had talked about walking away and doing my own business for over 2 years

I had even attempted to build it up over the past 5 years, but being a mom and a full-time manager made it nearly impossible

I tried to be grateful and happy and pour myself into my position, after all I was able to hire everyone I worked with and so I was surrounded by excellent people

but I was still dissatisfied

I still felt an aching inside for something more

I couldn't fake it anymore

and I was starting to feel frustrated in a way that wouldn't leave me alone

I found myself telling my clients (the ones I worked with in the pockets of my time) that they could do anything

and I was telling my kids to dream and that they could achieve anything

I was talking about the Universe and the doorways of possibility

but I was a fraud

I said one thing to my clients and children and hid in safety - I was a living lie

Booking virtual coffee chats to discuss what it is like to be an EMPATH. It's all free! It would be fun to meet and I'll give you a fun gift afterwards to honor your empath abilities!

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Booking virtual coffee chats to discuss what it is like to be an empath with emotional children. Comment COFFEE below and I will send you my link to book a time!

https://mailchi.mp/419df8b785ec/feel-safe-to-receive-prosperity-and-love Feel safe to receive prosperity and love.

I have found that a lot of women (myself included) who are hyper-indendent and over givers have childhoods that made receiving either transactional or downright unsafe. (click the link to read the rest)

Feel safe to receive prosperity and love 💖💖 I have found that a lot of the women that I know (myself included) who are hyper-independent, over givers had childhoods that made receiving either transactional or down right unsafe.