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15 Bad Habits That Will Ruin Even the Strongest Marriage.
These are the habits you need to break in order to save your marriage.
By Jeff Forte

For as much envying as we do of other relationships, the truth is—even the most wonderful, "perfect" union can end in divorce.
We've all seen it: Two genuinely great people start off head-over-heels in love, but then somewhere along the way (despite everything looking peachy on the surface) they shock their family and friends with an announcement of their marriage ending.

What happened? They seemed so happy together!
This isn't unusual at all. Many couples struggle to maintain "happy relationships," but without the right tools their attempts at doing so can become futile and marriages still fall apart. Luckily we can take note of these unfortunate heartbreaks and heed their warning signs before its too late.
Here are 15 bad habits these former couples most likely left unaddressed and slowly but surely eroded the connection between them.

1. Not being on the same page with each other
Often couples lack alignment on the things that matter most, and feel like their own personal goals or feelings are the most important ones to focus on. It is easy to get lost in your own perspective and fail to see your partner's viewpoint on the important things, causing them to feel like they aren't valued.

2. Not meeting each other's needs
Every person has unique needs they hope their partner will fulfill. But sometimes couples fail to speak up about those needs or presume their partner's needs are the same as their own, often leaving their significant other feeling alienated.

3. Letting disconnect become the norm
This is when couples start to say things like, "I love you, but I am no longer 'in love' with you." This should be seen as a call to action, but more often than not couples seem to find this to be a final resting place, whether in divorce or mutual unhappiness.

4. Allowing intimacy to dwindle
The affection, connection, and tenderness you once shared dries up from lack of effort, leaving you as nothing more than mere roommates. Once again this should not be a final resting state or terminal phase of a relationship, but a signal—or check engine light, of sorts—to make some positive changes.

5. Neglecting each other
Blowing each other off, forgetting to follow through on promises, failing to pay attention. Neither of you necessarily meant to make other things more important than your spouse, but you did and the continuation of this behavior can eventually be seen as blatant disrespect for your partner.
6. Harboring resentment for each other
Unspoken or unresolved resentment festers and severely poisons a once healthy relationship. One partner (or even both) can think: You did this to me, and I can't get over it. This type of toxicity and buried tension will only continue to build and eventually require release, often taking the form of explosive arguments.

7. Not dealing with things head on
You know things are off, but it's easier to do nothing about it. You avoid facing the truth or handling the real issues in your marriage but just as with all procrastination, the subject will have to eventually be addressed—only with more complications due to the passing of time.

8. Criticizing each other
Nitpicking and obsessing over your partner's shortcomings (whether out loud or just mentally taking note), eventually results in those faults becoming the only thing you see in your partner. After awhile, complaining and criticizing become a comfortable habit which compromises your willingness to communicate and interact in a compassionate, supportive way. It can also eat away at the intimacy and trust you have built in your relationship, and result in one or both of you feeling too self-conscious to be completely honest and open with one another.
9. Turning your attention (and affection) elsewhere
Whether by having an affair or pouring all of your attention into the kids, you have checked out and sought both attention and affection elsewhere. This can lead to jealousy, feelings of neglect or being undervalued, and the deterioration of emotional security within the relationship.
10. Letting stress control your lives
Life is hectic and many couples accidentally let stress (both big and small) come between them. But once stress takes over and shared togetherness fractures, it can feel incredibly difficult (if not impossible) to get it back.

11. Fighting to win
When you're more focused on being right than on truly connecting, attempts to discuss problem areas within the relationship can often end up making things much, much worse. It inhibits the sense of openness needed for healthy communication and progress that could be made in mending other issues.
12. Neglecting s*xual intimacy
When you start to forgo s*x, your intimacy and resulting connection is going to start to drift apart. It is important to see this aspect of your relationship as just as much of a priority as any other, and really put in the effort to make a positive change. Even if there is a sense of disinterest or apathy, effort can take the form of scheduling s*x or giving maintenance s*x a try.

13. Lying about financial issues
While even the closest couples can find it difficult to talk about money, it's important to make an attempt to keep an open dialogue—because money is the number one cause of relationship stress. If your partner is irresponsible or deceitful about money, it can feel overwhelming and hurtful, because it’s a huge breach of trust in the same way that an infidelity would be.

14. Losing respect for each other
The minute eye rolls start to enter into the relationship, respect has gone out the window. Like Kristen Bell once said, “You might as well break up right then because it’s contempt.” Its important to always make an effort to understand your partner's perspective and respect their right to a different point of view, even if their opinions don't match your own.

15. Introducing ultimatums into the relationship
If your partner starts saying things like, "It's me or your best friend/parents/sister, etc.," you've entered into a stage of the relationship you may not be able to come back from. The subject does not always have to be another person, in many situations it can even be a career or habitual pattern.

The longer the above issues remain unresolved in ANY marriage, the more these habits intertwine, intensify, and steadily reduce the flow of love and connection in your life. Each day, love dwindles and stress builds until even formerly happy couples reach their breaking point.

So what can you do when your happy marriage feels miserable (and seems hopelessly lost)?
Find a little perspective: Focus on why you fell in love with your partner and what you want your life as a couple to become. Even better, tell your partner this without any expectations of them doing the same.

Be brave enough to go first: Be willing to apologize to your partner first instead of waiting for them to make the first move.

Start to repair the damage: Apologize for your part in any misunderstanding. Don't defend why you did or didn't do this or that. Offer a simple, heartfelt apology without expecting one from them. This can work wonders.

Stop waging war: Stop doing anything that's causing harm to your partner or injures your feeling of connection and intimacy. This might simply mean showing a little more patience, compassion, and kindness.

The happiness and success of any marriage is reflected in the little things you do (and fail to do) for each other. Don't let your marriage fall apart like so many couples do. Make a fresh start, today. Choose to do something that moves you out of the past and imagines a brighter future together. Choose your relationship over the often alluring consistency of inaction.

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CORONAVIRUS : HOW TO CANCEL AND POSTPONE YOUR KWANJULA OR WEDDING.
By Caroline Hendry.
For many couples, the Coronavirus outbreak means they have had to take the sad decision to cancel their kwanjula or wedding day. Amongst all the fragility and anxiety everyone is facing right now, it’s going to be an extra knock to couples who were planning to celebrate their wedding in the coming weeks. For all those couples who need to cancel their kwanjula or wedding day – we hope our advice below will help to make a tough time a little bit easier.

Communicate, Communicate, Communicate

Your venue, your suppliers and your guests – make sure you communicate your message clearly. Venues and suppliers are doing all they can to help couples to rearrange their wedding dates so get in touch with them as soon as possible. With your guests, a social media post probably won’t reach everyone – and you may find all the sorry messages a little overwhelming. Consider an email or sending a note to all your wedding guests – like the Etsy card above – to tell them that the date you had originally chosen is no longer possible.

It’s Postponed, Not Cancelled!

For your own happiness and wellbeing, call your wedding “postponed”, even if you don’t know when your new wedding date will be. Unless of course self-isolation with your other half means you do want to fully cancel the big day (Ok…we are hoping this isn’t true for any of you!). But in all seriousness, even just using the word postponed rather than cancelled is more positive language that should help you feel a little better.

Have a Cup of Tea and a Cry (if you need to)

It’s easy to feel guilty about having wedding worries with all that is going on, but in your life, the wedding was a massive milestone. Don’t feel guilty if you need to just have a little cry or two for yourself, it’s a stressful situation and a few tears are more than understandable. Talk to your other half or close family and friends if you need some extra support.

Plan Something For Your Missed Date

Whether it’s a video chat with your bridal party and a few glasses of champagne or a romantic evening just the two of you, think of a nice way to mark what would have been your wedding date and toast to the fact that the best is yet to come.

Remember Your Wedding WILL Happen

Remember your wedding day is just postponed, and all of your family and friends will be so excited to celebrate with you when they can. If anything good can come from this difficult situation, it’s just how much people have all pulled together. It may not be what you originally planned but you will get married and you will have the best day.

COVID-19 A message of support - We will get through this together.

Dear staff, friends and business partners - We will get through this together.

These are unsettling times and COVID-19 is clearing impacting our personal and professional lives, and those that we love. I wanted to wish you, your loved ones and fellow colleagues safe passage through this difficult period.

Please take care, stay positive and find sometime for having fun and smiling. It is challenging operating under the current restrictions; however, I am confident we will get through this, together.
PLEASE STAY AT HOME!
Mgt.

What's the Difference Between Miss, Ms., and Mrs.?

And which to write when addressing your wedding invitations.

By Cristina Montemayor .

Whether you’re addressing someone in person or in a letter, titles are a symbol of respect. Men are always addressed as Mr., but it’s a bit more complicated for women. There are three different formal titles a woman can carry: Miss, Ms., and Mrs. Using the incorrect title for a woman can be considered rude or impolite, so if you want to avoid a serious social faux pas, it’s important to learn the differences between the three in order to use these prefixes properly.

The Top 8 Wedding Invitation Etiquette Mistakes, According to Pros
We’ll explain everything you need to know about using formal titles, including which to write when addressing your wedding invitations.

Miss
Use the prefix Miss to address young unmarried women or girls under the age of 18. Technically, any unmarried woman can be referred to as Miss, but the title can feel a bit juvenile and immature when addressing women of a certain age, or women who’ve been divorced. It’s sticky situations like these that make Ms. the clear best choice, especially in a formal setting. For young girls under the age of 18, it’s perfectly acceptable to refer to them as Miss. If you even have to question it, go with Ms.

Ms.
Ms. is the proper way to describe any woman, regardless of marital status. It’s a catch-all, neutral term that came about in the 1950s as women began to assert their desire to become known for something outside of their marriage, and took hold in the 1970s with the women’s rights movement. Ms. is pronounced mizz like quiz, not miss like kiss. It’s considered the female equivalent of Mr. and can be used in any setting to refer to an adult woman. Married women are often referred to as Ms. in a business setting where marital status isn’t known or seen as pertinent, but it’s most often used to describe young women who aren’t married since Mrs. refers to married women and Miss relies heavily on age.

If you’re not sure if a woman is married, it’s safe to go with Ms.

Mrs.
The prefix Mrs. is used to describe any married woman. In the present day, many women decide they want to keep their last name instead of taking their husband’s. These women are still referred to as Mrs. A widowed woman is also referred to as Mrs., out of respect for her deceased husband. Some divorced women still prefer to go by Mrs., though this varies based on age and personal preference. Traditionally, this title would accompany the husband’s title, first and last name (Mr. and Mrs. John Smith), although this practice is becoming increasingly less common. Use this title of respect to address married women, or when speaking to a woman of authority to show deference.

Addressing Wedding Invitations
Addressing wedding invitations is just as important as the information on the invite itself. Your guests are important to you, which is why they’ve been chosen to be invited to participate in your special ceremony. Using what you now know regarding the differences between Miss, Ms. and Mrs., address the outer and inner envelopes with the proper title.

If a woman is married, use Mrs. If you’re inviting a couple, it’s up to you if you want to refer to the names of each after their respective titles (Mr. John and Mrs. Jane Smith), or simply use both titles along with the husband’s name (Mr. and Mrs. Smith). The latter is more formal, but be cautious if you’re not sure if the woman decided to keep her name. If you’re only inviting a woman, and she’s married, use Mrs.

When inviting an unmarried adult woman, or if you’re not sure if she’s married, use Ms. When addressing an invite to an unmarried couple, write the man’s name first, followed by the woman’s (Mr. John Smith and Ms. Jane Doe).

For young girls under the age of 18, use Miss, and have her name follow the name of her parents if also invited (Mr. and Mrs. John Smith, and Miss

It was massive kwanjula in NABOA LUPADA BUDAKA DISTRICT. JULIET introduced FRANCIS to her parents and entire community in a colorful event with over a thousand guests present.