Chris C

Stay only where you are seen, desired, protected, loved.

With a man, you should not feel alone.

You should not ask yourself every day if you still matter, if you are still desired, if the man next to you really chooses you.

Love should not extinguish you. It should not make you sadder, more tired, more insecure.

The right man does not come into your life to take away your peace, sparkle and years.

With the man who loves you, you are not at the bottom of the list of priorities.

Everything is not asked of you and nothing is offered to you. You do not have to pray for attention, presence, tenderness or love.

That true love makes you blossom.

Just stay there.

I see you perfect even though I know there is no such thing as perfection.

I see you perfect because I love you with all your imperfections. You wouldn't be the same woman if you were perfect. And then, maybe, I wouldn't have loved you anymore.

And I'm not the man to ask you to change. When you love, you allow the other person to be. That's it and nothing more. And if you can accept both the lights and the shadows, only then can you say you love.

From the very beginning, you showed me who you are. You gave me access to your most intimate place. Even if you were afraid, you allowed me to know every inch of what we would call your soul. Or mind. Or body.

The purest form of love is to tell the person you love just this: be you, I'll take care of the rest.

I'll take care of the rest, don't worry!

May spring bring you a lucky March, rays of love and warm breezes of happiness!

The white thread is health, and the red thread is prosperity. Both, together, form a wreath of success and good cheer.

May your smile always be gentle like the spring sun. May your heart always tremble with joy at the sight of the first snowdrop.

May the miracle of nature's rebirth remind you that there is always hope. A spring like in fairy tales!

May this spring be like your smile, kindness and optimism! A happy spring!

Just as snowdrops emerge triumphant in the face of winter, so may your smile also be victorious in the saddest times! A wonderful spring!

If you don't want her around, don't keep the place occupied! 💔
Let go of her hand and leave the place free. Maybe another man is waiting around the corner for you to politely knock on the door of her soul and, after entering her house, start offering her the happiness she lacked while she was with you.

You, the one who has her but doesn't feel her, understand that leaving doesn't mean losing your pride or masculinity. If a woman leaves you out of her life, it doesn't mean you weren't a good man, just a bad fit. Or this match only happens once in a lifetime, with only one person. Leaving the place free if you don't want her is a sign of manhood, responsibility, altruism and respect. Keeping it occupied so that you don't have a chance at happiness is stupid.

Don't keep the place occupied out of fear that she might be happy before you, because achieving happiness is not a competition. It comes at different times for each person. Let her have what she lacks with you, especially since you are aware that what you have is just a waste. That arguments are frequent, that only arguments are left. And one night of s*x. And promises from both sides, which you both know will never be fulfilled.

You may wonder why she doesn't leave you on her own. Nothing wrong. From my experience, women connect more deeply with men, they believe more in the relationship, they hope more that it will be good. Maybe they are stupid or maybe they are soulful and dreamy. And maybe she tried to break up with you, but every time she fell into your trap when you came to reconcile her. And maybe you came to reconcile her, knowing that you were not right for each other, just because you couldn't accept loneliness.

Maybe it's time to leave your place, but only you know what to do!

The wounded woman blossomed! 🌸

She blossomed when she understood that she no longer had to prove anything to anyone.

Not to anyone she lost her to. Not to anyone she didn't know how to hold on to. Not to anyone she didn't see her for. Not to anyone she didn't know how to love.

She blossomed when she started choosing her. Completely.

And she no longer accepted halves.

When she understood that her silence wasn't worth the noise.

She understood that love is not demanded, forced, or negotiated.

And that words remain mere words in the absence of deeds.

And someone's presence is worth nothing if it comes with chaos and pain.

The wounded woman blossomed...

In silence.

On a certain morning.

In a pause in thought.

In a moment when she felt that she was enough.

She blossomed because he finally turned to her.

And he promised himself that he would never abandon himself again.

From now on, he knows what not to allow another man.

And this woman is so beautiful!

How do you know you're his savior?
Often, the role of "savior" begins subtly, as a sign of love. You show him that you're always there, you encourage him, you help him overcome difficulties, you cover his shortcomings, you mend his wounds with your patience, your time, your soul.
And, at a certain point, you start to feel that you're no longer the desired woman, but the woman who solves, who takes over, who drags after her a relationship in which he seems more like your child than your partner.
You find yourself endlessly making excuses for him: "He's tired", "He had a difficult childhood", "He doesn't trust him", "Maybe he doesn't know how to love differently".
You love his potential, not his reality.
You feel responsible for his emotions, his motivation, his well-being.
You give up your needs for fear of losing him or hurting him.
You are the one who is holding the relationship back and, if something doesn't work out, you still feel the blame.
You don't know how to receive, only to give.
You don't allow yourself to ask, only to understand and fix.
It consumes you to always be "strong", but you don't know any other option.
The simplest question that helps you realize if you have become his savior:
How much of your love is care and how much is sincere joy?
Love shouldn't be about constantly lifting him up or helping him day and night, until you lose yourself.
A suitable man doesn't need to be saved - but to be loved, respected, challenged to grow alongside you.
A true relationship is not a hospital where you heal, but a place where both partners grow and support each other, without sacrificing each other.
By the way, does this situation sound familiar to you?

Sometimes, your eyes will run after others – after another woman’s ass, breasts, face. Even though you have your own at home.

Maybe you feel a call to try something else, to talk to another woman. Well, if you’ve reached this point, it would be nice of you to give up on her love and then desire any other woman. That would be fair for both of you, that would be the lesser evil that, whether we want it or not, we may be forced to choose.

If there’s no more magic between you, don’t do another magic through which you can break her soul into pieces. Be honest, assume your feelings and leave for new beginnings. Whether it’s better or not, you’ll see for yourself – the chances are 50-50.

If a routine has set in between you and you feel that you can no longer evolve together, be a man, break up with her like a gentleman and then you can try everything you can. No one will judge you, because they have no reason to.

And, most importantly, you kept your respect for the woman with whom you shared beautiful and less beautiful moments until the end of the relationship.

We are all aware that there is no written law that says that love for a person is eternal. Whether it lasts forever or not, only time will tell.

It is not wrong to give up on a woman's love, but it is wrong to betray her trust, to trample on her soul without thinking at all.

It is not wrong to leave, then, for others, but it is wrong to be with others while she is waiting for you at home.

It is not wrong to change women either, but it is wrong to bring them together.

So, worry as much as you want, but don't leave behind wounds that, perhaps, will be difficult to heal.

A beautiful relationship means loyalty. 👩🏼‍❤️‍👨🏼

Know that you can trust that the person next to you will not judge you for your way of being, for your flaws, for your fears. And know that the way you are in the eyes of the other person, you are the perfect soul and they don't need anyone else.

Know that the words they tell you are not just beautifully wrapped lies. Especially these days, when almost everyone lies to you with a smile on their face.

Know that when you are down, the other person is by your side and is willing to help you get up. And they support you sincerely, without pursuing anything in particular.

Dear woman, remember the following things:

It's not worth losing yourself in a relationship with a partner who gives you crumbs! I know you're tempted to give more and more, hoping that one day you'll receive a... whole love. I know you still hope that tomorrow will be different, but you see, people don't change overnight.

Stop accepting all the crap they offer you! Take heart and pack your bags. Say goodbye and leave without looking back. You have time to heal your wounds later. But if you stay with a man who constantly hurts you, you won't be able to heal anything, absolutely nothing.

There are good men! You just, you see, sometimes you need to learn to keep them. And stop considering them boring. I know you're used to chaos, which you won't find with a good man. Get ready for him!

Your relationships are a mirror of your relationship with yourself! If you don't resolve your inner conflicts, you will always come across men who will push all the buttons of your soul. You become a magnet and attract all the disappointments of this world.

Prince Charming will not fall from the sky. He will not knock on your door.
Just as a healthy and long-lasting relationship is built, it is not found.

Maybe it wasn't what you were hoping to hear, but ... let's stop hiding behind fingers.

What do you say?

How cool! ❤️

When a man loves you, you can tell him anything, without fear that he will judge, label or reject you. You will feel peace in the truest sense.

When a man loves you, he will convince you that he only has eyes for you. And you will feel that he loves you like he has never loved another woman before.

When a man loves you, he will make you feel respected, understood, attracted, strong, beautiful. In short, he will make you feel everything you have never felt before.