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BY AGE 40 YOU SHOULD BE SMART ENOUGH TO REALIZE THIS:

1. Someone makes 10x more than you do in a 9-5 job because they have more "leverage" with their work.

2. Distraction is the greatest killer of success. It stunts and destroys your brain.

3. You shouldn't take advice from people who are not where you want to be in life.

4. No one is coming to save your problems. Your life's 100% your responsibility.

5. You don't need 100 self-help books, all you need is action and self discipline.

6. Unless you went to college to learn a specific skill (ie. doctor, engineer, lawyer), you can make more money in the next 90 days just learning sales.

7. No one cares about you. So stop being shy, go out and create your chances.

8. If you find someone smarter than you, work with them, don't compete.

9. Smoking has 0 benefit in your life. This habit will only slow your thinking and lower your focus.

10. Comfort is the worst addiction and cheap ticket to depression.

11. Don't tell people more than they need to know, respect your privacy.

12. Avoid alcohol at all cost. Nothing worse than losing your senses and acting a fool.

13. Keep your standards high and don't settle for something because it's available.

14. The family you create is more important than the family you come from.

15. Train yourself to take nothing personally to save yourself from 99.99% of mental problems.

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LESSONS FROM A DONKEY

One day, a farmer’s donkey fell into a well. The poor animal cried loudly for hours while the farmer tried to figure out a way to get him out. Finally, the farmer decided that the donkey was old and the well was dry and needed to be covered anyway; it wasn’t worth pulling the donkey out of the well.

He invited all his neighbors to help him. They each grabbed a shovel and began to throw dirt into the well. The donkey realized what was happening and cried out loudly. Then, to everyone’s surprise, he quieted down after a few shovelfuls of dirt.

The farmer finally looked down into the well and was amazed at what he saw. With each shovelful of dirt, the donkey was doing something incredible: he was shaking off the dirt and stepping on top of it. Very soon, everyone was astonished as the donkey reached the mouth of the well, climbed over the edge, and trotted out.

Life is going to throw dirt at you, all kinds of dirt. The trick to getting out of the hole is to shake it off and use it to step up. Each of our problems is a step up. We can get out of the deepest holes if we don’t give up.

Use the dirt thrown at you to get ahead!

Remember the 5 rules to be happy:
1. Free your heart from hate.
2. Free your mind from distractions.
3. Simplify your life.
4. Give more and expect less.
5. Love more and shake off the dirt, because in this life, you have to be a solution, not the problem!

BY AGE 40 YOU SHOULD BE SMART ENOUGH TO REALIZE THIS:

1. Someone makes 10x more than you do in a 9-5 job because they have more "leverage" with their work.

2. Distraction is the greatest killer of success. It stunts and destroys your brain.

3. You shouldn't take advice from people who are not where you want to be in life.

4. No one is coming to save your problems. Your life's 100% your responsibility.

5. You don't need 100 self-help books, all you need is action and self discipline.

6. Unless you went to college to learn a specific skill (ie. doctor, engineer, lawyer), you can make more money in the next 90 days just learning sales.

7. No one cares about you. So stop being shy, go out and create your chances.

8. If you find someone smarter than you, work with them, don't compete.

9. Smoking has 0 benefit in your life. This habit will only slow your thinking and lower your focus.

10. Comfort is the worst addiction and cheap ticket to depression.

11. Don't tell people more than they need to know, respect your privacy.

12. Avoid alcohol at all cost. Nothing worse than losing your senses and acting a fool.

13. Keep your standards high and don't settle for something because it's available.

14. The family you create is more important than the family you come from.

15. Train yourself to take nothing personally to save yourself from 99.99% of mental problems.

16. If you don't separate yourself from distractions, your distractions, will separate you from your GOALS.

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Romans 5:8 - "But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us."

In your gratitude, remember that God's love for you is constant and unwavering, even on your worst days. His love is not based on our circumstances or actions but on His grace and mercy. Thank the Lord for His unconditional love and the sacrifice of Jesus, which demonstrates the depth of His love for you. May His love bring you comfort and assurance in all situations. Amen. 🙏💖

Find your worth❤️💯
Read this.

A father said to his son “You have graduated with honors, here is a car I bought many years ago. It is pretty old now. But before I give it to you, take it to the used car lot downtown and tell them I want to sell it and see how much they offer you for it.

The son went to the used car lot, returned to her father and said, “They offered me $1,000 because the said it looks pretty worn out.”

The father said, now “Take it to the pawn shop.” The son went to the pawn shop, returned to her father and said,”The pawn shop offered only $100 because it is an old car.”

The father asked his son to go to a car club now and show them the car. The son then took the car to the club, returned and told her father,” Some people in the club offered $100,000 for it because it’s a Nissan Skyline R34, it's an iconic car and sought by many collectors”

Now the father said this to his son, “The right place values you the right way,” If you are not valued, do not be angry, it means you are in the wrong place. Those who know your value are those who appreciate you......Never stay in a place where no one sees your value.

Never!

MAINTAINING A HEALTHY AND SAFE MARRIAGE INVOLVES OPEN COMMUNICATION, MUTUAL RESPECT, AND TRUST.

*HERE ARE SOME KEY STEPS:
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1. **Effective Communication:** Regularly communicate with your partner about your feelings, needs, and concerns. Listen actively and empathetically to their perspective.

2. **Establish Boundaries:** Set clear boundaries regarding acceptable behavior and treatment within the relationship. Respect each other's boundaries and work together to enforce them.

3. **Prioritize Mutual Respect:** Treat each other with kindness, empathy, and respect. Avoid belittling, criticizing, or being disrespectful towards your partner, even in moments of disagreement.

4. **Address Conflict Constructively:** Conflict is inevitable in any relationship, but it's how you handle it that matters. Approach disagreements calmly and with the intention of finding a resolution that satisfies both partners.

5. **Build Trust:** Trust forms the foundation of a healthy marriage. Be honest and transparent with each other, and honor your commitments and promises.

6. **Support Each Other:** Be there for your partner through both the good times and the bad. Offer encouragement, validation, and assistance when needed, and celebrate each other's successes.

7. **Maintain Individuality:** While marriage is about partnership, it's also important to maintain your own identity and interests. Encourage each other to pursue personal goals and hobbies.

8. **Seek Help When Needed:** If issues arise that you're unable to resolve on your own, don't hesitate to seek professional help from a therapist or counselor. They can provide guidance and support to help strengthen your marriage.

By consistently practicing these principles, you can cultivate a loving, respectful, and safe marriage.

GREAT REFLECTION;
WHEN YOU DIE, don't worry about your body... your relatives will do whatever it takes to the extent of their ability.
They will undress you, wash you, dress you, drive you out of your house and take you to your new address. Many will come to your funeral to say "goodbye". Some will cancel commitments and even skip work to go to your funeral.
Your possessions, even what you didn't like lending, will be sold, gifted or burned. Your keys, your tools, your books, your shoes, your clothes... And rest assured that the world will not stop just to cry for you.
The economy will go on. In your work you will be replaced. Someone with the same or better ability will take your place. Your possessions will go to your heirs...
And have no doubt that you will continue to be cited, judged, questioned and criticized for the small and big things you have done in life.
People who knew you just by your face will say: Poor man or woman! Either he or she was having a great time! Your true friends will cry for a few hours or days, but then they will laugh again.
The "friends" that used to throw you to pachanga, will forget about you quicker. Your pets will get used to their new owner. Your photos will, for a while, hang on the wall or continue on some furniture, but then they may be stored at the bottom of a drawer.
And we will only live in the memory of those who loved us. Someone else will sit on your couch and eat at your table. Deep pain in your house will last for one week,two,one month,two,one year,two.. Then you will be added to the memories and then your story is over. It is finished among the people, it is finished here, it is finished in this world. But start your story in your new reality... in your afterlife. Your life where you couldn't move with the things here because then, when they left, they lost the value they had. Body Beauty Appearance Surname Comfort Credit Status Bank Account House Car Profession Title Diplomas Medals Trophies Friends Places Spouse Family... In your new life you only need your spirit. And the value you accumulated here will be the only fortune you can count on there. This luck is the only one you will take and accumulate while you are here. When you live a life of love for others and at peace with your neighbor, you are accumulating your spiritual fortune. So try to live fully and be happy while you're here because: "From here you won't take what you've got. You will only take what you give

WHAT IS REAL LOVE ALL ABOUT?

1 Real Love originates with God (1Jn. 4:8)

Outside of God whatever is called love cannot stand the test of time

2 Real Love intensifies in the company of God (Prov. 13:20)

The closer your relationship with God, the more intense the love becomes

3 Real Love seeks the best of others

4 Real Love brings the best out of others

Real love turns trash into treasure, waste into wealth and raw material into refined products

5 Real Love shields and protects others

A real lover cannot withstand the pain of the loved

6 Real Love adds value to others

Those who use people devalue them but those who love people envalue them

7 Real Love touches lives; it makes a mark on people that they can’t forget

8 Real Love waits; it is patient

Everywhere impatience is found, real love is lacking

9 Real Love is principled

Real love maintains standards and follows guidelines

10 Real Love feels

Real love feels the pain and hurt of others; it has empathy

11 Real Love gives (John 3:16)

12 Real Love forgives

Anytime people make the past to permanently remain as the present, they kill the future

Forgive means releasing people from your heart, but you must exercise wisdom so that you don’t get hurt over and over again.

To live without a purpose is one of the greatest tragedies in the world. But it is even more tragic to live with the wrong purpose. Don’t waste your life.💯💯💯📖📖📖🙏🙏🙏