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📌 Telling a woman that you love her while you are busy treating her like s**t is mental abuse

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PAY ATTENTION‼️

Did you know that by the time a woman says goodbye, she has already mentally moved on long before?

Women go through various stages.

FIRST:
They express their needs to you.
But you don’t pay attention!

Then comes phase TWO:
They feel sad and cry often.
But you still don’t pay attention!

The NEXT PHASE is the most challenging for you:
Everything you do annoys her. Arguments become frequent, and it feels like you can’t stand each other, yet…

You still don’t pay attention!

Then, a CONFUSING PHASE for many men arrives:

You can say or do anything and go anywhere you like. She appears unaffected and unmoved.

You might think:
“She has changed… She seems much better. She no longer argues. She barely bothers me…”

And just when you think everything is fine, she packs up and leaves…

And you’re left wondering, “What happened?”

The truth is, she left you in her mind a long time ago.

©Copied from Chris Perry
✍Credit to the rightful author
🎨Ljubica Letinic/Co-owner book&zvook

I promise to build a home, not just a house 💛💕

I promise I'll build a home with no shouts of frustration and anger. A home where we communicate as calmly as possible. We check on each other over a meal. We'd support everyone's dream. We hear every opinion, and we're accountable for every mistake.

There'll be no argument about money, and won't blame children for being born.

A home where we make the best childhood memories instead of passing childhood traumas.
A home where we figure out life together.