Yhen Write's

If you could only see my eye you will know how am I begging for help and deep understanding.

TO ALL THE 'PARENTS' WHO FORGOT WHAT 'RESPONSIBILITY' MEANS.. YES, BOTH OF YOU!
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‎Okay okay, let’s address the ultra iconic duo we’ve got here. Parents who split up but somehow united in not stepping up for their own kids.
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‎Both of you decided na maghiwalay long time ago' – cool, valid naman kung ayaw na talaga magkasama. Pero bakit ang tagal niyo naman magkasundo pagdating sa pagbibigay ng sustento???
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‎You’d think after separating, baka isa sa inyo magsusumikap para ipakita na 'hey, kahit wala ka, gagawin ko lahat para sa bata' pero NOPE. Both of you out here acting like providing for the kids you MADE is some kind of optional side quest na pwede mong i-skip anytime.
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‎Like seriously, what’s the tea here??? You both had no problem making us exist, pero ngayong kailangan ng pera para kainin, mag-aral, at mabuhay ng maayos bigla kayong nagiging 'busy' or 'walang pera' or nag-i-invalid pa ng feelings namin???
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‎Dad says 'ask your mom', mom says 'ask your dad' – parang kami pa yung nagkamali na isilang??? We’re out here trying to survive, tapos inyo pang pinapapili kami kung sino sa inyo ang mas walang pake???
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‎News flash lang – hindi kayo 'victims' here. Hindi kayo 'struggling' that much na hindi makapagbigay ng kahit konti. You’re just two people who chose to have kids but never chose to be parents.
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‎And don’t even start with the 'pero mahal kita naman anak' lines when both of you knows that love doesn’t put food on the table, love doesn’t pay for tuition, love doesn’t keep the lights on. Actions do.
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‎So kung talagang mahal niyo kami, start acting like the parents we needed from DAY ONE. Kasi sa totoo lang, we’re tired of being the ones adjusting, the ones making do with nothing, the ones pretending na okay lang literally when it’s NOT.
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Baka naman, just maybe, ma-realize niyo na ang totoong 'bwiset' dito ay yung sitwasyon na pinaparanas niyo sa aming mga anak niyo

‎TO ALL THOSE 'DADS' OUT THERE – LET ME MAKE THIS CRYSTAL CLEAR...
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‎ Let’s first talk about this very cool trend some of you have been rocking lately you know, yung parang 'pasok sa buhay, labas sa responsibilidad' na peg?
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‎You popped a multiple kids, tapos biglang nagiging ghost mode ka pagdating sa bills, pagkain, school needs – literally EVERYTHING that actually keeps a human being ALIVE and FUNCTIONING. Then when your family asks for the bare minimum na lang naman, you hit them with 'BWISET!' like you’re the one whos being inconvenienced here???
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‎Wow. So brave. Such a king.
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‎Like bro, you expect us to be grateful na 'nagbigay ka ng last name'? News flash – apelyido doesn’t pay for ulam, doesn’t buy school supplies, doesn’t cover electricity or water bills. Nagpapakalakas ka pa ng boses tapos sa sustento, parang naghahanap ka pa ng 'sale' or 'discount'???
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‎And don’t even get me started sa mga 'pero nagtratrabaho naman ako para sainyo' or 'wait lang anak gawa ako paraan' excuses we KNOW. But working =/= providing. Kung ikaw lang naman pala ang nakakain at nakakagamit ng pera mo, bakit ka pa nagpadami ng tao sa mundo??? Para lang may mapagsisihan at mapagsasabihan ng 'bwiset' pag hindi ka nasisiyahan???
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‎Real talk lang – ang daming kids na nag-aadjust, nagtitipid, naghihirap kasi yung taong dapat silang protektahan at tustusan ay mas interesado maging 'tough guy' kaysa maging actual father.
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‎Hindi ka pogi, hindi ka astig, hindi ka 'boss' you’re just someone who failed at the ONE job that actually matters when you decided to have kids. Baka naman – JUST MAYBE – ma-realize mo na ang 'bwiset' ay ikaw sa sarili mo for being this way. Period