One and Only Adebori

Smiling faces, hidden knives. I’ve learned the hard way.

“Relax you are still a teen.” Next person that say this beside me will be hospitalized🥲.

Sometimes I sit back and think about how much being a law student has reshaped me. It’s not just the long hours of reading or the constant pressure to be academically sound. It’s the mental strength it takes to keep going when everything feels too much. The closer exams get, the more intense everything becomes. Everyone’s stressed, everyone’s watching, and as the class rep, I don’t even get the grace to show it.

They expect me to be composed, organized, and most of all impartial. And I try. I really try. But it’s hard. Hard to carry everyone’s burden when you barely have the space to carry your own. People come to me with complaints, questions, even attitudes and I can’t afford to break, because one wrong step and they say I’m biased. That I’m doing too much. Or not enough. They forget that I’m still a student like them, still human, still struggling.

And sometimes, I feel like my looks made it worse People assume life is easier because of it. Like beauty cancels out pressure. Like I don’t still cry at night or feel alone in a class full of people. They don’t know how heavy it is to carry both responsibility and perception at the same time.

And then there’s love. That unexpected part of the journey. The feelings that sneak in when someone shows interest or pays attention to the tiredness I try so hard to hide. And as much as I know I’m capable of loving deeply of being intentional, loyal, and present I find myself holding back. Not because I don’t like someone, or because no one is willing to give me that attention, but because I’m not emotionally open right now. The weight of responsibilities school, exams, being class rep has built walls I’m still trying to climb over. It’s not that I don’t want love… it’s just hard to let it in when I barely have space to breathe.

At the end of the day, I’m just a girl. A law student, yes. A class rep, yes. But also a girl who’s doing her best. A girl who’s tired. A girl who still believes in love. And who’s still trying to find balance in a world that demands too much from her.

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I’ve never liked dressing boring,fashion has always been my little act of rebellion, my way of showing the world who I am without saying a word. But law school? Law school came with a strict dress code: black, white, plain, serious. No room for color, no space for flair. At first, it felt like I was losing a part of myself just to fit in. But I’ve learned that style isn’t just about what I wear it’s about how I carry myself. Even in the most basic outfits, I still find ways to show up as me. I may not be able to wear all the bold colors or prints I love, but I’m still bringing the best out of myself, every single day. Because this journey isn’t just about following rules,it’s about standing out, even when the world expects you to blend in.

Alhamdulillah… Words can barely express how deeply grateful I am to Allah for everything He has done. For guiding me, for protecting me, for blessing me with yet another 365 days ,I am truly thankful.

This past year hasn’t been easy. I’ve faced moments that shook me to my core I’ve loved deeply and lost painfully. I’ve been broken in ways I never thought I could be. Yet somehow, through it all, I still stood firm. There were days I felt like giving up, yet Allah kept me going. He gave me strength when I felt weak, hope when I felt lost, and comfort when my heart ached.

Every tear, every smile, every hardship, and every joy has been a lesson a reminder that life, no matter how unpredictable, is still a gift. And for that, I choose to be grateful. I thank Allah, not just for the good times, but for the tough moments too because they shaped me, strengthened me, and reminded me of His endless mercy.

As I step into this new year, I pray it becomes one of my greatest years yet a year filled with growth, wisdom, and unimaginable blessings. May my mind expand with knowledge, my heart be filled with understanding, and my life overflow with grace. And yes may my account see increase upon increase, with money flowing in abundance especially more money, in shaa Allah.

Alhamdulillah for life. Alhamdulillah for lessons. Alhamdulillah for another chance to try again. Here’s to new beginnings, to brighter days, and to endless reasons to smile.

International Women’s Day has always felt complicated for me. As someone who doesn’t quite connect with traditional ideas of femininity, this day used to bring me more stress than celebration. The expectations to be soft, graceful, nurturing often felt like an ill-fitting costume rather than a reflection of who I am.

But today, I’m choosing to see it differently. Being a woman isn’t about ticking boxes on what society says femininity should be. It’s not about perfecting some delicate balance of strength and softness. For me, it’s about honoring the layers of who I am the messy, uncertain parts included.

I don’t always feel like I fit the mold, but I am still a woman. And today, I’m reminding myself that my womanhood is valid, even if it doesn’t always look or feel the way I think it’s supposed to.

So, this International Women’s Day, I’m celebrating the women who don’t always feel like they belong the ones who question, the ones who push against the grain, and the ones who are still figuring it all out. Because we’re just as much a part of this day as anyone else.

Standing Against Female Abuse

Today I joined 500-level law students on an outreach about girl child and woman abuse. As a 100-level class rep, it was an eye-opening experience that taught me the power of awareness and advocacy.

The outreach aimed to educate the community about different forms of abuse and empower victims to speak up,showing the importance of creating safe spaces and offering support.

This experience reminded me that legal knowledge isn’t just for the courtroom it’s a tool for social change. I’m inspired to keep advocating for justice and standing against abuse.
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Spreading love positively 😍

Under the umbrella of LAW,different departments, different dreams, but the bond is unbreakable.
Law meets Criminology,one in white, the other in green, both chasing justice in their own way.

Today marks the second day of our Freshers’ Week, and it was nothing short of remarkable. We had an Argumentative Forum, and the topic for debate was: “The Pros and Cons of the Nigerian Adjudication System: A Path to Justice or a Barrier to Fairness?”

I had the honor of representing Equity and Justice Chamber, and after a fierce and intellectual exchange of ideas, we emerged as the winners! We secured first place and were awarded both recognition and a cash prize of ₦150,000.

It was an exhilarating experience, and I am incredibly proud of this achievement. A huge thank you to our amazing judges Miss Joy Ogundipe, Miss Ayanniran Comfort, and Miss Ifeoluwa Akinsola for their insightful assessment. This victory wouldn’t have been possible without the support of my chamber and the opportunity to showcase our dedication to critical thinking and advocacy.
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I’m not an artist,I’m the art. Radiating confidence in black and white