Motherhoodwithdf

Mommas get in here

We can right a book full of our mothethood struggles

Getting adaptive solutions to them is also important

Looking forward and getting real time solution is key.

I have been on this overwhelming morherhood journey and I know how you are feeling

I would like to help you

Motherhood doesn't have to be "suffer head"

Am rooting you

We Move🥰🥰🥰

Wish I had pictures of me in the kitchen to share with you; doing all the Christmas stuff!!!

Things mothers do🥰

But I went to work came back and knocked off

Not to worry my family was well settled.

To all the mothers that have mixed tomato and chili pepper to make Jollof rice❤❤

And to those that spent the whole day attending to visitors

And to those that felt too sad to celebrate

I celebrate you all

And be grateful

You are alive to be💗💗💗💗

Merry Christmas mommas❤❤❤❤

Who's awake?

Are you honest about your motherhood story?

Like willing to share your struggle and victory with another mother?

Sharing this victory is a gift

I went out yesterday to do some grocery shopping. I saw this once pregnant hairdresser on my street

From experience, I am not fast to ask a pregnant woman who's not carrying a baby " you have put to bed" Congratulations

Got close to her and said how are you and open my eye wider in a gesture of "your baby"

And she responded " baby as gone back to God"

I empathized with her and left

It was a sad one.

After a full 9 month journey

Encouraged her some gift and smiled home

Do you know some women who tag mothers who loss there kids at birth diseased??

Like really

Let me willing to hold the hands of fellow mothers and encourage them

Have you slicked link in bio??

Tag all the mothers you know

My response to a post on Dang's page.

Before having kids it's important to own yourself, know yourself, and love yourself.

Motherhood would rock your world in all its shade. You will smile and cry. You will feel lost and empty yet filled.

Your love capacity will stretch. You will be there for your kids and hubby when you need yourself. You will discover new strength.

People's world will revolve around yours.....it will humble you, strengthen you, and give you the confidence to move mountains.

And yes they are watching and learning from your actions and inactions so consciously acting right is important.

You will enjoy the hugs and the call of mommy and the screams in the house will sometimes make you helpless..... And yea it's draining, overwhelming and you would cry......

Getting help when and where you need to is important... Having a support group to help your mental health when you feel burdened.....

And yes SELF CARE..oh self-care must mothers ignore. We get busy attending to everyone except ourselves. I encourage mothers at every chance I get.

Hosting support group and counseling sessions to help mothers know they are not alone like I would on the 23rd.....cos it's not 100% smooth for any parent.

We are looking for better ways to do it right. So when our kids are all grown they will know mama and papa did a great job here. I hope this help❤️😍

You should tag every mom you know to this post

That's the way you can support them.

Motherhood will change you

And if you didn't find yourself before starting your motherhood journey! That's a whole different work to be done.

We get drained and drown supplying the needs of our kids, home, hubby, inlaw and you become almost empty

You look in the mirror and wonder who is this??

Is this you???

No breathing space

Your head is turning all over the place

Your world is evolving faster than you can contain

Motherhood rocks you!!!!

But you are not alone.

Try and pace yourself till you find your flow

Don't judge yourself by other mothers story

Our motherhood stories are different yet same

I will be hosting a free session where mothers come to talk.

To release the overwhelm and get support

Refresh for a new beginning

Link will be put in bio soon

Check details in my stories

Motherhood will change you

And if you didn't find yourself before starting your motherhood journey! That's a whole different work to be done.

We get drained and drown supplying the needs of our kids, home, hubby, inlaw and you become almost empty

You look in the mirror and wonder who is this??

Is this you???

No breathing space

Your head is turning all over the place

Your world is evolving faster than you can contain

Motherhood rocks you!!!!

But you are not alone.

Try and pace yourself till you find your flow

Don't judge yourself by other mothers story

Our motherhood stories are different yet same

I will be hosting a free session where mothers come to talk.

To release the overwhelm and get support

Refresh for a new beginning

Link will be put in bio soon

Check details in my stories

Pregnancy seems to be the "easy" part of motherhood

The aches, nausea, heartburn, irritation, fatigue that's carrying fatigue( I had to emphasize), vomiting.....add to list

Other mothers have it easy.🥰🥰🥰

Hey am not scaring you.....our stories are different❤

Labour pain to sore nipples😩

Episiotomy repair and healing

Sleepless nights

Immunization

Crawling

Teething

And the list goes on and on

We still get to add getting back our prepartum body

Career

Family both extended and nuclear

Motherhood can shake your boat....it will rock you.

Just move to the rhyme

Enjoy it

Cos they grow real fast💗💗

A free group session where mothers just open up is cooking... Tag other mothers

Still glued

Trafficator pointing right.....I move💗

I have cried today⁣!!

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It's okay to cry⁣
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To ask for a hug⁣
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To embrace your weakness⁣
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To express your fears⁣
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To trust totally

To ask for your hand to be held⁣
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It's okay to say you need support⁣
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It's okay to be loved⁣
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It's okay to be swept off your feet⁣
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To feel your heart palpitate ⁣
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To feel a rush of hormones ⁣
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To laugh out loud⁣
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To giggle⁣
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To scream⁣
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It's okay to be YOU

Still moving🥰🥰🥰🥰

Congratulations no dey finish

On your journey through life. You will take the lengthier route, take the roundabout twice, miss your bus, wake up late, get tired, and enter the wrong bus.

I had a messed up Msc program that hunts me but man I keep moving.

But know where you are heading is key. Errors might mess up your direction but stay focused on the destination.

It's okay to walk the walk while you build the destination picture. Just keep working at it.

Talk to people, research, learn from past mistakes, make informed decisions, pray, pray, and pray.

Speed! Oh, Speed!! Don't compare your journey. Nobody posts their failures.

Run your race and come out winning.

Still moving.

Tag someone 💗

The worst response is NO

And you move

It's okay to keep trying and it's fine to ask for assistance when you need it

Don't normalize suffering, hardish and pain

I used to be this person

But NO more 🚫

Reach out to get help

Don't die help is right beside you

Talk to sincere people

Open up

Take a leap

Shut out the fear

And move 🥰

I will be announcing a free session for mothers soon. Your mental health is important!

Go vote in my stories💗💗💗

Saying No is not a Sin⁣
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It saves you from extra burden(like the one you are carrying is not heavy enough)⁣
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Don't wear the crown of people pleaser...there's no award for it😩⁣
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Find polite ways to Say No. Thank God for English⁣
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√ I sorry I am busy ⁣
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√ No thanks maybe next time ⁣
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√ I don't think I am the right person to help with that ⁣
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√ Sounds fun but I won't be available⁣
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√ That's not going to work for me; thanks for thinking of me. ⁣
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√ I wish I could but am already overcommitted⁣
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√ I said No habi it's by force ni🤣🤣🤣💗❤⁣
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Stop feeling used...Refuse to feel used. ⁣
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Your physical and mental health is key.⁣
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The traffic light is green!!! Just zoomed off 🚘

Don't nail me to the cross😏

We are all bundle of mistakes

That's how we learn

We make mistakes on a steady

(Dont be silly and call it a mistake; wrong decision niyen)

We fall and we rise

Make raising a living thing in your journey. Activate it

You might be slow but make the move

Don't let your mistake be your dictionary

Still moving

Are you tagging your friends??