Jesi Man

Happy birthday Pastor Kunle

"Never forget who helped you out, while everyone were making excuses" 🤝

Marry someone who sees the parts of you that are fragile, I mean very fragile but doesn’t use them against you.

Marry someone who listens when you can’t explain your pain perfectly, who holds your hand when your heart feels too tired to hope, when you can't even walk the path you envision, I mean someone who reminds you that you’re not alone in your darkest night...not today, not tomorrow, not ever.

The truth is, life will not always be gentle. There will be seasons that feel overwhelming, moments when your soul feels underwater. And in those moments, you need a partner who is not scared of your depth, your vulnerability, or your humanity.

So don’t just marry for chemistry, happy hour, beauty, or excitement. Marry for presence. Marry for partnership. Marry for the person who stands with you in the deep waters and says, “We’ll rise together and I'll stand with you till this season pass.”

©️JESI MAN

Avoid people who's been through a lot in their past relationship, especially if he or she doesn't like you.

When someone doesn't like you, he finds fault in everything you do, I mean literally everything, probably because of the past hurt.

Hear this, don’t make a good man or woman pay for the mistakes someone else made in your past!

Deal with that person for who HE or SHE is. Not from the lens of what you’ve been through just so you don't miss the move of God in your life because of animosity.

My neighbor told me one afternoon "It's my last time of doing anything relationship, and even if I try again I won't give my all to it"🤣 I mean completely out of no where o. Because prior to her statement we were discussing power holding companies.

It means she harboured it in her mind and her subconscious was saturated with it. If you date someone like that you will see shege.🤣 Not because she's a bad person, but because people like that make Innocent Jesus pay for the sins of Adam.

Repeat this after me, I MARK MYSELF SAFE FROM SUCH PEOPLE.

I am not one to scream when I meet celebrities. I have met lots of them in person.

When I was working on the island, Victoria Island to be precised, I met Timaya around 2AM, he came to get food, I had told the staffs working under me to go and rest after a very long day that I will man the spot because they looked really tired. So he (Timaya) walked in and we looked at each other. He was surprised that I wasn't surprise (lolz) and guess what? He left without buying anything. lolzz

When I told the staffs the next morning, ahhh! you need to see the way they went wi!d with scre@ming. 🤣🤣🤣

Was I proud?

No!

Was I surprised? A big YES! Did I scre@m or act weird? No!!!

I am not just that kind of person with too many drama when it has to do with meeting a celebrity. You can call me cold that's totally fine.

But you see this my guy right here? I'm not sure how I will react the day I see him.

I have this unexplainable love for Nathaniel Bassey- because he gave me so many reasons to hold onto my sound.

This is one man I really want to meet.

I want to tell him in person how much he changed the game and just like Don Moen, he's blessed us with many amazing songs that would never cease to echo in the spirit!!

A worthy legend!!

I grew up very bodily insecure. If I had the chance back then, I would have changed a lot of things about me. The only thing I successfully changed was my diction. (LOL)

Yeeessss!

I'm from Akwa Ibom, I don't need to tell you more, at the time my diction was very bad🤣 but that's a story for another day, and thank God I was able to go that phonics route and trust me when I say I'm good now.

When I think about all those things now, I just shake my head and chuckle hard. The things I was insecure about were not even real issues. But at the time, they ate away at my self-esteem until all that was left was a hollow space.

One of those insecurities then was my shoulders. Yes, you read that right.🤣 My shoulder.

I have straight hanger shoulders that are beautifully angled at near 90°, with clavicles so prominent that if you pour water into them, it would stay. (LOL).

You know how suits are made with shoulder pads? I joke that I don’t need them because my shoulders are high enough to give any outfit definition.😂

But would you believe that as a teenager, I was so sad that my shoulders didn’t curve downward?🤣🤣🤣 To me, that was what made shoulders masculine. Especially after watching wrestlers with curved shoulders.

I loved (and still love) how sloped shoulders look in outfits that show them off. Meanwhile, I was busy resenting the ones God gave me for free.

Fast-forward a few years, as I got more invested in posture and body alignment, I discovered that the shoulders I had been sulking about were actually the goal of most posture correction exercises.

What then was I insecure about?🤦🏽‍♀️

And no, no one told me what was better or not. It was simply me just not being able to see what was good about me.

These days though, I have a habit of putting my thoughts under rigorous scrutiny, no matter how little.

I wrote this to tell you that most of the things you stress yourself about do not deserve the attention you are giving them. They are mostly in your head and should never impact your perception of the beautiful human that you are.❤️

About 16 years ago i was told by a man i respected so much, “Read books and cover your destiny. Wear clothes and cover your nakedness.

So in my early 20's, I would rather buy ten books than buy one new cloth for myself.
Any small money i had—books.
A lot of people who are around me know that I love looking sharp but still I focused on buying books at the time.
Even when I wanted a treat for myself—still books.

A covered body is good, but a covered mind is better.
I understood and still do, that a man whose destiny is equipped with knowledge can never be stranded.
And truly, those books shaped me more than any outfit could.

Today, I wear my clothes proudly
but I wear my knowledge even more boldly.

The pictures you see are different shades of my library.

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People are with b@d character, I mean b@d enough for everyone including clueless children to see and admit, yet they'll look for that one person who will accept their short coming to validate their weaknesses.

Please note that It is not a compliment when someone says you're the only person who understands them. You should be alarmed.

What is everyone seeing that you are missing? Why do they need so much understanding?

Also, if someone keeps saying how you're a good-hearted and understanding person, be worried. Most likely, they're surprised by how you tolerate their nonsense in the name of being patient and big-hearted.

If you find that you're constantly having to be the bigger person in your relationships, you should stop, I mean stop dating small people. Find people who match your maturity and challenge you to level up, rather than dragging you down to compromise and accommodate them.

Did we also mention that nobody falls in love faster than someone who needs somewhere to stay, someone to feed them and some financial rescuing?

Of course, they wouldn't mind some s*x on top or even a child to cement their place in your life. But you'll be the only person in love. As for them, they'll be in business. The business of survival.

That's why these types of people don't just become jealous; they become consumed by it. They become possessive and lethal. You're not just a lover to them. You're their job and their livelihood. How can they watch someone else come close to their means of survival?

In short, your good nature could become your downfall if you don't cultivate self-awareness to go with it. You'll be blindsided by a bad deal time and again.

Do you remember the Swahili saying that when the clueless get informed, the informed get into trouble? I dare you to get informed about yourself and how to protect your good heart. You'll see how many people will fall out of your life by themselves.

What shall it profit an instrumentalist not to wear choir uniform?