PAIN
BECOMING A BETTER PERSON IS HARD
Being gentle with yourself is part of growing. šāØ
Jsyk, you can start all over from scratch and still win. āØ
You only have yourself. So treat you well, love you. You're the only one who can come through for YOU. āØ
Anyone can want you but being valued is real. āØ
You are your own plant, water yourself and speak nicely to yourself and bloom. āØ
If someone doesnāt like you, no matter what you do or how well you treat them, they still wonāt like you.
So isnāt it better to just be your authentic self, instead of trying to please someone who will never truly see or care about you?
Rather than always texting, calling, and thinking about them, pour that energy into yourself.
Because when you constantly displease yourself just to please someone else, it shows you donāt love you enough.
Don't let pressure get to you. Everyone's journey and timing is different. Just because someone hits a milestone at a certain age doesn't mean you're behind. Trust God, stay consistent, and keep MOVING. The universe has not forgotten youāits only a matter of time. āØ
I now talk to myself to escape from reality. I do certain things to escape from reality. it's a problem now and it's hard to stop.
I know I'm not the only one who does this. š„²
You can't do life without God. š¤āØ
God listens to everything we say to Him. Every little thing!
I've been asking God to make me a better person, to give me peace, and to help me stay calm in chĆ os.
Today, my gĆ£s valve lost controlāit refused to turn off. I took it outside and asked my neighbor and his friend for help. One of them tried removing the head, and gĆ£s cylinder almost caught fir..e!
I asked my neighbors if they needed gaĆ£s to cook (people I donāt usually talk toālesson learned, it's good to relate with your neighbors o! Donāt be like me that just greets and pass). One said yes, so I told her to use the gĆ£s.
Then, I went to call the guy who fills my gĆ£s, and he helped me fix it. I went to buy a new valve, and Iām hearing 3K! šš¢I bought two because I no wan hear stories next time.
I went to fix it, but problem start! It didnāt work! I went back to my technician, and he said I got the big oneāI needed the small one. So, I had to return it. The weather was already showing signs of rain, but I trekked to the Market, got a new one, and finally fixed it.
Omooo, I bought Viju Milk for myself and malt for my technicianābecause we really tried today.
The best part? I didnāt cry. ššš
I didnāt call my parents or siblings (they traveled), and I handled it like a mature girl. I didnāt start wailing. I panicked a little because I didnāt want to bỄr.n someoneās building, but deep down, I kept talking to God. At one point, I said, āGod, this is a test.ā
I was calm in chƔos, because I know how I used to react to stuff.
But in all of this, Iām so grateful. š
God listens!! š
But why are you scared ??
Is He not the God that has brought you this far ??
Smile my love š it'll soon be over. āØš
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