Walking In The Mission

The March edition of First Born Connect marks the 8th month of this impactful and growing program, dedicated to nurturing and empowering each other as we pray and thrive together.

Eight months strong as we continue to build lives, inspire growth, and strengthen first borns in our community.

This February marks six months of this beautiful journey of connecting with our community of first born.

Using this sacred time to wait, pray and celebrate our unique position in our families .

This has helped us understand our leadership identity, addressing the pressure and emotional burden often placed on firstborns.

At the centre of this,has been God who place the call on us to gather and share our thoughts and experiences.

Giving Him all the glory for grafting us into His will.

If you are a first born and will like to connect send a message to our inbox.

Jesus is Lord.

First born connect first meeting of the year.
Pressure is a privilege and first-borns often feel it first.

Responsibility becomes a calling.
Pressure becomes preparation.

And through it, God shapes strength, patience, and leadership.

What feels heavy is often holy.
It’s not punishment its purpose.

Join us next month to wait on our maker and beak bread together .

God is still in the midst of his creation and still hears and answer’s prayers.

No one can keep himself, we are kept by the power of God.

Sometimes ago the Lord impressed on my heart to start a fellowship with first borns in my community .

This was started four months ago we keep growing stronger together every time we meet .

First Born Connect is a unique platform designed to support, encourage, and equip firstborns as they navigate the responsibilities of leadership, influence,family expectations and strengthening leaders from the frontline of their families.

Recognizing that firstborns often carry invisible weight serving as examples, defenders, decision-makers, and bridges within their families.

First Born Connect creates a safe community where we can grow, heal, and thrive.

This initiative celebrates the strength, resilience, and sacrificial spirit that firstborns embody, while also addressing the challenges that come with being the first line of responsibility.

Through conversations, mentorship, shared experiences, and capacity building sessions, prayers we can be accountable to each other, gain clarity through the word of God , emotional balance, and practical tools to lead well.

What First Born Connect Stands For
Identity & Purpose: Helping firstborns understand their unique wiring, leadership grace, and role in shaping generational values.

Emotional Strength: Providing support for the unspoken pressures that come with being the “example” and pillar in the home.

Growth & Mentorship: Creating spaces to learn, unlearn, grow, and connect with other firstborns who understand their journey.

Legacy Building: Inspiring firstborns to transform their natural leadership position into a purpose driven influence that positively impacts families, communities, and society.

Our Vision
To build a network of empowered firstborns who are emotionally strong, spiritually grounded, and mentally equipped to lead with compassion, wisdom, and excellence.

Our Commitment
First Born Connect is not just a gathering it is a movement.

A circle of strength.

A family of leaders who support one another, share lessons, celebrate victories, and challenge each other toward becoming the best version of themselves through the empowerment of The Holy Spirit.

Born of the spirit each one of us.

EL ROI
The God that sees us.

Never allow your soul or spirit lose it’s courage.
It takes courage to obey God’s call upon our lives.

Serve God by serving others in every situation wherever you may be.

Let us all start speaking faith over our lives no matter what we face.

Become confident in the arms of our savior.

Faith speaks.

Firstborns are statistically more likely to become leaders.
A large-scale study by the University of Leipzig (2015) found that firstborns are more likely to take on leadership and managerial positions.

They often develop stronger communication and responsibility skills because they’re used to guiding younger siblings, which builds natural confidence and initiative.

Firstborns tend to have slightly higher IQs than their siblings.
According to research published in the Journal of Human Resources (2007), firstborns typically score 2–3 points higher on IQ tests. This isn’t genetic.

It’s due to early parental focus and the learning boost they get by teaching younger siblings.

Our third first born connect held yesterday and it was nothing just of Holy Spirit filled moments.

Every first borns needs a quiet moment of prayer and waiting on The Lord.

We meet every 18th of every month.

Introducing our new project Firstborn Connect. Firstborns holds significant spiritual role and unique connection to God.

Understanding this connection involves recognizing the potential for both great strength and unique vulnerability within the family lineage.

In view of the above we believe first borns should not be alone when they need prayers, where to meet, connect and communicate shared values .

This isn’t just another meeting. It’s a space where we, as firstborns, can come together like family.

You know, being the firstborn comes with its own weight, expectations, responsibilities, and sometimes even silent battles.

But here, we’re not carrying those things alone. This is where we share, pray, laugh, and grow together.

The whole vision behind Firstborn Connect is simple: to remind us that we’re not just firstborns in our families but leaders in the making.

people God has trusted with influence.

As we connect here, we’ll find strength, encouragement, and wisdom to keep walking in that role with love and courage.

So let’s open our hearts, be real with one another, and enjoy the blessing of each meeting .

Nobody’s here by accident. You’re meant to be here, and you’ll leave stronger.

Our first and second meeting below in picture.

If you are first born and will like to connect/ join us???
We meet 18th of every month.

Inbox me your details if you need more details about this.

Firstborn’s makes miracles possible.

We are made for worship this is the reason for our existence .

Let your voice ring out daily in the court of heaven .

At the center of praises is our God.

At the center of prayers is you and me.

Here is the flow of my worship from a sincere and passionate heart Lord.