TIP ABOUT A Friend

A MUST READ FOR EVERY MEMBER HERE
WHO IS YOUR FRIEND? A friend is the second you, a light in a dark room, your stand when u find your spinal cord missing ETC
There are certain things people don't know about FRIENDSHIP and RELATIONSHIP so let's have a treat on them.
WHAT IS THE RIGHT SENSE DEFINITION OF FRIENDSHIP
Anyway it is a mutual affection between people or it is a bond between people who made similar destiny.
FRIENDSHIP EXIST IN VARIOUS STAGES WHICH...

CHILDHOOD FRIENDSHIP
Which is basically is sharing of toys and enjoyment received from performing activities together. we have

ADOLESCENT FRIENDSHIP
mostly in this stage friends often engage in problematic behavior such as stealing, fighting and truancy etc some friends also are engage in reading,avoiding strong drinks etc. Lastly we have

ADULTHOOD FRIENDSHIP
In adolescent friendship most if it lead to adulthood friendship new friends here are mostly found in life event such as changes in Marital status, changes in parenthood, residential moves and career change to name a few of life event can input the quality or quantity of friendship and it is due to this changes that adult find it that they have fewer friends than they have in younger years
THERE ARE THREE SIGNIFICANT FACTORS THAT MAKE THE FORMATION OF FRIENDSHIP POSSIBLE

1.PROXIMITY ~nearness of place or places to interact

2.REPEATEDLY ~ regular interaction between persons involved

3.BELIEVE~ a sitting that encourages people to let their guard down and confine in each other.

So what is the differences between FRIENDSHIP and RELATIONSHIP
let's come in friendship, describing this you have to have a picture in mind which is a childhood friendship they do everything in common play etc any friendship that has or had involved any form of s*xual activity have absolutely turn to a relationship in friendship one can tell his friend any thing without hiding a dim from them,his failures, his weakness etc but UNLIKE relationship research has proven that most relationship which partners know everything about their partner don't end well. "It strange but true "
We have types of friendship which we will give u soon

UP COMING... TYPES OF FRIENDSHIP which involved married to married friendship, single to single friendship and married to single friendship

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Its been I while here if you know you know a lot about friends here pls kindly own up so we can make this room more exciting

Action Plan: Make New Friends..
HOW TO CHOOSE FRIENDS

1. DO IT BLIND
Most of us have heard of the “blind date,” when we let a friend play matchmaker and set us up with someone we’ve never met before. If you’ve just moved to a new city, have a friend set you up on a totally platonic blind date with one of his or her friends who lives nearby. You’ll be less likely to call your friend angry if the potential match turns sour.
2. BE YOUR SELF
When you pursue hobbies and activities you enjoy, you have a good chance of meeting people with similar interests. So check out that local lecture on modern literature and sign up for sushi-making lessons. Each event is a chance to make a whole new room full of like-minded buddies.
3. GET UP CLOSE AND PERSONAL
When you’re just starting to get to know someone, foster intimacy by talking about something deeper than the sucky weather. Once you two have been talking for a while, try what researchers call the “ Fast Friends ” technique—basically each party gradually discloses something meaningful about him or herself. For example, each person could answer the question: “If you could wake up tomorrow having gained any one quality or ability, what would it be?”
4.BE PERSISTENT
While not everyone has the courage to actually do it, most of us know how to pursue a crush. Send flowers to their office. Invite them to a concert featuring a band you know they love. Ask them to check “yes” or “no” under the question “will you go out with me?” (Oh wait, are we not in third grade anymore?). Apply similar (but less romantic) tactics when pursuing a potential friend. For example, send the person an email asking them to lunch or a coffee date next week, and follow up afterward to say you had a good time.
5. SET A GOAL
It might sound superficial, but the next time you go to a party, tell yourself you want to leave with three new friends (or maybe even just one). That way, you’ll be more open to meeting people and starting in-depth conversations instead of just smiling at the person ahead of you in line for the bathroom.
6.SAY CHEESE
Seriously. We’re including smiling on this list because it’s a more powerful tactic for making connections than you might believe. For one thing, smiling takes us out of our own head and makes us think more about the image we’re projecting. Plus, people who smile (as opposed to folks with neutral faces) are perceived as more attractive, kinder, and happier, and therefore more approachable.
7.DON'T TAKE IT PERSONAL
We pretty much know what it means when a romantic partner tells us, “It’s not you, it’s me.” But when you invite a new pal to coffee or a movie and they turn you down, don’t freak out. Maybe they really are busy with work; maybe family relationships already take up too much time; maybe it actually isn’t you after all (and maybe you can schedule a rain check for next week).
8. THINK OUTSIDE THE BOX
It’s possible that, up until now, all your friends have been 20-something women who work in fashion. But why limit yourself to this particular crowd? You could just as easily hit it off with a 40-year-old who works in finance if you have enough in common. Be open to forming new relationships with coworkers, neighbors, and classmates, no matter who they appear to be

A guy dated a girl for 3yrs without s*x, even after their Traditional marriage the girl did not still allow the guy to touch her. So the wedding day was fixed but week before the wedding was the bachelors night . so all his friends were with their girl frnds and they were having Fun so he was very h***y but his fiancee turned him down again and begged him
to wait after their wedding, so he agreed. At last de D-DAY finally came as guy was waiting patiently for the wedding to be over at 6pm... The latest couple wer finally at hme relaxing, so the guy ask his wife to come to the bathroom with him but she said she can't cus of shyness, so the guy agreed so she went to take her bath first and after her bath she went to bed while her husband also went to take his, when he finished bathing he came out naked to meet his wife who was already asleep so he went to the bed and kissed her then she woke up and was panting when she saw her husband but he was
already romancing her and she started crying begging
him to wait till nightfall but he was too h***y so he managed to control himself. she asked him to wait 4 her get sam rest that when she wakes up she will do wateva he desires. Around 9pm
armed robbers attacked them, they were 5 in number and the five of them took turn in ra**ng his wife d first guy disvirgined her, he couldn't bear it, he cried as he watched those heartless men force themselves in his wife. they left her unconscious. she was rushed to d hospital and after treatment the doctor advised the husband not to have s*x with his wife until ten years cus if he try that the lady will lose her life ...if you were the guy, what will you do?
Please friends, Be sincere. ...
PLS MAKE SURE YOU PUT
URSELF IN THE GUYZ SHOES AND DROP UR COMMENTS

WHO IS A FRIEND
last time I explain who a friend is but I think I stop somewhere which was a question which is IF I CAN HAVE A FEMALE FRIEND WHILE AM A MALE
which was yes .........I have this friend of mine she is a famale we have been friends for 2yrs and I think we are just friends nothing more he showed his boyfriend years ago but his thought we had something in common with her i still know he think that till today, I play with her but I don't have emotional feelings for her,and I know she also feel the same way, we are not sister,she don't relate any way but we do everything in common ........this is how some friendship Should be not every woman or man in your life Should be your s*x mate, u can have a friend without any thought of taking them to bed some times those thought might come but u have to kibosh it know there are sometimes we don't allow our heart to control us but use our head for example THE HUMAN EYE ......they blink together,sleep together,shed tears together BUT they don't see each other that's the fact. friendship is the world best investment you can have. Invest in it BUT don't cheat in it be nuetral,it have help alot and it will will continue to help

that's only in friendship u must not make friends before u have seen them help u

WHO IS A FRIEND??
A friend is a person other than a family member,one whose company you enjoys or an associate who provides assistance. A person with whom one is vaguely or indirectly acquainted, A person who has a reason to stay even when others find reasons to go, a lift when you are down, a ladder to your destiny, your help when you are stranded,your shelter when you are homeless, your conforter when you are in pains, your guilde,your parents, your pastor ETC. I hope with all this you won't be confuse of who a friend is. But be frank there is this question still running in my mind which is "IS IT POSSIBLE TO HAVE A FEMALE FRIEND WHILE YOU ARE A MALE" ???
YES!! is a million possible .... but you know some people realily missed it here Especially in Nigeria when a male and a female is seen for a long time it is always concluded as he or her s*x partner ...YES we all know the gathering of a female and a male is not undisputed...to be CONTINUED

Am a lady of outstanding charater but with an uglies face .........

Am a lady with an abasador of beauty but has a disgusting character ............

Character is one of the foundation we as humans have to build we believe that there is no ugly human but it have taken us un aware that beauty and ugliness is chosen from our character for some ladies i might c u and u are so attractive i might determine to go for u there by judging by ur beauty (first test) so when i go for u i will first check ur character d way u talk to me Will determine your character that's is

beauty is not appearance but it lies in the inner mind wish s a good heart

bear love nd be free hatred brings boundage