Goodness Vision Initiative

The whole world is shouting and CAMPAINING against ABUSE AND VIOLENCE AGAINST WOMEN.
What about the men?
Yes I am a woman and I equally advocate for the women to be respected and given their right. I believe a woman should be treated like a QUEEN she is. But the big question is "AND THE MAN?".
Some men are not really violent.some domestic violence against the WOMAN usually comes when the man exhaust his ENDURANCE LIMIT.
Some women can spew terrible things. Some can go as far as Daring the man.
A WOMAN at home that practically does nothing others than watch film and press phone will come out and be shouting my husband does not respect me when she does not cook, wash or clean the house.
No kids yet to Carter for, no career taking her time yet a man will come back home from tiring work and won't get to eat anything at home. The wife obviously didn't go to market and cook.
The man with food flask in his hands hits the street by 8pm to look for what to eat.
This man is decent and religious so divorce is not in his mind.
This happens almost on daily basis.
So who is abusing or disrespecting who?
Who really need help here.
THE MEN MOST TIMES DIE IN SILENCE.
No wonder there are many widows than widowers.
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Leaving a marriage can be a difficult and personal decision.
If leaving the marriage becomes very necessary for your mental health,
Here are some advice I can offer:

- Take your time: Make sure you've thought through your decision carefully.
- Identify your reasons: Reflect on why you want to leave. Is it due to safety concerns, lack of communication, or unmet needs?
- Communicate openly: Try to discuss your concerns with your partner before making a decision.
- Seek support: Talk to trusted friends, family, or a therapist for guidance.
- Consider counseling: Marriage counseling can help address issues and strengthen your relationship.
- Prioritize self-care: Take care of your physical, emotional, and mental well-being.
- Explore your options: Weigh the pros and cons of leaving versus staying.
- Trust yourself: Make the decision that feels right for you.

Grace that breaks protocols is all I pray for.

All hope is not lost.
Hang in there.
Joy is coming.

The program " building up the girl child was a huge success

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Kindness is a powerful tool. A lot of people are going through depression right now so try as much as u can to be kind both in words and actions