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High-Stakes Conversations

Text: Acts 6:1 – 7 New International Version

1 In those days when the number of disciples was increasing, the Hellenistic Jews among them complained against the Hebraic Jews because their widows were being overlooked in the daily distribution of food. 2 So the Twelve gathered all the disciples together and said, “It would not be right for us to neglect the ministry of the word of God in order to wait on tables. 3 Brothers and sisters, choose seven men from among you who are known to be full of the Spirit and wisdom. We will turn this responsibility over to them 4 and will give our attention to prayer and the ministry of the word.” 5 This proposal pleased the whole group. They chose Stephen, a man full of faith and of the Holy Spirit; also Philip, Procorus, Nicanor, Timon, Parmenas, and Nicolas from Antioch, a convert to Judaism. 6 They presented these men to the apostles, who prayed and laid their hands on them. 7 So the word of God spread. The number of disciples in Jerusalem increased rapidly, and a large number of priests became obedient to the faith.

Effective leaders don’t focus on being right or protecting a position. They shift from “me” to “we,” build trust through the questions they ask, and use a simple structure to guide the conversation. Tony Gambill has developed a simple, four-step framework to drive clarity, alignment, and action, called the ACES model for high-stakes conversations.

Navigating high-stakes conversations well requires a leader to follow four key principles:
1. Align – define the real priority (v. 4).
2. Context – build understanding and awareness (v. 2).
3. Explore – examine options and co-create solutions (v. 5).
4. Shared action – agree on action and own the outcomes (v. 3).

https://youtu.be/sGoYUs1azHI

Bibliography
Gambill, Tony. “The ACES Model of High-Stakes Conversations.” LinkedIn.com. https://www.linkedin.com/posts/tony-gambill-0227767_high-stakes-conversations-dont-fail-because-share-7455586762518683648-hjet?utm_source=share&utm_medium=member_android&rcm=ACoAAATfjLEBqeSbFaQKM1M5r5gN0HOeM-XYJOA (accessed May 22, 2026).

3 Keys to Transparent Change

Text: Acts 6:1 – 7 New International Version

1 In those days when the number of disciples was increasing, the Hellenistic Jews among them complained against the Hebraic Jews because their widows were being overlooked in the daily distribution of food. 2 So the Twelve gathered all the disciples together and said, “It would not be right for us to neglect the ministry of the word of God in order to wait on tables. 3 Brothers and sisters, choose seven men from among you who are known to be full of the Spirit and wisdom. We will turn this responsibility over to them 4 and will give our attention to prayer and the ministry of the word.” 5 This proposal pleased the whole group. They chose Stephen, a man full of faith and of the Holy Spirit; also Philip, Procorus, Nicanor, Timon, Parmenas, and Nicolas from Antioch, a convert to Judaism. 6 They presented these men to the apostles, who prayed and laid their hands on them. 7 So the word of God spread. The number of disciples in Jerusalem increased rapidly, and a large number of priests became obedient to the faith.

Leading change openly calls for a people-first approach—one that favors transparency, active communication, and empathy over rigid, top-down directives. It involves three things:
1. Honesty – explain the "why" behind changes simply and directly (v. 2).
2. Clarity – share clear steps to reduce confusion and align the team (vv. 3 - 4).
3. Consistency – regular updates build trust and keep everyone aligned (v. 7).

Bibliography
Mecham, Justin. “Leading Change Openly.” LinkedIn.com. https://www.linkedin.com/posts/justinmecham_your-team-doesnt-fear-change-they-fear-activity-7280938474029887488-341T?utm_source=share&utm_medium=member_android (accessed April 23, 2026).

How to Find Your Sweet Spot

Text: Matthew 9:35 – 38 New International Version

35 Jesus went through all the towns and villages, teaching in their synagogues, proclaiming the good news of the kingdom and healing every disease and sickness. 36 When he saw the crowds, he had compassion on them, because they were harassed and helpless, like sheep without a shepherd. 37 Then he said to his disciples, “The harvest is plentiful but the workers are few. 38 Ask the Lord of the harvest, therefore, to send out workers into his harvest field.”

The Potential-Problem-Passion trifecta is useful for identifying your competitive advantage, niche, or God-given sweet spot. This trifecta is synonymous with your G.O.D trifecta, i.e., Gift, Opportunity, and Desire. To know your sweet spot, you must identify your:

1. Gift (skill/potential) – what are you good at? What ability can you serve people with? For example, Jesus Christ healed every disease and sickness – healing (v. 35).

2. Opportunity (problem) – what does the world need? What value are you able to add to people? For example, Jesus Christ provided compassion to the fainthearted (KJV) and helpless (NIV) – compassion (v. 36).

3. Desire (passion) – what do you love? What noble cause is dear to you? For example, Jesus Christ desired workers who were “spiritual shepherds” from God – workers (v. 38).

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Four Pillars of Conflict Resolution

Text: Acts 6:1 – 7 New International Version

1 In those days when the number of disciples was increasing, the Hellenistic Jews among them complained against the Hebraic Jews because their widows were being overlooked in the daily distribution of food. 2 So the Twelve gathered all the disciples together and said, “It would not be right for us to neglect the ministry of the word of God in order to wait on tables. 3 Brothers and sisters, choose seven men from among you who are known to be full of the Spirit and wisdom. We will turn this responsibility over to them 4 and will give our attention to prayer and the ministry of the word.” 5 This proposal pleased the whole group. They chose Stephen, a man full of faith and of the Holy Spirit; also Philip, Procorus, Nicanor, Timon, Parmenas, and Nicolas from Antioch, a convert to Judaism. 6 They presented these men to the apostles, who prayed and laid their hands on them. 7 So the word of God spread. The number of disciples in Jerusalem increased rapidly, and a large number of priests became obedient to the faith.

The Harvard Principal Negotiation Method provides us with four principles that can help us resolve conflicts:
1. Separate people from the problem – focus on the issue, not the individual (v. 2).
2. Focus on interests – uncover underlying needs rather than rigid demands (v. 4).
3. Generate options (v. 3) – brainstorm multiple solutions for mutual gain.
4. Use objective criteria – base decisions on facts and standards, not opinions (v. 5).

https://youtu.be/r-OAqo-wips

Bibliography
Partaker, Eric. “Negotiate Like a CEO.” LinkedIn.com. https://www.linkedin.com/posts/ericpartaker_i-used-to-dread-negotiations-early-in-my-share-7423965184928509952-pmNV?utm_source=share&utm_medium=member_android&rcm=ACoAAATfjLEBqeSbFaQKM1M5r5gN0HOeM-XYJOA (accessed February 13, 2026).