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A read a post from a woman who was advising other women not to agree on getting pregnant before marriage to prove they are fertile as this is one of the reasons most women become single mothers.
Most men have refused marrying single mothers who they know are already fertile but would want to put another woman in the family way first before considering marriage
She adviced for a refundable caution fee of 2,000,000( Two Million Naira) to be paid first and returned after becoming pregnant only when the marriage rite has been completed or they should both go for a fertility test sponsored by the man and proceed to get married if both are fertile
Now my take on this is ;
📌If the man agrees to pay the supposed caution fee and later refuses to get married even when she has gotten pregnant that money is too small to cover up for damages
📌If also he agrees to pay and within 3 months she is not pregnant she would still have to refund the supposed caution fee and still go to a fertility clinic to check if they are both fertile and know where the fault is coming from
So my advice is this;
📌I know saying that alone would scare most of them with those intentions but Do not demand for any caution fee before getting pregnant rather insist that both of you get checked if fertile first and that’s enough to proceed to marriage as the caution fee do not worth it.
📌Then again kudos to the men who take up responsibility immediately they found out thier partner is pregnant and rush to perform the necessity rite but having a man intentionally want to put you in the family way or giving you such conditions first before marriage you need to run
📌And for those that mocked on the post saying that later on the women who demanded money would soon start begging to be pregnant when they become older. If she wants she can opt for a s***m donor when financially ready instead of most times suffering alone to raise the child and have the man claim be the father when the child is much older
📌Note this; Apart from fertility test there are other necessary medical tests which are needed before embarking on marriage;
✅HIV test
✅Hepatitis test
✅Genotype and Blood grouping

Please even if you still insist on demanding for cation fee which I don’t advice check your genotype compatibility so you don’t ignorantly birth a child that would have to grow up in pain

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