RelationSh*t

It took me so long to learn how to unlove people who hurt me instead of giving me the love I deserve.
It took me so many sleepless nights to teach myself that some people don’t deserve me.
It took me many years to forgive myself for all the self hatred, for doubting myself when I wanted to take a step further, for trying to fix others when my heart was shaky and my voice was gone.

I was so busy trying to understand others while ignoring how deep the pain was in my heart that I started becoming numb to how others treated me.

So when you try to love me, I don’t want you to love me on days that I am happy and my eyes are brimming with hope, I don’t want to be loved when I am singing with love, when my voice is filled with life.

I want you to accept my saddest smiles, my emptiness, my cold stares and my sad songs. I need you to know that it took me so much to accept myself, it took me a lot to understand who I am, it took me days to own my dreams and stand for myself.

So when you try to shake my beliefs, know that I am unshakable, know that I am not ready to be half loved, know that I am worthy of love even when you can’t give me the world.

If he’s the one, the way that he will look at you will be deeper than any man before him. He will care for you as he cares for himself. If he’s the one, he will understand the pain you’ve gone through, but will refuse to make you repeat it.
He’ll be there to love you through your bad days. He will understand that one of a kind woman, like yourself, is priceless, and that your heart can’t be bought, but it can be earned.

Having a caring woman is thousands times better than a beautiful one.

Sometimes love is hidden in the little things..
Drive safely.
Are you home?
Let’s go for a walk.
My day is busy, but I miss you.
How was your day?
You look beautiful today.
We can fix this.
I can’t lose you
I will always have your back
You are not alone in this, I’m here with you.
I trust you.
I believe in you.
No matter what, I will always stay.
I will never get bored of reminding you of my love.

Love was never about saying the word “I love you”, It’s more than that.. Love is always shown in the little things.

And when love finds me again,

I hope it’s someone who won’t let me go through the same pain I’ve already survived. I hope it’s someone who knows how to hold me on my bad days, who listens even when I don’t have the right words, and who reminds me that I’m worth staying for.

I hope it’s someone who never makes me doubt my place in their life, someone who chooses me every single day without hesitation. I want love that feels safe, love that doesn’t make me compete for attention.

I hope it’s someone who sees my flaws and still believes I’m worthy, someone who doesn’t walk away when things get heavy. Because this time, I don’t want love that breaks me, I want love that heals.

Sometimes I look at you and just feel grateful in a way I can’t even put into words.

You make my days calmer, my nights easier, and my heart softer. There’s a comfort in you that I’ve never found anywhere else, a feeling that everything is okay simply because you’re here. You’re the person who makes me laugh when I’m overwhelmed, the person who steadies me when life feels heavy, the person who turns ordinary moments into memories I never want to forget.

I don’t say it nearly enough, but I love you, and I love the life we’ve built side by side. My world is better with you in it, every single day.

Come find me when you’re ready to dive deeper into love. Come find me when you’re done with all your games. Come find me when your need for love is greater than your need for attention.

Come find me when you want to have something real.
Come find me when you’re looking for quality over quantity. Come find me when you’re done chasing temporary things. Come find me when you’re not afraid to be vulnerable.

Here’s a hard truth:
You can’t make someone love you.
You can’t whisper your worth into their heart, or weave yourself into the fabric of their soul.
Love isn’t earned through effort or persistence, it’s given freely, or not at all.

So don’t shrink yourself trying to fit into their world.
Don’t chase a love that runs.
The one meant for you will see you, choose you, and love you without question, without condition.

Disconnecting from others to reconnect with yourself until you feel like you again is top-tier self care.

Sometimes you gotta make a decision that breaks your heart but gives you peace.

Sometimes you’ll meet someone who appears to have everything you want, but they just don’t have what it takes to make a relationship work.

They’re ready for a connection, but they’re not ready to build a relationship. They’re ready to feel love, but they’re not ready to give love. This is when you have to release your attachment to the dream and move on.