Perceptions counselling

Grief is something you DO NOT understand..Until you live it. If you are in pain..find someone who has walked the road you are on. Anything less , will make it hurt more. 🤍

Thought to ponder for today..... Our language. The language we use to describe the way people treat us. Using phrases like...Oh my mother can't help the way she gets angry..or my husband is just unable to control his anger because he grew u p that way...or this person just doesn't know how to be any different..etc.. That is YOU , choosing to believe that they are just dumb , instead of cruel. That they are just magically unable to treat you right, or see their behaviour. They DO know, but it is easier for you to pretend that they are unable or don't know how etc..than to accept the fact that they just mean and cruel, and they just don't care. I know it hurts..but give it some thought.

People who need therapy don't come to us...their victims do. Think about that.

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Choosing the wrong partner..that seemed like the right partner..but then was the unavailable, hurtful, toxic partner is not a coincidence. Childhood Trauma can shape how we choose and love, and who we are drawn to. If you grew up feeling unloved or unseen, your nervous system..your reality , what you see as normal, can shape the abuse you endure and create the feeling that it is your own fault you are suffering. You can tolerate way too much , to avoid abandonment. If this sounds like you ..message me for a session to talk. Deb

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One of the hardest things you will ever do is heal alone, and what I mean by healing alone is not using other people to create temporary lack of pain ...not dating because you know you are not ready...not filling your schedule to distract yourself from sitting alone in your grief to think about it....but if you do heal alone..and let yourself sit in the suffering until you heal..You will heal from the inside out..and you will be ok. Be brave my darlings..one more time...just one more time.. You are worth it.

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