FearIsNotLove

Huge thank you to the Calgary Real Estate Board (CREBNow) for supporting FearIsNotLove through the CREB® REALTOR® Community Foundation Transformation Grant! 💕

We are incredibly grateful to have received this grant, which is helping us transform the outdoor space at the Calgary Women’s Emergency Shelter into an Outdoor Oasis.

This project directly supports the women and children staying at our Emergency Shelter, where access to outdoor spaces can be limited. The Outdoor Oasis will provide a safe place to enjoy fresh air, spend time together, play, and relax while remaining within the privacy and security of the Shelter.

Your generosity and kindness will help families find comfort and hope when they need it most. THANK YOU for making this meaningful project possible! 💜

💌 Learn more at FearIsNotLove.ca

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Last week, Bailey’s Law (Bill C-225) received Royal Assent, marking an important step forward in Canada’s response to intimate partner violence.

The legislation introduces several changes to the Criminal Code, including the creation of a distinct offence for intimate partner violence, helping these incidents be tracked separately from general assaults, improving visibility, accountability, and our understanding of the scope of this critical public safety issue.

Bailey’s Law honours the experiences of those impacted by intimate partner violence and the families who have shared their stories to help raise awareness and create safety for others.

At FearIsNotLove, we believe everyone has the right to feel safe, respected, supported, and loved. While there is still work to do, this legislation reflects an increasing recognition of the harmful and lasting impacts of intimate partner violence, coercive control, and repeat offender risk.

Together, we can build safer communities for everyone. Meaningful change happens when prevention, support, accountability, and awareness work together.

Read more at: parl.ca/legisinfo/en/bill/45-1/c-225

⛳️ We’re excited to be one of the charities of choice for the Rogers Birdies for Kids campaign! 🏌🏼‍♀️🏌🏽

Every birdie builds a brighter future — and you can help make it happen.

Rogers Birdies for Kids presented by AltaLink runs now until August 31, 2026 💛

When you donate through Rogers Birdies for Kids, FearIsNotLove receives 100% of your donation, with contributions matched by up to 50%. Your support helps fund programs and services for children and youth impacted by domestic violence and abuse 💜

Support the Rogers Charity Classic and make a difference today.

💌 Donate here: rogerscharityclassic.com/charities/fear-is-not-love/

It’s not easy asking for help.
But finding it should be.

Men & Men & (a partnership with Forge Social Health Men & and FearIsNotLove) connects men with free tools, resources, and support for mental and social health, helping build healthier relationships, manage difficult emotions, and navigate life’s challenges.

Connect with organizations, tools and people who will meet you where you’re at with compassion and dignity.

Every human has the right to feel safe, respected, supported, and loved 💜

📞 Call 1 (833) 327-MENS (6367) 24 hours a day, 7 days a week for support from one of our skilled and trained counsellors.

🌐 Learn more at menand.ca

Think you may be hurting someone you love and want to change?

It can be painful to recognize that people you care about may be afraid of you. But that realization can also be one of the most powerful motivations for change. Taking responsibility for harmful behaviour takes courage.

At FearIsNotLove, we believe abuse is a choice. Accountability is the foundation for building safer, healthier, and more respectful relationships. Recognizing harmful behaviour is the first step toward changing it.

“I didn’t like what I was becoming. I don’t like being so angry, so upset— when I see the fear in my daughter’s eyes and my partner’s. And I have a rage in my face and it scared them. And lately, when I see that rage in me, it scares me now. I don’t want that.”

We believe anyone can choose to change and create safer, more respectful relationships with the people they care about.

We can help.

☎️ Connect Domestic Violence & Abuse Helpline: (403) 234-SAFE (7233)
📧 Email: [email protected]
📞 Men’s Resource Line: 1 (833) 327-MENS (6367)
📱 Online Chat: Available MON – FRI @ 8:00AM – 10:00PM (MST) on FearIsNotLove.ca
🚨 If you are in danger and in need of immediate assistance, please call 911

🌐 Learn more: FearIsNotLove.ca/am-i-abusive/
🌐 Visit: menand.ca/blog/men-relationships/am-i-abusive/

Today is National Indigenous Peoples Day.

This day recognizes and honours the history, heritage, resilience, and diversity of First Nations, Inuit, and Métis Peoples across Canada. It is a time to reflect on the strength of Indigenous cultures, traditions, and the many contributions Indigenous Peoples continue to make in communities across the country.

FearIsNotLove remains committed to the ongoing path of reconciliation with Indigenous communities through continued learning, reflection, and building relationships grounded in respect and accountability 💜

Happy Father’s Day to all the fatherly figures in our lives! 💙 👔

Today is an opportunity to honour dads, paternal parents, grandfathers, and caregivers who play an important role in the lives of children and families.

Positive role models help shape communities where children feel supported, respected, and safe. Fatherly figures contribute in many ways to nurturing healthy relationships and creating spaces where children and families can thrive 💜

Every human has the right to feel safe, respected, supported and loved 💜

FearIsNotLove works to create safety and healing for those impacted by abuse through a wide range of compassionate and accessible services. Grounded in the belief that love should never hurt, we aim to build awareness, provide support, and drive change in how communities understand and respond to domestic violence.

Fear Is Not Love — Fear has no place in healthy relationships.

We are here for anyone experiencing domestic violence and abuse, no matter who you are, how you identify, or who you love.

We’re here to help 💜

💌 If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic violence, or is using abuse and wants to change, please contact our free 24-hour Connect Domestic Violence & Abuse Helpline.

📞 Call: (403) 234-SAFE (7233)
📧 Email: [email protected]
📱Online Chat: Available MON – FRI @ 8:00AM – 10:00PM (MST) on FearIsNotLove.ca
☎️ If you are in danger, please call 911
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MYTH: Domestic violence only happens in certain communities or income levels.

TRUTH: Domestic violence can happen anywhere, across all ages, genders, cultures, and socioeconomic backgrounds.

It is often hidden behind appearances: a stable home, professional success, or a carefully curated public image.

Assumptions about what abuse “looks like” can make it harder to recognize when someone is experiencing it.

Domestic violence and abuse is everywhere. And recognizing it, is an important first step toward creating safer relationships and communities.

💌 If you have questions or need support, we’re here for you.

💜 Connect Domestic Violence & Abuse Helpline:
☎️ Call: (403) 234-SAFE (7233)
📞 Toll-free: 1 (866) 606-SAFE (7233)
📧 Email: [email protected]
📱 Online Chat: Available MON – FRI @ 8:00AM – 10:00PM (MST) on FearIsNotLove.ca
🚨 If you are in danger and in need of immediate assistance, please call 911

We believe that abuse is a choice and that anyone can choose to change their behaviour and actions 💜

The Men’s Counselling Service supports adults interested in creating or enhancing safety in their close relationships regardless of their gender or how they identify. We support anyone who is concerned their behaviours are hurting those they love and want to work toward personal change.

Involving everyone in addressing domestic violence & abuse is critical to keeping everyone in our community safe and healthy 💬

📞 If you or someone you know is concerned about how your behaviour is negatively impacting your loved ones and are looking to change, contact our Men’s Resource Line: 1 (833) 327-MENS (6367)

💌 If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic violence or abuse, contact our 24 hr Connect Domestic Violence & Abuse Helpline at (403) 234-SAFE (7233) or email [email protected]

☎️ If you are in danger, please call 911