ChitBrandz

Psychology of life

You feel pain because someone stopped talking to you. They used to call, they used to laugh with you, and now there is silence. They are present in the world but absent in yours. They walk by without looking at you. Your messages go unread. Your efforts go unnoticed. And you feel that sharp sting that we have all felt at some point: rejection. But tell me, is it their silence that really hurts you or is it the story you tell yourself about the meaning of their silence? So understand this. The human mind is a master storyteller and when someone is silent, it not only leaves space, it fills that space with assumptions. You say, “They are ignoring me because I am not good enough or maybe they found someone better than me or they are punishing me for something I may have done.” But maybe this, maybe that, but none of this is true. Because maybe they are just going through something that has nothing to do with you. Maybe their silence does not mean rejection. Maybe it is about exhaustion, distraction, confusion or maybe it is just the silence. The problem It's not their absence that is the problem, it's that you personalize their absence. This tendency to take everything that happens outside you and turn it into something personal is the root of so much suffering in life. You walk into a room and no one smiles at you, and immediately your mind starts to bother you. You say, "They don't like me. I must have done something wrong." You see someone enjoying themselves without you, and you say ,"they replaced me, I can't do anything anymore" " But how do you know this? Did they tell you this? No, but the mind doesn't need facts; it thrives on imagination. So, to live joyful, you have to get rid of this compulsive need that makes you want to be the center of attention. Because not everything people do is about you. In fact, very few of them are. Most people are so preoccupied with their own problems that they don't think about deliberately rejecting you.

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What sets u from others?
What have u done that others would be attracted?
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