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BE A MAN, BE A MAN, YOU SEE HOW LACK OF COMMUNICATION HAS LANDED HIM

THIS IS A RARE RESPONSE TO FROM MEN
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A m͎a͎n͎ f͎o͎u͎n͎d͎ h͎i͎s͎ w͎i͎f͎e͎ w͎i͎t͎h͎ a͎n͎o͎t͎h͎e͎r͎ m͎a͎n͎ i͎n͎ h͎i͎s͎ b͎e͎d͎r͎o͎o͎m͎. I͎n͎s͎t͎e͎a͎d͎ o͎f͎ a͎t͎t͎a͎c͎k͎i͎n͎g͎ t͎h͎e͎ m͎a͎n͎ o͎r͎ r͎a͎i͎s͎i͎n͎g͎ a͎n͎ a͎l͎a͎r͎m͎, h͎e͎ j͎u͎s͎t͎ k͎e͎p͎t͎ q͎u͎i͎e͎t͎, w͎e͎n͎t͎ b͎a͎c͎k͎ t͎o͎ t͎h͎e͎ s͎i͎t͎t͎i͎n͎g͎ room and sat w͎a͎t͎c͎h͎i͎n͎g͎ s͎o͎m͎e͎ g͎o͎s͎p͎e͎l͎ v͎i͎d͎e͎o͎s͎.

T͎h͎e͎ w͎i͎f͎e͎ a͎n͎d͎ t͎h͎e͎ m͎a͎n͎ w͎e͎r͎e͎ i͎n͎ p͎a͎n͎i͎c͎.

T͎h͎e͎ m͎a͎n͎ d͎r͎e͎s͎s͎e͎d͎ u͎p͎ a͎n͎d͎ c͎a͎m͎e͎ b͎y͎ t͎h͎e͎ s͎i͎t͎t͎i͎n͎g͎ r͎o͎o͎m͎, t͎h͎e͎n͎ s͎a͎i͎d͎ "S͎i͎r͎, l͎'m͎ s͎o͎r͎r͎y͎ f͎o͎r͎ s͎l͎e͎e͎p͎i͎n͎g͎ w͎i͎t͎h͎ y͎o͎u͎r͎ w͎i͎f͎e͎"
H͎u͎s͎b͎a͎n͎d͎ r͎e͎p͎l͎i͎e͎d͎ "I͎t͎ h͎a͎p͎p͎e͎n͎s͎, y͎o͎u͎ c͎a͎n͎ g͎o͎". T͎h͎e͎ m͎a͎n͎ l͎e͎f͎t͎ s͎h͎i͎v͎e͎r͎i͎n͎g͎.

T͎h͎e͎ w͎i͎f͎e͎ n͎e͎v͎e͎r͎ c͎a͎m͎e͎ o͎u͎t͎ f͎r͎o͎m͎ t͎h͎e͎ b͎e͎d͎r͎o͎o͎m͎ t͎i͎l͎l͎ i͎t͎ w͎a͎s͎ t͎i͎m͎e͎ t͎o͎ s͎l͎e͎e͎p͎.

T͎h͎e͎ h͎u͎s͎b͎a͎n͎d͎ s͎w͎i͎t͎c͎h͎e͎d͎ o͎f͎f͎ t͎h͎e͎ T͎V͎ a͎n͎d͎ w͎e͎n͎t͎ t͎o͎ s͎l͎e͎e͎p͎ o͎n͎ s͎a͎m͎e͎ b͎e͎d͎ t͎h͎e͎ a͎c͎t͎i͎o͎n͎ t͎o͎o͎k͎ p͎l͎a͎c͎e͎.

H͎e͎ f͎o͎u͎n͎d͎ h͎i͎s͎ w͎i͎f͎e͎ s͎i͎t͎t͎i͎n͎g͎ o͎n͎ t͎h͎e͎ f͎l͎o͎o͎r͎ c͎r͎y͎i͎n͎g͎. T͎h͎e͎ h͎u͎s͎b͎a͎n͎d͎ n͎e͎v͎e͎r͎ s͎a͎i͎d͎ a͎n͎y͎t͎h͎i͎n͎g͎ o͎r͎ e͎v͎e͎n͎ a͎s͎k͎e͎d͎ h͎e͎r͎ a͎n͎y͎t͎h͎i͎n͎g͎. H͎e͎ j͎u͎s͎t͎ s͎l͎e͎p͎t͎ o͎n͎ h͎i͎s͎ b͎e͎d͎ a͎n͎d͎ c͎o͎v͎e͎r͎e͎d͎ h͎i͎m͎s͎e͎l͎f͎.

I͎n͎ t͎h͎e͎ m͎o͎r͎n͎i͎n͎g͎ o͎n͎ w͎a͎k͎i͎n͎g͎ u͎p͎, h͎e͎ f͎o͎u͎n͎d͎ h͎i͎s͎ w͎i͎f͎e͎ d͎e͎a͎d͎. S͎h͎e͎ h͎a͎d͎ c͎o͎m͎m͎i͎t͎t͎e͎d͎ s͎u͎i͎c͎i͎d͎e͎ i͎n͎ t͎h͎e͎ m͎i͎d͎d͎l͎e͎ o͎f͎ t͎h͎e͎ n͎i͎g͎h͎t͎ a͎s͎ h͎e͎r͎ h͎u͎s͎b͎a͎n͎d͎ w͎a͎s͎ a͎s͎l͎e͎e͎p͎. T͎h͎e͎ h͎u͎s͎b͎a͎n͎d͎ w͎a͎s͎ c͎o͎n͎s͎e͎q͎u͎e͎n͎t͎l͎y͎ a͎r͎r͎e͎s͎t͎e͎d͎ a͎n͎d͎ j͎a͎i͎l͎e͎d͎ f͎o͎r͎ 20 y͎e͎a͎r͎s͎ f͎o͎r͎ m͎u͎r͎d͎e͎r͎.

Why did you think she took that step?

Q͎U͎E͎S͎T͎I͎O͎N͎: W͎h͎o͎ w͎a͎s͎ n͎o͎t͎ f͎a͎i͎r͎⁉️❓

1.T͎h͎e͎ h͎u͎s͎b͎a͎n͎d͎
2.T͎h͎e͎ w͎i͎f͎e͎ o͎r͎
3.T͎h͎e͎ l͎a͎w͎?

What did you learn from previous relationships?

1. Never leave or stay distant from your friends and family after getting into a relationship.

2. Always have boundaries.

3. Never let the third person solve the queries of you two. That third person can destroy your relationship.

4. Never get too involved in a relationship too quickly. Take your time and gradually build the bond stronger.

5. You can live without them.

6. Once the emotional attachment is gone, you’ll no longer find that person attractive.

7. Breakups are not always bad.

8. There’s nothing called “ending on a good note”. That only looks good in movies and dramas.

9. Never force them to stay with you.

10. Stick to your purpose. People come and go.

11. Don’t put all your efforts, time, and energy into a relationship too early.

12. They are not unique.

13. Everyone has flaws.

14. Never come into a relationship with someone who hasn’t completely moved on from their ex.

15. Always try to be open about the things that hurt you. Don’t hide things just for the sake of escaping from a fight.

16. Treat her like your Queen, not the Queen of the world.

17. Be with someone who is courageous enough to fight for this love and ready to protect this relationship instead of being with a weak man/woman who gets demotivated seeing the obstacles ahead.

I'm kneeling down🧎‍♂️while making this prayers for u that what ever that is not going right in ur life will go right from today.

Good morning Christian singles hope you all good wish you a happy Friday may God bless you all, please if you are new here post your full picture and introduce yourself so that you can link up with your soul mate in the group thanks admin.

50 FACTS ABOUT YOUR HUSBAND YOU SHOULD KNOW.

1. Your hubby is not perfect, accept him.

2. Your hubby is the bone of your bone, don't reject him.

3. Your hubby is a special gift from God, appreciate him.

4. Your hubby is not your mate, respect him.

5. Your hubby made you a wife, don't make him regret his choice of you.

6. Your hubby is your backbone, nourish him.

7. Your hubby still loves his Mummy , take note.

8. Your hubby is s*xually active, don't deny him s*x.

9. Your hubby loves good food, give it to him.

10. Your hubby need your encouragement, don't be judgemental.

11. Your hubby is not your enemy, believe him.

12. Your hubby is a friend, hug him.

13. Your hubby love peaceful atmosphere, create it.

14. Your hubby is a male gender, allow him some ego.

15. Your hubby is your hero , celebrate him.

16. Your hubby is your head, don't over burden him .

17. Your hubby wants to satisfy you, help him to reach the goal.

18. Your hubby is your king, adore him.

19. Your hubby is not a machine, give him a break.

20. Your hubby is trying his best , don’t compare him with his friends.

21. Your hubby is not a dustbin, don't pour all your worries on him.

22. Your hubby is not a ra**st , sometimes seduce him.

23. Your hubby is not ATM machine, sometimes he may not have money.

24. Your hubby is all you have, keep him safe.

25. Your hubby is your validation , be proud of him.

26. Your hubby is your greatest asset, don't devalue him.

27. Your hubby is the husband of your youth, stick to him.

28. Your hubby needs your honor, never embarrass him in the public.

29. Your hubby is not a politician, trust him.

30. Your hubby is a distinct personality, never compare him to anyone.

31. Your hubby is faithful , don’t be suspicious of him.

32. Your hubby is not your boss , be free with him.

33. Your hubby can make mistakes, don't capitalize on it.

34. Your hubby sometimes need a space, don't feel he no longer loves you.

35. Your hubby is a good man, don't abuse or take him for granted.

36. Your hubby trust you, don't lie to him.

37. Your hubby wants freedom, don't cage him.

38. Your hubby can be easily provoked, don't provoke him easily.

39. Your hubby may not meet all your needs, however, never report him to your family people.

40. Your hubby is prone to temptation, guard him.

41. Your hubby is not a fool, do not under - rate him.

42. Your hubby is your responsibility, make sure he looks presentable.

43. Your hubby is your first baby, breastfeed him always.

44. Your hubby is number one in your life, priorities him

45. Your hubby is your treasure, centre your heart on him.

46. Your hubby needs your help, your are his help meet.

47. Your hubby need your full attention, drop your phone whenever you are together.

48. Your hubby is your lord, summit to his authority.

49. Your hubby is your first pastor, take counsel from him.

50. You will account to God about your husband , how you handle him and how you supported him. God bless you all humble and supportive wives !

HOW TO BE ALWAYS HAPPY IN LIFE. READ THESE AWESOME LIFE TIPS.
1. Always remember that there is nobody on this earth that does not have problems. You are not the only one that has problems.
2. Challenges are part of life. It is only a dead man who has no challenges.
3. no problem has no solution. There are solutions to the pains you are going through.
4. The way you picture yourself in your mind can affect your happiness. Picture yourself as a valuable and beautiful person. Avoid low self-esteem and inferiority complex.
5. Do not mind about what people say about you. Some people are sadists. They can just say something just to make you feel sad.
6. Make friends with reasonable people who make you happy. Do not make friends with people who make jest of you or laugh at you over your challenges.
7. In your leisure time, keep yourself busy with your favourite hobbies like sports, games, watching movies, surfing the internet, playing computer games, etc.
8. Do not allow anyone to intimidate you with money and material things. A poor man today can become rich tomorrow. Change is constant.
9. No matter what you are going through today, do not give up. As long as there is life, there is hope.
10. Be very prayerful. Pray without ceasing. Prayer is a catalyst that can speed up your blessings to come to you on time.
11. Be courageous to go for what you want. Life is all about risk. If you don't take a risk, you will not get the desires of your heart.

Never change your originality for the sake of others. Because no one can play your role better than you.
You are the best. So be yourself...

HAVE A NICE LIFE.

𝐇𝐞𝐫𝐞 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝟏𝟒 𝐤𝐞𝐲 𝐩𝐨𝐢𝐧𝐭𝐬 𝐟𝐫𝐨𝐦 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐛𝐨𝐨𝐤: "𝐁𝐞𝐥𝐢𝐞𝐯𝐞 𝐢𝐧 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟"

1. Believe in yourself: The first step to achieving success is to believe in yourself and your abilities.

2. Visualize success: Use the power of visualization to see yourself achieving your goals and living the life you want.

3. Affirmations: Use positive affirmations to reprogram your subconscious mind and overcome negative self-talk.

4. Take action: Success requires action, so take small steps every day towards your goals.

5. Learn from failure: Failure is not a setback but an opportunity to learn and grow.

6. Surround yourself with positivity: Surround yourself with positive people and influences that support your goals.

7. Embrace change: Change is inevitable, so embrace it and use it as an opportunity to grow.

8. Focus on solutions: Instead of dwelling on problems, focus on finding solutions.

9. Be persistent: Success often requires persistence and perseverance in the face of obstacles.

10. Take responsibility: Take responsibility for your life and your choices, and don't blame others for your failures.

11. Practice gratitude: Cultivate an attitude of gratitude for what you have in life, rather than focusing on what you lack.

12. Develop a growth mindset: Adopt a growth mindset that sees challenges as opportunities for growth and learning.

13. Take care of yourself: Self-care is essential for maintaining physical, mental, and emotional well-being.

14. Keep learning: Continuously learn new skills and knowledge to stay relevant and adapt to new circumstances

BY AGE 40 YOU SHOULD BE SMART ENOUGH TO REALIZE THIS:

1. Someone makes 10x more than you do in a 9-5 job because they have more "leverage" with their work.

2. Distraction is the greatest killer of success. It stunts and destroys your brain.

3. You shouldn't take advice from people who are not where you want to be in life.

4. No one is coming to save your problems. Your life's 100% your responsibility.

5. You don't need 100 self-help books, all you need is action and self discipline.

6. Unless you went to college to learn a specific skill (ie. doctor, engineer, lawyer), you can make more money in the next 90 days just learning sales.

7. No one cares about you. So stop being shy, go out and create your chances.

8. If you find someone smarter than you, work with them, don't compete.

9. Smoking has 0 benefit in your life. This habit will only slow your thinking and lower your focus.

10. Comfort is the worst addiction and cheap ticket to depression.

11. Don't tell people more than they need to know, respect your privacy.

12. Avoid alcohol at all cost. Nothing worse than losing your senses and acting a fool.

13. Keep your standards high and don't settle for something because it's available.

14. The family you create is more important than the family you come from.

15. Train yourself to take nothing personally to save yourself from 99.99% of mental problems.

My dear Ladies:

Never use your assets (breast and butt) to get a man, especially a man who belongs to another woman. How you get a man is a good indication of how you will lose him.

A lot of men are butt chasers and breast watchers. Very few men are interested in a woman's mind, character or personality.

Yes,

The physical is what most men will notice about a woman first, but that's not enough to make a man fall in love with her. It will only make him lust to be with her. Share your mind with a man, not your assets. If you know what I mean?

Remain blessed 🙏

Don't marry someone you cannot trust , love , obey and tolerate .
Marriage is not all about getting someone that's beautiful or handsome .
Character is most important thing you must consider, a virtuous woman will give you happiness , long life and peace of mind in your marriage.
A godly man will make your marriage look like heaven on earth.
Don't involve yourself into any Marriage that will give you sorrow or agony , Marry someone you can fulfill destiny with that's one of the purpose of Marriage.

May God bless you 🙏

THREE STAGES OF A RELATIONSHIP
1. The Butterfly Stage
This is when your admiration for this person sky rockets. You only see the good, even their flaws seems like no big deal to you.
It's the "love is blind" stage..

2) The Knowledge Stage
This is when the butterflies have died and turned to worms, it's the rude shock stage, the "I never knew you could do this" stage... This is when all about the person, the little details that matter come to the fore. You now see Dracula in this person.

3) The Understanding Stage
At this stage you weigh everything, the good, the bad and the ugly and make your decision
You can now decide if you want to be with this person or not, based on the facts before you.
This stage takes time and time doesn't mean 80 years...

Remember, time doesn't change anything, it reveals what changed. At this stage it's safer to make your decision... However, whether you started a relationship with butterfly or not,

What will determine the success of your relationship are Commitment, contentment and communication. Attraction may start off a RELATIONSHIP; Purpose sustains it and Value progresses it.❤️❤️❤️💯👌

IMPORTANT POINTS TO NOTE 🎶

Many people do not know the meaning of relationship or read different meanings to that word.

A RELATIONSHIP is not about having a handsome boyfriend or having a beautiful girlfriend.

It’s not about looking for a perfect person because there isn’t any perfect person on earth.

It’s not about looking for a fair complexion or a rich person.

Having a lot of money doesn’t mean that one has too much pure love.

MONEY 💰 CAN’T BUY LOVE. 😍

A relationship is about finding someone who respects you.

Who cares about you in anyway he/she can afford.

Who understands you.

Who is proud of having you.

Who appreciates you the way you are .

Who loves you the way you are.

Who is faithful to you.

Who knows how to comfort you.

Who is supportive to you or in everything you are trying to do.

Who knows how to encourage
you to be your best.

Who would accept the worst of you.

Forgive you
And who will go through everything without giving up on u.

Such people are very rare to find these days.

It takes God himself to bring you such person just like He did for Adam.

But your relationship with God will be a major determinant in finding such person.

If you have got such person already just keep that person.

Handle him or her with care.

Be honest & contented with that person and don't do anything to hurt or let down that special person.

Remember, Relationship is a full time commitment/sacrifice and you must be willing to pay.

BEST SLEEPING HABITS FOR MARRIED COUPLES

1. Wear something easy to remove, comfortable and s*xy. Make the work of your partner easy to peel off your clothes to reveal the naked you. Yummy lingerie, loose boxer. Sleep naked for best results.

2. Brush your teeth to encourage kissing.

3. Don't carry work to bed.

4. Minimize the use of phones or laptops. Your partner needs attention, the bedroom is sacred.

5. Move the baby to a separate room (if your finances allow you to and you have a home of more than one bedroom) when the baby is of age. The child might have been conceived in the bedroom but is not meant to live in your bedroom that is an exclusive island for two.

6. Gentleman have that one spot besides her lips you kiss each night; whether it's her forehead, fingers, shoulders, back or butt. Lady, stroke him with your gentle touch, your fingers speaking love

7. Make a habit of praising each other's body, it makes you both comfortable and relax. Talk those bedroom matters.

8. Pray together before you sleep, and when you wake up.

9. Apologize and forgive if any wrong was done during the day. Don't sleep with a grudge or anger.

10. Read your partner's body language. If you or your partner desires to make love, then rise to the occasion or wet up to the occasion; whether night or morning glory.

11. Have pillow talks, open your heart and lips and talk intimate stuff. Say how you feel; are you troubled, grateful, broken?

12. Cuddle up when you feel sleep is fast approaching, drown into sleep as your bodies intertwine.

13. Tell each other how much you mean to each other. Your partner never gets enough of your affirmation.

14. Incase one of you farts, laugh about it (some farts are unstoppable)

15. Cover your partner incase you wake up in the middle of the night and find your partner outside the duvet/ blanket.

16. Kiss your partner when you come back from peeing in the middle of the night

17. Hold your partner close and pray when your partner wakes up terrified by a nightmare.

18. Give a goodnight and goodmorning kiss.

19. Spend some few minutes of love in bed even when the alarm wakes you up.

20. Carry the love you have for each other even when you leave the bed.
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HOW TO KEEP YOUR MARRIAGE BED WARM

1. Kiss and make out with your spouse often

2. Go to bed at the same time as much as possible, not one finding the other asleep

3. Stay faithful to your spouse

4. Have pillow talks. Intimate conversations before sleeping

5. Don't argue. Always ask yourself "Are you speaking to your spouse with a smile?"

6. Put away the phone in bed. No Facebook, WhatsApp, news or business when it's intimate time

7. Praise each other's body, character and achievements in bed

8. Sleep naked if you can. If it's too cold, wear something attractive

9. Play love songs or worship music in the bedroom to set the mood for warmth

10. Make love as often as you can. Sweat

11. Take time to pray. Take turns. Today it's his turn, tomorrow hers

12. Cuddle up. Stroke each other's skin

13. Get playful and naughty. S***k, tease, gently pinch, flirt, dance, rub your butt on him, poke her butt with your p***s

14. Share the same blanket/duvet

15. Sleep holding each other. Cuddling. His hand between her breasts

16. Brush your teeth. Fresh breath makes closeness easier

17. Dim the lights. This makes your hearing and touching senses focus

18. Talk with breaks of kisses. Whisper

19. Wish each other a good night

20. Greet each other with a good morning kiss.

One Day!

One day someone will walk into your life and get it right where everyone else got it wrong. One day you won't have to wait for a call or a text back. One day you won't be the only one giving your all.

One day you'll finally meet someone who wants to help you grow in life. One day you'll finally meet someone who isn't afraid to give "love" another chance. One day you'll finally meet someone you can trust with everything.

One day you'll have your best friend, your biggest supporter and your teammate all wrapped up into one person.

And when it comes, I hope it lasts💞

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*SOCIALISM:* You have two cows, and you give one to your neighbor.

*COMMUNISM:* You have two cows, and the government takes both and gives you milk.

*FASCISM:* You have two cows. The government takes both and sells you milk.

*NA**SM:* You have two cows. The government takes them and kills you.

*CAPITALISM:* You have two cows. You sell one and buy a male. You multiply your cows, and there is economic growth. You sell them, you retire, and you live on your profits.

*MODERN CAPITALISM:* You have two cows, you sell one and buy a male. You multiply your cows, and you buy those of your neighbors. Then your neighbors become your shepherds, you pay them in monkey currencies, and they die poor.

*AMERICAN SOCIETY:* You have two cows, you sell one and you have to make the other one to produce milk like 4 cows. By stressing of producing beyond her capacity, she dies. You hire a consultant to understand this death.

*FRENCH SOCIETY:* You have two cows. You go on strike because you want a third cow.

*GERMAN SOCIETY:* You have two cows, you modify them so that they live 100 years, eat once a month, and take care of themselves.

*CHINESE SOCIETY:* You have two cows, you sell milk to your compatriots, and you produce plastic milk to export to the rest of the world. You become rich.

*BLACK/ AFRICAN SOCIETY:* You have two cows, you eat them all in one month, and you dream that donors or the international community give you more cows. When that doesn't happen, you go to a church and hope for miracle cows. You fast 40 days and 40 nights without eating or drinking so that the cows will fall from Heaven. At last, you die in extreme poverty.
Blessed Month and happy New Year

THINGS TO AVOID IF YOU REALLY WANT TO LIVE LONGER IN THIS LIFE.

🌹 Avoid sharing the same plate of food with your former enemy who later becomes your close friend, because you don't know what thier next plan is.

🌹Avoid lending your friend money,except such friend is well trusted bcus many have died because they lend money, thier friend will go to places to eliminate them so they won't pay the money..

🌹 keep away from a married woman as a man and also a man as a woman.

🌹 is not every good thing coming your way u need to announce cos many has evil heart and can stop it or eliminate you..

🌹 avoid betraying someone no matter how much is involved..

🌹not everyone is happy that you are alive so
don't eat with everyone..

🌹 not everyone should know your way about bcus you can easily be trapped by your enemies

🌹 avoid keeping a jealous friend, any friend you know that they like competing with u is jealous.. avoid them.

REMAIN BLESSED

Ladies are we ready for this conversation?

Your Man tells you that he's not planning on having kids or getting married anytime soon as he is still sorting out his life.

Or that he wants to have a second degree, a proper house and a bigger car first.
Or that he wants to travel abroad make money and come back for you.

You accepted and tell him you are ready to wait for him no matter how long it takes because you love him.

Then, he travelled, or he goes to work everyday,
and from work he goes straight to class.
While he is out there studying, building himself and developing himself,
You are at home watching all the Telemundo series, Telenovelas, African Magic, Zee World, etc

No plan of making your own life better
Your only plan and strategy is you praying for him to succeed so that he will come and marry you.

All you do everyday is cook rice and chicken and put in the microwave for him.
Sweep and mop the house.
No intelligent conversation and contribution.

Sis, see ehn
He will come back home as a big boy
He will finish school and succeed as a big boy
And as a big boy he is going to have a different taste
And the first thing he is going to do is to replace you!!
And God will not pun!sh him

And that's when we are going to hear your famous lines...
"I was with him through thick and thin when he had nothing, now that he's successful he thinks I am NOTHING"

Sis, yes! You are right.
You have always been NOTHING but a maid to him .

Empower yourself to be the woman who is ready to face the world.
Empower yourself to be the woman your man wants to be with.
A woman who will be able to carry the family if anything happens.
A woman that is difficult to replace.

Ladies, invest more in empowering yourselves for a better future other than fancy clothes, expensive hairs and make up.
Beauty fades and become irrelevant, but a brilliant mind is always relevant and irresistible.

Think about this in your spare time.
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THE TEN GUIDELINES OF MAKING A HOME..

1. Know that a house only becomes a home when people living in it have a good relationship with each other. The warmth of a home is built from love for each other.

2. Don't turn your house into a lodge where you only visit to sleep and leave the next day. Be present at home physically and also emotionally.

3. The home should be home for everyone; the husband, wife and the children. It should be comfortable for all, accommodating the personalities of all. None feeling like an outsider.

4. Refrain from using "My"... "My house, my TV"... use "Our" to communicate to your spouse you are a team. You're a family and partners in growth and success.

5. Try as much as possible not to go to bed angry with each other. Nothing communicates home best like a good night's sleep. Overcome your egos and emotions.

6. Serve each other as a couple at home. Serving means helping, meeting each other's needs, lending a hand. The husband should feel as a King, the wife too should feel as a Queen.

7. Be courteous to each other. Use the words "Please", "Thank you", "I am sorry". Kindness makes people feel at home. Be kind to avoid rudeness to your partner.

8. Be consistent in how you treat each other. Don't treat each other well only when there are visitors. And when visitors are to come (be it family or friends), inform each other so that you prepare to host well.

9. Always make sure how you leave each when you part to go outside and how you greet each other when you return home is warm. The start and ending of a conversation, determines its flow. Kiss bye when leaving the house and hug welcomes when returning.

10. Put away the phone and gadgets at an agreed time so that you focus on the family through conversations, family games, eating together, doing a hobby together. Devices are stealing a lot of family time.

Food For Thought

Don't be proud of your beautiful skin and lose a man who was predestined for you by God.

Don't desire to marry a man because of his money but desire a man with a vision.

Let your certificates not deceive you but let your wisdom direct you.1

Problems will always be in your marital home if you are looking for a rich husband.

Firms have put a lot of young girls in the wrong relationships that end up being battlegrounds.

Don't divorce your husband because he is poor and ends up being a street beggar.

Marry a man who loves you and not the one you love.

Education will not give you a good wife and husband unless you lower yourself down like a baby.

Your job should not make you arrogant to men seeking your hand in marriage.

A caring man is better than a handsome

man.who doesn't care
It's not all about handsome, as handsome will fade away.but caring will be there. ..💝💘🤍💘

Ladies stop insisting that he must be handsome.. you need a good man who has a heart of gold, not handsome that will fade out one day .✨💦💥

Do you know that , you will be in trouble if you marry a cheating handsome man . girl will be perching around him .he will be sleeping with many girls all the time.🥂🤏🥂

Don't put yourself into depression nor frustrations in the hand of handsome man.

It's always difficult to have handsome man alone . even if he don't want to cheat, some ladies out will find a means to lure him into cheating .🤝💐🌙🤝

Sweetheart remove your eyes from that handsome Brother in your church, that didn't want you, and start loving the one you think that is ugly .
Handsomeness is not a guarantee for everlasting and successful marriage...it is what you call your dog he will answer.
If you tell people that your ugly partner is handsome so be it .if you tell people that your partner is ugly so be it too .🥀💐

You need a good husband and father to your unborn children.
You need a father to your children not a public tap that everybody can fetch water from.🍒🌹✨

Nurture your heart to accept him , accommodate him and give him a sense of belongings to your heart.🌻🌺🌻

May God bless your partner beyond measure.
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Once you lose her/him you'll look for her/him in every Lady/man you'll be dating & you'll not find her/him because she)he was unique in her/his own way

Date a woman who plans on how to make money with you, not how to get money from you. Marry a woman with a vision
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FACTS ABOUT WOMEN.

A woman will block you, delete your number and tell you never to call her again and still expect you to call her. Don't ask me how, it's only women can explain it better 💯

In the midst of argument with her, don't bother exchanging words with her because it's not her that's speaking instead listen to her and let her continue vomiting. And when she's cool, embrace her and let her know how much you love her ❤️🥰

Listen bro, a woman that truly love you will block you on Whatsp, Facebook and still use her friends Facebook account to see how you are holding up. 🤦

They may breath fire in front of you and break down in tears in a Conner 🤔 their hearts are softer than a new born babys feet's🤦 HONESTLY

Until you realized and understand that most women speak in opposite meanings whenever they are mad and angry at you, then you will forever fall in same trap of counting your Ex's.🙄

A woman that truly love you will have a fight with you sleep in the same bed with you and gave space for 10 people's in the middle and still be turning slowly to check if you turned your back at her or face her.

What am trying to say... Don't act upon angry women's words. Most of the times, that gender don't really mean what they say.

May God give our men more wisdom Ameen 💕

LADIES, HERE ARE THE FACTS YOU HAVE TO KNOW ABOUR MEN.

1. Every male( including a little boy) has the instinct of detecting disrespect and dishonour from your words and actions towards them .

2. Men feed on honour and respect. They value it over food. Do all you like to a man but don't touch his respect and honour.

3. Men hate it when they're talking to you and you are talking back at him. He hates it when he is talking and you are walking away.

4. Men hate to be challenged by their wife. Challenging him is stirring up the beast in him. That is unprofitable for you, woman

5. Men can do anything for their peace of mind, even it makes them look like a coward. When a man looses his peace at home, his life is about to relocate to another place to seek it with anyone who can give it him.

6. When a man is complaining about a particular thing, he has reached his breaking points of endurance. Do your best to pay attention to that thing and find a way to help him.

7. When a man is talking to you, he needs you to be silent and pay attention to him by focusing on him. Your calmness can make him reduce the tone of his voice if he was shouting at you.

8. The silence of a woman scares a man naturally, he can do anything just to make sure he finds out what went wrong.

9. A man is never never too busy for the woman he loves.
10. What a man wants from his woman after every day activities is peace of mind. Keep the issues away from him till he has been refreshed with food and warm/cool bath.

11. Whenever a man gets a gift for his woman, it means he has thought about her deeply before doing so.

12. A man is not always far from his investment. He either carries it in his mind or he go with it anywhere he goes.

13. Men love s*x . Women love lo******ng.

14. Men shade the most honest tears after children since they rarely show emotions.

15. Every man you see has a baby side of them that yearn for deep pampering and petting. That's why we call them baby 👌👌👌👌👌👌