Three Day Rule

Your vision for your future is YOUR vision. It's less about the partner you want to share this life with, and more about how you define "the good life". Don't get *too* specific with your vision, but understand what you need to feel happy and fulfilled.

Once you know your vision, let it be your guide when dating intentionally and only investing time in those who can share your vision.

Are you sick of dating or just sick of dating apps?

Could you benefit from a shake-up? If you're only dating your specific *type*, but it's not working out for you, what do you have to lose by testing the waters with someone you'd normally swipe left on?

Your success is our success 🥰

We're celebrating today because Nate and Amy are engaged!

"Rebecca, Stacey and the entire Three Day Rule team were an absolute pleasure to work with! From start to finish they were super attentive, by biggest cheerleaders, and helped me grow tremendously. They helped me find my soulmate and I cannot thank them enough for all that the entire team did!"

If you've been single for a long time, don't sop believing in your self worth. The right partner is out there, on their own journey towards finding you too.

This is your reminder that you're worthy and deserving a love that is lasting, meaningful, healthy and reciprocated.

These people invested in themselves, trusted the process, and remained open minded. Now, they each have a happy relationship as a result. We're ready to make your our next success story.

What does your dating self talk sound like? Are you as encouraging, supportive and hopeful for yourself as you would be for a friend?

Tune in to what you tell yourself about dating, and make some helpful swaps to bring a mindset that sets you up for success.

Just a happy little update from a client who wrapped up with us a few months ago. When her membership ended, she was starting to see one of her matches. Today, he's her boyfriend!

It does take a lot of trust, time and (let's be honest) money to hire us..... but what if it works? We think you deserve the chance to find out.

Do you know the difference?

The right relationship with stretch you, require you to grow, and ask for the best of you.

The wrong relationships are confusing, cause doubt, hold you back and limit your growth.

Relationships shouldn't feel hard, but they do require you to put in the work.

If you're feeling a little down about dating, we know you're not alone. Position yourself for success by adapting the right state of mind.

A feeling of safety is a foundation for a relationship and is often the thing that gets you through the hard times.

Feeling safe means feeling supported, calm, secure and "at home". It's actually the opposite of butterflies and fireworks.

It's what your matchmaker wants you to know now, before you waste time seeking that elusive spark that has no bearing on the health and happiness of your relationship.

Position yourself for success! If you're guilty of any of these bad habits, it's time to make a s**t to date in a way that is sustainable and intentional. If you're not sure where to turn, it's time we chat.

It doesn't have to be that complicated! Our advice-- don't play games or keep them guessing. Show your cards and prioritize keeping the momentum going

If the goal is a meaningful relationship, a mindless or passive approach won't get you there. Have you adapted these intentional practices?

How do you factor attraction into your search for a partner?

Stay single until you find someone who is intentional about building the life you want together.

The dating apps have boiled dating down to simply deciding whether we "like" someone based on a few photos and the answers to a few prompts --- this tells us almost nothing about whether this person is right for you or even ready for a relationship in the first place.

Our matchmakers can go deeper. We ask the tough questions and bring actual relationship expertise into the equation. It's no wonder our clients find more success with us in 6 months then they did after years on the apps.

Sometimes, the smallest mindset shifts make all the difference. Assuming that someone likes you allows you to get out of your own head and to be truly present on the date.

Pointing out the things you like about your partner can help put them at ease with you and strengthen the relationship.

While it might feel natural to remain guarded, and it can feel vulnerable to express that you like someone, the payoff for letting your guard down is closeness.

Make sure your compliments are *not* about their physical appearance, but instead about their humor, their compassion, their curiosity, or whatever unique quality that makes them attractive to you.

You can't make someone become emotionally available. Accept nothing less than the person who is ready for the real thing, and move on from everyone else.

If it feels like you're just swiping through a sea of people are *aren't ready*, let us show you the people are.

Moral of the story: Take the pressure off the first date -- it's not going to tell you everything you need to know. If the first date is sweeping you off your feet, it's probably *not* really love. If you're sensing compatibility, see things through and see what grows.

Our dating rules to live by. If you're ready for the ultimate upgrade, #5 is for you.

Don't let your pursuit of perfection prevent you from building something great.

While it might be easy to label everything negative as a "red flag" or "dealbreaker", part of being in a relationship is working through some highs and lows together, with a foundation of trust, communication, and support.

If you're experiencing these signs, your situationship is *very* unlikely to evolve into something more serious.

If you find yourself in a situationship, it's important to cut things off and make yourself physically and emotionally available to someone who is truly ready to commit to you.

Then, when you start dating someone new, start things off on the right foot by being open about your intentions, clear with your communication, and mindful of your own standards.

If you're looking for a reason to put off dating or finding a relationship, you'll always find one. If you're waiting to. be the most perfect version of yourself, you'll be waiting a long time. Instead of staying closed off until your "ready", open yourself up to the possibility that someone might accept you as you are, and you can enjoy growing together.

Are you bringing your communication A-game to your dating life? . Communication is important at every stage of a relationship, and the early dating phase is no exception. While it might be harder to communicate effectively with someone you're just getting to know, use our tips to make it easier.

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Self preservation is natural, but can hold you back if you let your impulse for self-preservation overrule your desire to find real love. You can't have both. Recognizing the difference between setting healthy boundaries and actually just pushing people away may help to crack open your walls and let someone great in.