Three Day Rule

Three Day Rule

Want a relationship but sick of swiping? Three Day Rule is making quality matchmaking accessible


It's what your matchmaker wants you to know now, before you waste time seeking that elusive spark that has no bearing on the health and happiness of your relationship.

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Position yourself for success! If you're guilty of any of these bad habits, it's time to make a s**t to date in a way that is sustainable and intentional. If you're not sure where to turn, it's time we chat.


It doesn't have to be that complicated! Our advice-- don't play games or keep them guessing. Show your cards and prioritize keeping the momentum going


If the goal is a meaningful relationship, a mindless or passive approach won't get you there. Have you adapted these intentional practices?

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How do you factor attraction into your search for a partner?

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Stay single until you find someone who is intentional about building the life you want together.


The dating apps have boiled dating down to simply deciding whether we "like" someone based on a few photos and the answers to a few prompts --- this tells us almost nothing about whether this person is right for you or even ready for a relationship in the first place.

Our matchmakers can go deeper. We ask the tough questions and bring actual relationship expertise into the equation. It's no wonder our clients find more success with us in 6 months then they did after years on the apps.


Sometimes, the smallest mindset shifts make all the difference. Assuming that someone likes you allows you to get out of your own head and to be truly present on the date.

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Pointing out the things you like about your partner can help put them at ease with you and strengthen the relationship.

While it might feel natural to remain guarded, and it can feel vulnerable to express that you like someone, the payoff for letting your guard down is closeness.

Make sure your compliments are *not* about their physical appearance, but instead about their humor, their compassion, their curiosity, or whatever unique quality that makes them attractive to you.


You can't make someone become emotionally available. Accept nothing less than the person who is ready for the real thing, and move on from everyone else.

If it feels like you're just swiping through a sea of people are *aren't ready*, let us show you the people are.

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Moral of the story: Take the pressure off the first date -- it's not going to tell you everything you need to know. If the first date is sweeping you off your feet, it's probably *not* really love. If you're sensing compatibility, see things through and see what grows.


Our dating rules to live by. If you're ready for the ultimate upgrade, #5 is for you.

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Don't let your pursuit of perfection prevent you from building something great.

While it might be easy to label everything negative as a "red flag" or "dealbreaker", part of being in a relationship is working through some highs and lows together, with a foundation of trust, communication, and support.

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If you're experiencing these signs, your situationship is *very* unlikely to evolve into something more serious.

If you find yourself in a situationship, it's important to cut things off and make yourself physically and emotionally available to someone who is truly ready to commit to you.

Then, when you start dating someone new, start things off on the right foot by being open about your intentions, clear with your communication, and mindful of your own standards.


If you're looking for a reason to put off dating or finding a relationship, you'll always find one. If you're waiting to. be the most perfect version of yourself, you'll be waiting a long time. Instead of staying closed off until your "ready", open yourself up to the possibility that someone might accept you as you are, and you can enjoy growing together.


Are you bringing your communication A-game to your dating life? . Communication is important at every stage of a relationship, and the early dating phase is no exception. While it might be harder to communicate effectively with someone you're just getting to know, use our tips to make it easier.


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Self preservation is natural, but can hold you back if you let your impulse for self-preservation overrule your desire to find real love. You can't have both. Recognizing the difference between setting healthy boundaries and actually just pushing people away may help to crack open your walls and let someone great in.


Meet Three Day Rule’s newest couple! We matched these two back in January, and they’ve recently made it official! They’ve built a strong foundation on solid trust, strong communication, and lots of fun adventures together. Thank you for allowing us the opportunity to bring you two together


Did you know there is a difference between the two? If your dates are going ok, but you're struggling to find something deeper, let's delve into this together.

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Sparks flash and disappear, but the slow burn grows and lasts


If you're stuck in a situationship, a friends-with-benefits relationship, or the on-again-off-again thing that you know you really should end for good -- this is your sign to free yourself from the wrong person and make space for what's right. Let yourself become both emotionally and physically available for the person who is ready and willing to commit to you fully.

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We won't sugar coat it, with Valentine's Day coming up, you're probably thinking about how hard it is to be single right now. And while it *is* hard to date or be single when you don't want to be, there *are* some silver linings to consider.

We challenge you to make the most of this time. Leaning in to some of the joys and lessons of the single life might even be a necessary step along the path towards finding the love your looking for. As always, we are here to help!

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"I am so grateful for Three Day Rule! The process was so easy (and fun), and introduced me to the love of my life, Ravi. We wouldn't have met if it weren't for this experience; I am so glad I took the plunge and invested in my future."


If you're pursing a bigger picture goal, the key is to make your approach sustainable. That could mean different things to different people, but if you're dating in a way that drains you, discourages you, or simply takes up an unreasonable amount of your time, you're unlikely to stick with it long enough to find what you're looking for.

It's one of the many reasons why outsourcing your dating life to one of our matchmakers can increase your odds of success. It's literally your matchmaker's job to do the hard parts that you can't reasonably do for any extended period of time. How could a new approach change the way you think about dating?


If you're holding super tightly to a specific vision of exactly what your person will be like (where they went to school, what kind of job they have, what their family is like, how they dress.....), its time to LET. IT. GO!

Open yourself up to the possibility of something different. Let go of control and be willing to be pleasantly surprised.


Sekai and Ndeh are proof that the slow burn works! While they knew early on that their connection was something special, these two took there time to get to know each other and build a relationship rooted in trust, vulnerability and open communication. Sekai's matchmaker notes that the early stages of their relationship were practically anxiety-free, a testament to taking the time to build something healthy and secure. Now, they are engaged and building a beautiful future together!

Sekai and Ndeh - we are thrilled for you two! Congratulations on the start of a wonderful life together!

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Mindless swiping is so 2023.

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Sarah and Varun are engaged! Just about a year after we introduced them, Varun popped the question on trip to Aruba. After their first date, Sarah told her matchmaker "life would be so much fun with him", and since then, that has proven to be quite true! Congratulations you two -- we can't wait to see your fun life continue to unfold!


We give the spark WAY too much power, and often completely misinterpret it to mean something entirely different from what it actually means. Remember -- chemistry most often does not bread compatibility, compatibility can bread chemistry.

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