Beth Sage

When fear drives your choices, it can feel like protection at first. But eventually, it can override your peace, your faith, and your ability to trust yourself. Recognizing fear as a signal is the first step toward reclaiming your spiritual freedom.

Continuing the Holy Red Flags! series, we’re diving into Signal 2 from my guide 10 Signals of Spiritual Control. You can read the full guide on my link in bio, but this week I want to focus on fear and how it can shape decisions in spiritual environments.

Signal 2: Fear becomes a spiritual motivator. In controlling environments, warnings about punishment, loss of blessing, or spiritual danger can shape your decisions more than faith or peace. Over time, fear may start guiding your choices instead of your own discernment. If this feels familiar, you are not alone.

Have you ever felt like you could not ask a question in a spiritual space? Maybe you stayed quiet. Maybe you told yourself it was not important. Or maybe you felt like asking would say something about your faith. If you are open to sharing, I would love to hear your experience.

In By Their Fruits, there is a moment where a concern is raised about whether the ministry resembles a cult. The response was not a conversation. It was the end of one. No curiosity. No dialogue. Just closure. Sometimes control does not look aggressive. Sometimes it looks like answers that leave no room for questions. If you have experienced that, you are not alone.

What happens when questions do not feel safe anymore? You may start second guessing yourself. You may rehearse what to say before speaking. Or decide it is easier not to speak at all. Over time, this does not just affect your voice. It affects your ability to trust your own thoughts. Healthy faith makes space for honesty, even the uncomfortable kind.

Welcome to the Holy Red Flags! series. This is the start of a new mini-series based on my guide 10 Signals of Spiritual Control. Over the next few weeks, I’ll be sharing each signal and talking about what it looks like in real life. You can read the full guide on my link in bio, but I want to take a moment to walk through it with you here.

Signal #1: Leadership cannot be questioned. In healthy spiritual environments, questions are welcomed. They create space for growth, understanding, and deeper faith. But in controlling environments, questions can feel risky. You may start filtering your thoughts, staying quiet, or avoiding certain topics altogether. Over time, silence can feel safer than honesty. If this feels familiar, you are not alone.

Thanks to everyone who came out to support! It was slow but good practice for future events 🎪

I’m excited to be part of the Local Author Fair at the Poisoned Pen Bookstore in Scottsdale!

It will be a wonderful morning featuring 12 local independently published authors, and I’ll be there to talk about my novel By Their Fruits and sign copies.

If you’re in the area, I’d love to meet you.

📍 Poisoned Pen Bookstore – Scottsdale
⏰ 10:00 AM – 1:00 PM

Stop by, say hello, and meet some incredible local writers.

📚 𝐈’𝐦 𝐠𝐨𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐖𝐈𝐃𝐄.

If you’ve been meaning to grab 𝘉𝘺 𝘛𝘩𝘦𝘪𝘳 𝘍𝘳𝘶𝘪𝘵𝘴 on Kindle Unlimited, now’s the moment. The 𝗳𝗿𝗲𝗲 𝗞𝗶𝗻𝗱𝗹𝗲 𝗲𝗱𝗶𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻 𝗶𝘀 𝗼𝗻𝗹𝘆 𝗮𝘃𝗮𝗶𝗹𝗮𝗯𝗹𝗲 𝗳𝗼𝗿 𝗮 𝗹𝗶𝗺𝗶𝘁𝗲𝗱 𝘁𝗶𝗺𝗲 before I leave KDP Select.

I’ve had several requests to make the eBook available 𝗼𝘂𝘁𝘀𝗶𝗱𝗲 𝗼𝗳 𝗔𝗺𝗮𝘇𝗼𝗻, and I’m listening. Stepping away from KDP Select allows for 𝘄𝗶𝗱𝗲𝗿 𝗱𝗶𝘀𝘁𝗿𝗶𝗯𝘂𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻, 𝗺𝗼𝗿𝗲 𝗳𝗹𝗲𝘅𝗶𝗯𝗹𝗲 𝗽𝗿𝗼𝗺𝗼𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝘀, 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗮𝗰𝗰𝗲𝘀𝘀 𝗳𝗼𝗿 𝗿𝗲𝗮𝗱𝗲𝗿𝘀 𝘄𝗵𝗼 𝗱𝗼𝗻’𝘁 𝗹𝗶𝘃𝗲 𝗶𝗻𝘀𝗶𝗱𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗔𝗺𝗮𝘇𝗼𝗻 𝗲𝗰𝗼𝘀𝘆𝘀𝘁𝗲𝗺.

The heart of this book has always been about reaching people 𝘸𝘩𝘦𝘳𝘦𝘷𝘦𝘳 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘺 𝘢𝘳𝘦 𝘰𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘪𝘳 𝘴𝘱𝘪𝘳𝘪𝘵𝘶𝘢𝘭 𝘫𝘰𝘶𝘳𝘯𝘦𝘺—not just where one platform allows it to exist. Going wide aligns with that mission.

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