Paul J Cramer
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Paul J. Cramer
Author of Burnt Peanut Butter Toast
Speaker on the hidden patterns that shape our lives I will be of service to others.
I will always lead through action. I aspire to be a catalyst for change. I am committed to helping people believe in the possible. I will listen to understand, I will learn with passion, I will love without prejudice, and I will let go of old ideas. I will create deep connections with those about me. Whether I am a salesperson, entrepreneur, executive, author, husband, father, friend, or member of the community it is my mission to have a positive impact on every interaction in my life.
04/18/2026
I thought I was staying on top of things.
I was trying to feel okay.
That shows up differently than I think.
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04/16/2026
I used to call it discipline.
It felt productive.
It was tension.
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04/14/2026
I thought I moved on.
It just got quieter.
04/09/2026
I thought I had moved on.
I wasn’t thinking about it.
I wasn’t dealing with it.
So I assumed it was behind me.
It wasn’t.
It just showed up differently.
How I reacted.
How I worked.
How I showed up with people.
No one tells you that part.
Link in bio.
03/27/2026
You’re not broken.
If you were, this would be easier.
Because then you could just fix it.
But that’s not what’s happening.
You’re running a pattern you didn’t choose.
A way of thinking.
A way of reacting.
A way of protecting yourself that made sense at one point…
…but doesn’t anymore.
And the hard part?
It doesn’t feel like a pattern.
It just feels like you.
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That’s where this work starts.
03/15/2026
A few years ago I wrote a book called Burnt Peanut Butter Toast.
At the time I thought I was writing a story.
Looking back, I realize I was writing about something deeper.
The way we survive difficult moments quietly becomes the way we live everything.
Most of us don’t notice it.
We build careers. Families. Reputations.
But underneath we’re still reacting to something older — an old fear, an old belief, an old moment we never fully faced.
This year I’m releasing a new edition of the book.
Not because the story changed.
But because I understand it better now.
You can read the first chapter free in the link in my bio.
Every so often a book, a story or a conversation comes along that motivates us to "explore inward". BURNT PEANUT BUTTER TOAST has had an overwhelming response and we couldn't be more pleased! If you have not read it yet, do yourself a favor and READ IT. If you have read it...share it with someone you care about😍
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